It depends on the woman. I used to roll BJJ with a girl who was good so I couldn't afford to go easy or she would beat me easily. But on the judo team now the girls on our team are more girlie, and will cry if you go to hard (and none of them are any challenge on the ground, and only the best are even close to a challenge standing). But some girls (or women, I should say) from an opposing team came to spar last week and they were as strong, as fast, as agile and techincal as any high ranking male judoka. Actually, they were stronger and better than most of our guys. So it was more a fight for survivale with their brown belts and an even match with their lwoer belts.
Depends on the woman/girl.