I believe that what we often call fate or destiny is deeply connected to our unconscious desires. Our minds, even when we aren’t fully aware of it, seem to try and push us in the direction of what we truly want, even if what we want isn't a fully formed idea in our conscious mind. It's not that life hands us a predetermined path, but rather that our inner motivations guide us toward certain opportunities or experiences we might not notice otherwise.
When we look back at the events in our lives, especially those that seem unlikely or serendipitous, it’s easy to think fate was at work. But I think this feeling comes from the fact that we’re tuned into our own goals, which leads us to assign meaning to these events. We notice the things that align with our desires and values, while others, with completely different focuses, might not give them a second thought.
In a way, we construct our sense of destiny after the fact. We analyze events in hindsight, and they seem like pieces of a bigger plan, but in reality, it’s more likely that our unconscious mind led us to choose this path all along. What feels like fate may simply be our deep, often hidden desires shaping the direction we go.
Ultimately, I believe destiny isn’t something that happens to us, it’s something we unknowingly create as we move through life. We are essentially guided by the inner forces that push us toward what we truly seek. Or depression, anxiety, regret, and self-loathing if you don't listen.
Personally, I like to trick myself into seeing it all as fate, because it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside cuz some magical old head inni di universe be lookin' oot fi me an' him always got mi back. I try not to think too much deeper cuz it's mad difficult broski.
Ting crazy tho fam fi real
