I order them all. Brother n law comes with his 2 kids. Women talk for 5 hours, we order pizza, kids run through entire house with dog chasing them (usually in front TV with loud ass laser guns). Then right before main event, kids are cranky and screaming (still in front TV), women are asking if it's over yet and how many more, because they have a whole day of absolutely nothing to do in the morning ... judging by the dishes and clothes piled up. They leave and I say don't invite them again, 3 weeks later they back.