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I think soulmates exists only when tolerance and compromises are there too,when theyre gone, soulmates are also done in that relationship
That you have this undeniable connection with someone I guess, like you were meant for eachother kind of thing. It was destiny.
And also those who are in relationships, do you believe that's your soulmate?
I believe that you can have multiple strong connections with many people. So I don't think there this just one person and that's it.
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I've been with my wife almost 25 years now since we were 15 years old. When we started dating it was like it was something we had been doing forever from the get go almost as if we had done it in a passed life and just picked up where we left off. I do not know if I'm just lucky , if it was always meant to be or if it works that way for other people too.
I will say this. People have become so selfish and distracted that even if soulmates are a real thing I'm not sure they would recognize their soul mate when they met them or be able to make it work even if they did. Even people who are perfect for each other go through hard times and sometimes it takes a little work to keep things running smooth
Lol. Ok edgelord.
I'm not confident enough to say outright "no such thing," as much I think that it's a concept that's impossible to prove. In my opinion there is no way to know if the person you're with is the absolute right person for you, to the exclusion of all others. There is no way to meet every single possible mate for you to make that determination.
Like...one of my relatives married his high-school sweetheart. My single ass is sitting here going, "Well, that's handy. Your one true soul mate just so happened to be at your school." No. You met someone early on, decided "good enough," and so far it has worked out. Just because this relative stopped looking doesn't mean there isn't a better match for them.
Never mind other potential roadblocks. Take another story as an example: long time ago I was on vacation in Washington DC. Near the Korean War memorial I saw a woman in a tour group who was so attractive, and who I felt so drawn to, that after spotting her I had to go run and hide behind a tree to catch my breath (give me a break, I was young). Never had anything like that happen before or since, but then rationality started to set in: her tour guide wasn't speaking English. I have no clue if there would've been any way for us to communicate even if I had approached her, and the likelihood of our paths crossing again is probably nil. What was it that I felt? Don't know, and never will. Was she my soul mate? Entirely unprovable, despite the rarity of the feeling.
That you have this undeniable connection with someone I guess, like you were meant for eachother kind of thing. It was destiny.
And also those who are in relationships, do you believe that's your soulmate?
I believe that you can have multiple strong connections with many people. So I don't think there this just one person and that's it.
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According to divorce statistics, nearly 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 75% of divorces occur due to a lack of commitment from one or both partners.
https://www.yourtango.com/news/woman-shares-video-stopped-her-divorcing-husband