Does the impact of cheating matters if...

[ModernMatt]

cheating is cheating in my opinion...regardless of the other persons status. The shame will still be on me either way because I somehow got into a relationship with a thot

 

[BEER]

People attribute too much motive to cheating.

If a woman cheats on me, it's because she's a human garbage can with no morals regarding the integrity and dignity of relationships. Period.

I'm never going to stop and think "what did that dude have that I didn't?" because her motives don't matter. Throw out the trash and walk away.

 

[Ogata]

cheating is cheating in my opinion...regardless of the other persons status. The shame will still be on me either way because I somehow got into a relationship with a thot

That's why it's easier to not get attached in modern times. Enjoy each other's company while it lasts. I mean you can't control other human beings free will or the novelty wears off then their shitty behavior shows up which is hard to detect.

It's best to find a passion like martial arts so you have something that immerses you in a fulfilling way.

People attribute too much motive to cheating.

If a woman cheats on me, it's because she's a human garbage can with no morals regarding the integrity and dignity of relationships. Period.

I'm never going to stop and think "what did that dude have that I didn't?" because her motives don't matter. Throw out the trash and walk away.

I live in an ultra lib town and the view is, if she cheats on then ask yourself what you did that pushed her away.

My rebuttal would be, how about break up and then go out and sling dick.

 

[BEER]

I live in an ultra lib town and the view is, if she cheats on then ask yourself what you did that pushed her away.

My rebuttal would be, how about break up and then go out and sling dick.

I'm very liberal, and it's a retarded way to think. If someone cheats on me, they did it because either (a) they didn't have control over their sexual urges (which is nonsense) or the far more likely (b), they're just a scumbag.

The posters saying to evaluate ourselves because there must be some value that the "other guy" had that I don't is silly.

I've been the other guy. Multiple times with more than one woman. I've only known beforehand twice, and I'll admit they were shitty decisions on my part, but always moreso on theirs.

In both situations that I was initially aware of, the guys that were getting cheated on were better looking, better earning men than me. Maybe I have a bigger dick than them, but that couldn't possibly be a motivation since they wouldn't know whether or not that was true until the cheating started.

Women don't have nefarious plans for cheating. Neither do men. They get horny around someone who is reciprocating the vibe and make the decision to be a shitty person. Point blank.

 

[Vil7]

I mean, either way I'm ending up in a white Bronco speeding down the freeway.

White is a good nondescript color. A white utility van would be even better at blending in.

 

[Midnighter]

White is a good nondescript color. A white utility van would be even better at blending in.

 

[Slick_36]

I kind of feel the opposite, if they cheated with a low life, I'm just assuming she's a loser without self control. If she cheated with a much more successful guy, I'm feeling like an insecure failure and she's either leaving me for him or it would forever fuck with you. I mean the relationship is over either way, I'm just saying even if you tried you would always question things.

 

[Organic Damage]

If your gf is engaging in scumbag behavior I'm not sure how much rationalizations matter. Unless you personally rate a CEO as more forgiveable than a hood thug... but at the end of the day, cheating is cheating, isn't it?

The issue isn't who she cheated with, but that she cheated rather than just moving on with the other guy. Isn't it?

 

[Robocok]

Well, I was going to be upset when I saw him balls deep, but he seems polite and well educated so I guess it stings a little less.. Silver lining, he has good credit..

Lmao, cuck talk

 

[Ice That Jaw]

How about you quit dating sluts.

 

[Goonerview]

There was a bit of discussion about cheating and some say a girl cheating on you with some hoodrat thug type is way worse than a guy who is CEO/actor/lawyer.

To not mince words here this is about culture not color. The idea of your girl sleeping with low life thug means that you are looked upon in a worse light than if she were to be sleeping with a successful person.

This is a sentiment that some folks feel while some feel that cheating is cheating regardless of who happens to be the guy.

I have mixed feelings, if I am a provider of relationship and the side guy is some broke thug I would be ready to commit murder because he gets it for free while I have to work for it. But if I am poor and the side guy is rich I would feel ashamed of myself for not having enough money. Like a prize fighter who runs out of cardio.

In the upcoming movies this theme is being discussed.

Asking for a friend, huh?

 

[hillelslovak87]

If your woman went out on you, that probably says about as much about you as it does her. That being said, if a woman cheated on me, it wouldn't matter with who, I would be out. The bond between you was obviously broken long ago, whether you cared to see it or not.

 

[hillelslovak87]

Well, I was going to be upset when I saw him balls deep, but he seems polite and well educated so I guess it stings a little less.. Silver lining, he has good credit..

Lmao, cuck talk

"He has her wipe his jizz off of her mouth with a high thread count cumkerchief before sending her home to me. Classy."

 

[djacobox372]

thinly veiled racist post.

 

[spin]

her cheating means she's not the person you thought she was to begin with.

so if you want to let this lesser, and sadly more accurate, version of the woman you were into affect how you feel about you, it's your own doing.

 

[pookiyama]

Ask this to a psychiatrist. Really.

(S)He won't answer your question, but they should be able to give you some insight as to exactly what's wrong with you.

 

[I Am Legion]

No woman that dates me would be attracted to a ghetto hood rat. I once stopped hitting a girl That told me she thought Eminem was hot with his oversized white T shirt and baggy jeans. On the opposite side of the coin, I’m not attracted to Hoodrats either....intelligence is big to me so someone that speaks like Rosie Perez mixed with Nikki Minaj is out.

 

[Ogata]

I'm very liberal, and it's a retarded way to think. If someone cheats on me, they did it because either (a) they didn't have control over their sexual urges (which is nonsense) or the far more likely (b), they're just a scumbag.

The posters saying to evaluate ourselves because there must be some value that the "other guy" had that I don't is silly.

I've been the other guy. Multiple times with more than one woman. I've only known beforehand twice, and I'll admit they were shitty decisions on my part, but always moreso on theirs.

In both situations that I was initially aware of, the guys that were getting cheated on were better looking, better earning men than me. Maybe I have a bigger dick than them, but that couldn't possibly be a motivation since they wouldn't know whether or not that was true until the cheating started.

Women don't have nefarious plans for cheating. Neither do men. They get horny around someone who is reciprocating the vibe and make the decision to be a shitty person. Point blank.

I agree with what your saying but now a days there is a cultural push of having men step up and be better spouses. So lots of folks echo these sentiment:

Asking for a friend, huh?

Maybe...

 

[punky brewster]

What if she cheats with an average dude who kind of looks like you, and is in the same tax bracket as you......

 

[koolinkunming]

Neither. She cheated. Time for her to hit the road.

She’ll fuck whatever she’s looking for. Rich or thug, whatever. The actual problem is what are YOU missing?

Edit: and that she’s a whore is a problem too, of course.