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I've dated a couple "westernized" Africans (if you can call them that) and thought they were maybe the best of both worlds. A mix of western education and values with traditional African values. They seemed to know how to treat their man and played a "feminine" role in the relationship and didn't try to challenge me or argue for no reason, but at the same time they were smart, and respected my individuality as opposed to women from more traditional cultures tend to smother me because they have no sense of individuality. The last African girl I dated was one of the most wonderful women I've ever met.Pretty sold on African chicks now after meeting my current partner and her friends.
I totally thought they'd be like the awful African American women you see on YouTube shrieking and hollering about baby daddies.
Instead they're based as fuck, have their priorities right because they're exposed to scenarios/danger back home that most white people have forgotten about. Not entitled, financially astute, very realistic, not materialistic or demanding, very loyal, I could go on.
In the first decade or so of my adulthood, I definitely had a thing for asian women and after so many negative experiences with them, it's like I've developed a psychological block from being attracted to them. Now I can see a hot asian girl and objectively see that she's attractive, but she just wouldn't do it for me.I'm half Asian and I used to love Asians, but now they're my least favorite. Weird.
Brown hair and blue eyes. I was blonde when I was younger.Blonde/blue?
Slim thick, is that like a huge shrimp lol?
I didn't know you were from New Zealand?
As a fan of evolution and early hominids, it's amazing how it is easy to tell how the aboriginals were direct decedents of early man.
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I've dated a couple "westernized" Africans (if you can call them that) and thought they were maybe the best of both worlds. A mix of western education and values with traditional African values. They seemed to know how to treat their man and played a "feminine" role in the relationship and didn't try to challenge me or argue for no reason, but at the same time they were smart, and respected my individuality as opposed to women from more traditional cultures tend to smother me because they have no sense of individuality. The last African girl I dated was one of the most wonderful women I've ever met.
I never dated a "fully black" person though. Race is a weird thing. Some of the women I've been with would be considered black in the west, but in Africa, the locals would call them white. I don't care about skin color but most black women don't have facial features I find attractive, and many of them are on the larger side, and I like them petite.
In the first decade or so of my adulthood, I definitely had a thing for asian women and after so many negative experiences with them, it's like I've developed a psychological block from being attracted to them. Now I can see a hot asian girl and objectively see that she's attractive, but she just wouldn't do it for me.
That being said, one of the most gorgeous women I've met in recent years was a Chinese girl. She was objectively extremely attractive, but she also had a really cool personality and we had a lot of deep personal conversations, so I had to shoot my shot and I missed lol. Personality and connection is so much important the older I get, and looks don't matter as much to me.
Among my current friends with benefits, one girl is Asian and she is quite pretty but I was totally uninterested when I first met her. We started to build a connection and I started to become attracted to her.
It's the reason why I've been dating most Europeans; I connect with them better. I am very attracted to "white" women in general, blond, ginger, brunette, blue eyes, green eyes, Italian, French, Nordic, they're all beautiful to me. At the same time Europeans just seem to be overall have a larger perspective, educated and traveled, healthier and still quite feminine even if they're more individualistic and lack traditional values. I prefer non-traditional women anyway since I don't do traditional relationships.
Physically I'm the most attracted to a particular tan, petite South American look, and it may have to do with the fact that my last ex had this look because she was half latina, petite, and could get very tan. For example, the below is probably AI generated but she looks very similar to my ex. I see that a lot of Brazilian girls have this look, and it's my freaking kryptonite. This attraction is probably some kind of psychological remnant of my past.
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I generally fluctuate between Caucasian and Asian, especially Japanese.
That said, beauty standards in the West are default centred around Caucasians and this is seen as the 'norm' so the conditioning and relentless images we see will just reinforce this.
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In recent years this has been moving away from just white caucasian though to seeing way more of other caucasian types especially tanned like Kardashians, or mixed types like latinas. But is always along these lines.
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Unpacking the influence of Western beauty standards
Growing up, my family visited China twice a year. If you have ever turned on a television in China, then you’re most likely familiar with the skin care commercials: Glowing women with pearl-like complexions, basking in the whitening magic of Olay.www.jhunewsletter.com
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