Relationships Does anyone regret having kids?

Slothbroth said:
Update from TS? I'm sure you feel it was worth it but do you ever miss your old life of freedom?
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Yea man it was worth it, I couldn't imagine not having my little guy around now, seems like a stupid question to have even asked in retrospect. Sure I miss my old life from time to time, but I realize the life I have now being a parent is a better one.

I could understand what others said earlier in the thread about regretting who they had the kid with. Thankfully I am not in that position but some of these women are crazy as fuck and I've seen with other couples how they make the lives of the dad a living hell.

I do maybe regret now not starting a family when I was a few years younger. We want to have another one and I've been pushing the Mrs. for a couple years and she still wants another one as well, but she is going to be 39 in a few weeks so the clock is ticking. We'll be old ass parents either way. Better late than never.
 
Phlog said:
So make Christmas another day when you do get to see the kid and go all out. I think success is the best revenge, in this instance success with ones kid.

In this house we celebrate Xmas until Candlemas in February.
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Unfortunately communication is not possible due to her
 
The one thing that would solve all of our issues, she absolutely refuses....
 
I could probably make a thread about this but I do have a biological kid I gave up for adoption. The mother was 19 and wanted nothing to do with the baby or me. She was fucked in the head and she was also cheating on me. I had no idea if the kid was even mine to go fight for it. I ultimately decided the child needed a mother in their life and signed the papers. It was a middle-upper class family who already had 4 kids and very financially stable. I see pictures of the kid on Instagram and she looks 95% like me and 5% like her mother. She got all my genetics. I've never met her except when she was born.
 
Domitian said:
I could probably make a thread about this but I do have a biological kid I gave up for adoption. The mother was 19 and wanted nothing to do with the baby or me. She was fucked in the head and she was also cheating on me. I had no idea if the kid was even mine to go fight for it. I ultimately decided the child needed a mother in their life and signed the papers. It was a middle-upper class family who already had 4 kids and very financially stable. I see pictures of the kid on Instagram and she looks 95% like me and 5% like her mother. She got all my genetics. I've never met her except when she was born.
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Man that’s a hard decision to have made. I wish you strength and solace. Do you want to ever make a connection with your child? Has your ex ?
 
RichardHarrow said:
Man that’s a hard decision to have made. I wish you strength and solace. Do you want to ever make a connection with your child? Has your ex ?
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It was the hardest decision I've ever had to make, yes. It really bothers me honestly. The kid looks happy though and very well taken care of.

The story with the ex is we only dated a week or two. This is personal but I'll share. When we were having sex one night I was at the point of orgasm and about to pull out but she wrapped her legs around me suddenly while grabbing my arms, basically grabbed my whole body as hard as she could and pulled me into her. I wanted to punch her. A few days later I caught her texting another guy and broke up with her on the spot. I ignored her completely. I think she hated me at that point.

She denies knowing anything about the adopted parents when I asked her, yet I see her as friends with them on Instagram making plans to go there. Meanwhile, I've contacted them and they give me no response. I can only imagine what she's said about me.

Very sad, yes. Like I said though, the kid has a big family and looks to be very well loved. That's all I can really ask for. I don't want to meet her until she's an adult. I don't want to do anything that would be inappropriate to the family. I don't know if that will ever happen though.
 
Domitian said:
It was the hardest decision I've ever had to make, yes. It really bothers me honestly. The kid looks happy though and very well taken care of.

The story with the ex is we only dated a week or two. This is personal but I'll share. When we were having sex one night I was at the point of orgasm and about to pull out but she wrapped her legs around me suddenly while grabbing my arms, basically grabbed my whole body as hard as she could and pulled me into her. I wanted to punch her. A few days later I caught her texting another guy and broke up with her on the spot. I ignored her completely. I think she hated me at that point.

She denies knowing anything about the adopted parents when I asked her, yet I see her as friends with them on Instagram making plans to go there. Meanwhile, I've contacted them and they give me no response. I can only imagine what she's said about me.

Very sad, yes. Like I said though, the kid has a big family and looks to be very well loved. That's all I can really ask for. I don't want to meet her until she's an adult. I don't want to do anything that would be inappropriate to the family. I don't know if that will ever happen though.
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I wish the child the absolute best. Seriously.
 
I do. Man where do i start? my oldest beat me in basketball a few months ago. it was bad. i was spent and the little bastard dunked on me. i took my pocket knife out and popped the ball real quick like. i blamed it on a rock in the driveway. then i made him sweep the driveway because fuck him.
 
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