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Do You Have A Racial Preference?


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Pretty sold on African chicks now after meeting my current partner and her friends.

I totally thought they'd be like the awful African American women you see on YouTube shrieking and hollering about baby daddies.

Instead they're based as fuck, have their priorities right because they're exposed to scenarios/danger back home that most white people have forgotten about. Not entitled, financially astute, very realistic, not materialistic or demanding, very loyal, I could go on.
I've dated a couple "westernized" Africans (if you can call them that) and thought they were maybe the best of both worlds. A mix of western education and values with traditional African values. They seemed to know how to treat their man and played a "feminine" role in the relationship and didn't try to challenge me or argue for no reason, but at the same time they were smart, and respected my individuality as opposed to women from more traditional cultures tend to smother me because they have no sense of individuality. The last African girl I dated was one of the most wonderful women I've ever met.

I never dated a "fully black" person though. Race is a weird thing. Some of the women I've been with would be considered black in the west, but in Africa, the locals would call them white. I don't care about skin color but most black women don't have facial features I find attractive, and many of them are on the larger side, and I like them petite.


I'm half Asian and I used to love Asians, but now they're my least favorite. Weird.
In the first decade or so of my adulthood, I definitely had a thing for asian women and after so many negative experiences with them, it's like I've developed a psychological block from being attracted to them. Now I can see a hot asian girl and objectively see that she's attractive, but she just wouldn't do it for me.

That being said, one of the most gorgeous women I've met in recent years was a Chinese girl. She was objectively extremely attractive, but she also had a really cool personality and we had a lot of deep personal conversations, so I had to shoot my shot and I missed lol. Personality and connection is so much important the older I get, and looks don't matter as much to me.

Among my current friends with benefits, one girl is Asian and she is quite pretty but I was totally uninterested when I first met her. We started to build a connection and I started to become attracted to her.

It's the reason why I've been dating most Europeans; I connect with them better. I am very attracted to "white" women in general, blond, ginger, brunette, blue eyes, green eyes, Italian, French, Nordic, they're all beautiful to me. At the same time Europeans just seem to be overall have a larger perspective, educated and traveled, healthier and still quite feminine even if they're more individualistic and lack traditional values. I prefer non-traditional women anyway since I don't do traditional relationships.

Physically I'm the most attracted to a particular tan, petite South American look, and it may have to do with the fact that my last ex had this look because she was half latina, petite, and could get very tan. For example, the below is probably AI generated but she looks very similar to my ex. I see that a lot of Brazilian girls have this look, and it's my freaking kryptonite. This attraction is probably some kind of psychological remnant of my past.
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Yes, I like latinas and white chicks, in that order. I'm not super picky though, hot is hot. Asian women usually aren't thicc enough for me though.
 
I think there are beautiful women of all races but I personally find white, east Asian, and Mexican/central/south American women most attractive. But like I said there are beautiful women of all races for sure. I particularly like darker hair and lighter eyes.
 
The results in the video are consistent with my observations:
-white male and asian female are the most popular interracial relationship
-most people tend to stick to their own race
-black women are the least popular.

Didn't know south asian and black males were avoided though, would have guessed east asian

can't help but feel like all this is racist
 
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Jesus fucking Christ the title on this one...

And yes.. white european style of women will do it for me.

Wood anyways if hot. Never understood the thing some guys have for Latinas.. might be I live in a latin country.
 
I've dated a couple "westernized" Africans (if you can call them that) and thought they were maybe the best of both worlds. A mix of western education and values with traditional African values. They seemed to know how to treat their man and played a "feminine" role in the relationship and didn't try to challenge me or argue for no reason, but at the same time they were smart, and respected my individuality as opposed to women from more traditional cultures tend to smother me because they have no sense of individuality. The last African girl I dated was one of the most wonderful women I've ever met.

I never dated a "fully black" person though. Race is a weird thing. Some of the women I've been with would be considered black in the west, but in Africa, the locals would call them white. I don't care about skin color but most black women don't have facial features I find attractive, and many of them are on the larger side, and I like them petite.



In the first decade or so of my adulthood, I definitely had a thing for asian women and after so many negative experiences with them, it's like I've developed a psychological block from being attracted to them. Now I can see a hot asian girl and objectively see that she's attractive, but she just wouldn't do it for me.

That being said, one of the most gorgeous women I've met in recent years was a Chinese girl. She was objectively extremely attractive, but she also had a really cool personality and we had a lot of deep personal conversations, so I had to shoot my shot and I missed lol. Personality and connection is so much important the older I get, and looks don't matter as much to me.

Among my current friends with benefits, one girl is Asian and she is quite pretty but I was totally uninterested when I first met her. We started to build a connection and I started to become attracted to her.

It's the reason why I've been dating most Europeans; I connect with them better. I am very attracted to "white" women in general, blond, ginger, brunette, blue eyes, green eyes, Italian, French, Nordic, they're all beautiful to me. At the same time Europeans just seem to be overall have a larger perspective, educated and traveled, healthier and still quite feminine even if they're more individualistic and lack traditional values. I prefer non-traditional women anyway since I don't do traditional relationships.

Physically I'm the most attracted to a particular tan, petite South American look, and it may have to do with the fact that my last ex had this look because she was half latina, petite, and could get very tan. For example, the below is probably AI generated but she looks very similar to my ex. I see that a lot of Brazilian girls have this look, and it's my freaking kryptonite. This attraction is probably some kind of psychological remnant of my past.
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Them Brazilian tans...... They literally use special tape and make tape lines for the bikini outline then they spray on a fast acting tanning accelerator and go in a stand up tanning booth and out pops a tanned Brazilian........
 
My preference, might prioritize who my eye is most drawn to and who i might try to talk to first, in a place like Vegas where you will see hot women of every mix.

But if a woman is hot, she is hot, full stop and preference goes out the door. If you end up talking to a hot woman like that who is not one from your preference group you will not be thinking about your preferences and will be appreciate what she has going on.
 
I generally fluctuate between Caucasian and Asian, especially Japanese.

That said, beauty standards in the West are default centred around Caucasians and this is seen as the 'norm' so the conditioning and relentless images we see will just reinforce this.
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In recent years this has been moving away from just white caucasian though to seeing way more of other caucasian types especially tanned like Kardashians, or mixed types like latinas. But is always along these lines.
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You're definitely over thinking this
 
I m into the following:
1) central euro type (Austrian/Hungarian/Romanian/some Balkanese but not al
2) German
3) French Canadian

So white chicks, but not northern euro, not southern either.
 
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