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There was a bit of discussion about cheating and some say a girl cheating on you with some hoodrat thug type is way worse than a guy who is CEO/actor/lawyer.

To not mince words here this is about culture not color. The idea of your girl sleeping with low life thug means that you are looked upon in a worse light than if she were to be sleeping with a successful person.

This is a sentiment that some folks feel while some feel that cheating is cheating regardless of who happens to be the guy.

I have mixed feelings, if I am a provider of relationship and the side guy is some broke thug I would be ready to commit murder because he gets it for free while I have to work for it. But if I am poor and the side guy is rich I would feel ashamed of myself for not having enough money. Like a prize fighter who runs out of cardio.

In the upcoming movies this theme is being discussed.
 
Who she chooses next is gonna be a comment on you. I can see where they would be coming from.

It says more about the cuckold and their insecurities than anything else though.
 
So her fucking a rich guy is more okay bc he can offer things you can't.

Her fucking a poor guy is more bad bc you realise that on a base level they have more to offer than you.

In your world her shitty behaviour is not her fault? She's not a shitty person with no scruples?

If you are a male who is trying to justify her cheating you are not a man.
 
Whatever a cuck has to say to make himself feel better I guess.

Women are hypergamous; they're attracted to high value males. If she cheats with a bum ass dude what's that say about your value? ("Your" being the guy cheated on, not you OP)
 
I mean, either way I'm ending up in a white Bronco speeding down the freeway.
 
That's a weird way of looking at it. The girl just sounds like a mule you didn't properly take care of.
I mean, if your life solely revolves around money, okay...but that's not why girls fuck guys.
It wouldn't matter how rich or poor the side guy is because she isnt fucking him for his money.
 
What if a chick cheats on you with a dude ; do you get a freebie with that dude? Seems fair right?

Am I doing this right? I'm trying to fit into the new Mayberry.
 
There is zero difference, some fat balding CEO with a pale pink 5 incher or some dude from the ghetto in $200 Air Jordans, with a fire hose is rubbing their Wang up and down your girls slit as she begs them to put it inside her, all the while you're in your moms basement on a karate forum, calling people cuck, Manlets and incels......all alpha 6'4" of you....
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What if she's sleeping with a successful street thug?

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Whatever a cuck has to say to make himself feel better I guess.

Women are hypergamous; they're attracted to high value males. If she cheats with a bum ass dude what's that say about your value? ("Your" being the guy cheated on, not you OP)

The whole thing caught me off guard because of this stupid cuck movie and what the new joker movie is about.

At this point I am so focused on boxing, martial arts and yoga that I attract more with health and looking/being pleasant.

I mentioned this before which was me being incel for years but understanding looks matter like crazy has changed all that.

My problem is not knowing how to react to all of This!

Like sometimes i feel that watching porn deranges my psychology towards cuck mindset because it's not me but someone else. That shit does worry me. Not wanting to be trapped in some incel like mindset.

I mean, either way I'm ending up in a white Bronco speeding down the freeway.

Sucks but it's the only way to go.

That's a weird way of looking at it. The girl just sounds like a mule you didn't properly take care of.
I mean, if your life solely revolves around money, okay...but that's not why girls fuck guys.
It wouldn't matter how rich or poor the side guy is because she isnt fucking him for his money.

I realized how fucked up I am. I don't know what to think. Growing up in isolation led me in to incel thinking but few years ago I turned the ship around and was able to connect women on an emotional level and establish rapport and attraction. But because I missed out in my teens and 20s I do not know what to think.
 
I dunno if it matters. Would you rather be run down and killed by a Ferrari or a 71 Ford Pinto?
 
What kind of man find a "less worse" scenario in being cheated on lol
 
It’s all the same at the end of the day, it’s a deal breaker..
 
You shouldn't be viewing a relationship as a transaction in the first place, that's messed up. You should genuinely like her and she should genuinely like you, that's it. I don't care if viewing relationships as transactions is a common sentiment in your fucked up US society, something being common doesn't mean it's right or not toxic.
 
In one case, I would make her life a living hell forever
In the other case, I would make her life a living hell forever
 
What if she cheats with a rich successful older woman, who has a thug on the side?
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I would hope the rich guy was Bill Clinton, since he'll at least have her killed before she tells anyone. If it was a hoodrat, I'd definitely hope to run into her a year after dumping her to relish the certainty that she's gained a bunch of weight and the hoodrat is behind of child support payments.

The worst would probably be if she turned out to be one of those child molesting teachers.
 
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