Social Do women have fetishes as men do?

everything was a fetish at some point, until it was normalised and became mainstream..

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Women have the same sexual proclivities as men, just not necessarily at the same rate. And they don't need to unload, but they do want to have sex, but it's not as goal oriented as it is for men. Nor is their sexuality as hardwired. It's more malleable. Women have more same-sex attractions while men have more paraphilia. The last thing I want to do is make out with another man, but for the average woman, making out with another woman would either be fun or she wouldn't mind it at all.
 
Jackie Blue said:
Women have the same sexual proclivities as men, just not necessarily at the same rate. And they don't need to unload, but they do want to have sex, but it's not as goal oriented as it is for men. Nor is their sexuality as hardwired. It's more malleable. Women have more same-sex attractions while men have more paraphilia. The last thing I want to do is make out with another man, but for the average woman, making out with another woman would either be fun or she wouldn't mind it at all.
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women seem more into being dominated, peed on, bdsm, etc in my experience

rather than into body parts a lot. Most or all can appreciate a good handsome face, eyes, full head of hair, jaw, not hairy skin, abs and arm and chest muscles and low body fat but I never found them to fixate on it like men are with feet (i love feet who doesnt? assuming they good attractive female feet). I mean men created websites like wikifeet, boobpedia, etc, that fixate on body parts. Women dont seem as motivated to create websites and spend free time obsessing on it nor do they need to ´´unload´´´ on parts of the body because they cant unload a load
 
Sooooo many women have a fetish for rape play. I have a funnt story about trying that one with a girl years ago...but I'm too high to type that shit out @Bobby Boulders come blaze, bud
 
A.S. Deep said:
@Oceanmachine Do you have female friends? Like one you talk sexually to?

Asking genuinely, because this question is very easy to answer by just talking to a girl openly haha.
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believe it or not I do. I just enjoy asking questions I know the answer to and seeing responses idk why
 
HelloJapan said:
Sooooo many women have a fetish for rape play. I have a funnt story about trying that one with a girl years ago...but I'm too high to type that shit out @Bobby Boulders come blaze, bud
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The cuter and more shy the girl, the greater chance she has a rape fantasy. Even my wife agrees lol.

Cute, shy, nerdy girl = Wants to roleplay being kidnapped and raped.

Obviously nothing wrong with that since it's just a kink in the bedroom. No one should be shamed for their kinks.
 
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Oceanmachine said:
believe it or not I do. I just enjoy asking questions I know the answer to and seeing responses idk why
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Based on my own subjective experiences, an underrated fetish they have is for big, firm asses. Which sucks for me since I'm all quads/Hams and no ass haha.

Being kidnapped and doing a rape fantasy is a BIG one, especially for the quieter girls. You'd be surprised how many girls are just turned on with being degraded, such as being pissed on. Being shit on seems to be very rare, though.

I know a girl with a foot fetish too. Honestly, if I had to go with underrated fetishes, it's 1) Asses 2) Being kidnapped and raped as part of roleplay.
 
HelloJapan said:
Sooooo many women have a fetish for rape play. I have a funnt story about trying that one with a girl years ago...but I'm too high to type that shit out @Bobby Boulders come blaze, bud
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Yeah a lot of them are into that shit.
Sometimes it's quite disturbing. Some can legit only get off when being dominated and forced.

It's apparently extremely common to orgasm during rape, even for those who can't orgasm from normal sexual relationships. Imagine how fucking confusing that is for the victim. They are in the middle of the most terrifying experience of their life and then spontaneously have an explosive orgasm and feel like their body betrayed them and enjoyed it.

It is one of the major reasons a lot of them don't report their rapes
 
Yes.

Most women I've spoken to about it, confirm they have rape fantasies. Including bondage and chocking. Quite a few have been open about their incest fantasies too.

Many have used their showerhead as a sex toy, and I also know a handful of women who has used fruit or vegetables as sex toys.

I also used to know of one woman who likes people watching her and her boyfriend at it.
 
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Yeah a lot of them are into that shit.
Sometimes it's quite disturbing. Some can legit only get off when being dominated and forced.

It's apparently extremely common to orgasm during rape, even for those who can't orgasm from normal sexual relationships. Imagine how fucking confusing that is for the victim. They are in the middle of the most terrifying experience of their life and then spontaneously have an explosive orgasm and feel like their body betrayed them and enjoyed it.

It is one of the major reasons a lot of them don't report their rapes
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My, completely unqualified, theory is that it is evolutionary. The hardcore 3rd wave feminists talk about how men have evolved to rape women. The men that raped the most women, passed their genes on the most. Compound this over hundreds of thousands of years from the Horn of Africa to today. What the really haven't thought about, is how, if this hypothesis is true, then the reflection of that is also true. Women have evolved to be raped by men.

By that I mean, the women who fought back 'too much' were beaten and often died. Over hundreds of thousands of years, the genes that generated that behaviour disapeared. But, the women who became arosed by being raped didn't fight back, they survived, often becoming pregnant, and over hundreds of thousands of years, those genes flourished.

Of course, I could just be chatting out of my ass.
 
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yeah

for some reason alot of chicks I've dated had a thing for gay dude smashing, or cuck stuff. I never gave them the opportunity, but I remember an ex telling me how hard she got over cuck porn type stuff
 
Rand M Arthur said:
My, completely unqualified, theory is that it is evolutionary. The hardcore 3rd wave feminists talk about how men have evolved to rape women. The men that raped the most women, passed their genes on the most. Compound this over hundreds of thousands of years from the Horn of Africa to today. What the really haven't thought about, is how, if this hypothesis is true, then the reflection of that is also true. Women have evolved to be raped by men.

By that I mean, the women who fought back 'too much' were beaten and often died. Over hubdreds of thousands of years, the genes that generated that behaviour disapear. But, the women who became arosed by being raped didn't fight back, they survived, often becoming pregnant, and over hundreds of thousands of years, those genes flourished.

Of course, I could just be chatting out of my ass.
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I've had literally the same idea for a while. I can only think of one woman that I've been with that didn't like being thoroughly dominated and manhandled. Have had a woman straight up tell me that if I wasn't strong enough to hold her down, she probably wouldn't be into me. Squeezing them, pressing them down or against something seems to almost guarantee arousal.

I've never verbalized it to anyone since it would be taboo to say, but I feel like a lot of women want to be "safely raped" by someone they trust not to genuinely hurt them. At least that's been my experience.

I think there's some validity to your theory.
 
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