Do we have incels here?

Captain said:
My friend is. If you have any questions, I can answer them for you.
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How accurately does this describe your friend?

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Jimmy McGill said:
What is the true definition of an incel?

There are many guys who refuse a chubster or buterface, because they think they deserve better or is it indeed a guy, who just can't score with anyone?
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I dunno if men who don’t hook up with women because they are ugly or for whatever reason are automatically incell.

If that’s the case then men who are widowed and too sad to hook up are also incel, right?

Like let’s say your wife dies and you just can’t move on. That’s both involuntary and celibate but not really “incel”.

In this case I go by Wikipedia.

“ Incels...define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom.[3] Self-identified incels are mostly white, male, and heterosexual.[4][5][6] Discussions in incel forums are often characterized by resentment, misanthropy,[1] self-pity,[7]self-loathing,[8] misogyny, racism, a sense of entitlement to sex, and the endorsement of violence against sexually active people.

People who have either self-identified as incels or who had mentioned incel-related names and writings in their private writings or Internet postings have committed at least four mass murders in North America, resulting in forty-five deaths.”
 
Aegon Spengler said:
I dunno if men who don’t hook up with women because they are ugly or for whatever reason are automatically incell.

If that’s the case then men who are widowed and too sad to hook up are also incel, right?

Like let’s say your wife dies and you just can’t move on. That’s both involuntary and celibate but not really “incel”.

In this case I go by Wikipedia.

“ Incels...define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom.[3] Self-identified incels are mostly white, male, and heterosexual.[4][5][6] Discussions in incel forums are often characterized by resentment, misanthropy,[1] self-pity,[7]self-loathing,[8] misogyny, racism, a sense of entitlement to sex, and the endorsement of violence against sexually active people.

People who have either self-identified as incels or who had mentioned incel-related names and writings in their private writings or Internet postings have committed at least four mass murders in North America, resulting in forty-five deaths.”
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Fair enough, but a widow given time to grieve may find whatever he wants in time, I'm pretty sure there are "incels" who could have a friend's with benefits thing with a butterface or chubby, but thinks he deserves better, then bitches about not getting laid.
 
Devout Pessimist said:
I'm a married incel.
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Lexicology
The term "involuntary celibate" (shortened to "incel") refers to self-identifying members of an online subculture based around the inability to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom[3] or incelibacy.[70] It is sometimes used interchangeably or alongside other terms, such as "love-shy" (describing those with social anxiety or excessive shyness preventing romantic success),[20][71] "FA" (short for "forever alone"),[72] "unfuckability",[73] "omegas",[64] "zeta males",[74] "betas"[75] "the undersexed",[76] or "the sexless".[6] Alana, the coiner of the term incel, initially considered using other terms such as "perpetually single" or "dating shy".[17]

Members of incel communities regularly use jargon and a distinct dialect to refer to various concepts.[51] For example, they may describe women as "femoids", "stacys" (attractive sexually active women), or "beckys" (less attractive sexually active women), and sexually active men as "chads".[22][77][65] "Mogging" refers to the act of eclipsing another person in terms of physical appearance and thereby undermining them. "Looksmaxing" is an attempt at enhancing one's appearance by methods including dressing nicely, going to the gym, or undergoing plastic surgery.[40][78] The abbreviation "NEET" refers to people who don't have jobs and aren't attending school: "not in education, employment, or training".[75]

Members of incel communities use many variations of the term "incel" to refer to subgroups in the community, such as "volcels" (voluntary celibate; someone who chooses to forego sexual intercourse),[79] "marcels" (married), "nearcels" (those who are considered nearly incel), "hicels" (those who have high standards; are very picky when dating), "heightcels" (short),[17] and "fakecels" (those who claim to be incel, but in reality have recently had sex or been in a relationship).[49][80] There are also a number of race-based variations of the term "incel" which refer to people who believe their race is the reason behind their inability to find a partner, including "currycels" (people of South Asian ancestry)[42] and "ricecels" (those of Chinese or Southeast Asian backgrounds),[50] or collectively, "ethnicels".[81]

According to wikipedia, you are a "marcel".
 
You tell me
JoeyJoeJoeJr said:
Early 30s.

The only thing I regret is not doing it sooner and listening to people who told me it wasnt possible.

Healthcare is free (canada)

I dont go to bars. I dont drink anymore. I dont care about women. I decided no more girlfriends, pets or anything that can cause stress. Ive decided to go the lone wolf route. Ive never found anyone I could relate to anyway.

I disagree with your 40+ statememt about responsibility. It all depends what you want out of life. Most people want a family, but not me. I want to be left alone.

I only seek knowledge about this existance and to enjoy it the best I can. For me this is learning as much as possible, theorizing about the origins of the universe, and just enjoying my day to day life, stress free.

I dont like what humans have done to this world, so I have no intention of fathering a child in this world. I feel like humans have ruined this world, and this is not how things are supposed to be.

I dont have any dreams that would cost a lot of money, such as travelling etc. I just want to live a simple life.
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Headkicktoleg said:
You tell me
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The inability to find a romantic partner or sexual partner despite desiring one? Doesn't sound like me at all. I can get girls If I want, I had a girl begging me for sex less than a month ago. I just think they're too much of a headache to deal with on a regular basis, and I'm not interested. If they want to come over for sex and then leave, that's ok.
 
Aegon Spengler said:
I dunno if men who don’t hook up with women because they are ugly or for whatever reason are automatically incell.

If that’s the case then men who are widowed and too sad to hook up are also incel, right?

Like let’s say your wife dies and you just can’t move on. That’s both involuntary and celibate but not really “incel”.

In this case I go by Wikipedia.

“ Incels...define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom.[3] Self-identified incels are mostly white, male, and heterosexual.[4][5][6] Discussions in incel forums are often characterized by resentment, misanthropy,[1] self-pity,[7]self-loathing,[8] misogyny, racism, a sense of entitlement to sex, and the endorsement of violence against sexually active people.

People who have either self-identified as incels or who had mentioned incel-related names and writings in their private writings or Internet postings have committed at least four mass murders in North America, resulting in forty-five deaths.”
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Pretty much, its not just being unable to attract woman but having a certain mindset that's generally misogynistic.

Incel's for me are really just a sub type of alt right or pickup artist kind of people, all of them seem to follow the same sociopathic/egotistical mindset.
 
moreorless87 said:
Pretty much, its not just being unable to attract woman but having a certain mindset that's generally misogynistic.

Incel's for me are really just a sub type of alt right or pickup artist kind of people, all of them seem to follow the same sociopathic/egotistical mindset.
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I don't think it's fair to label the entire group based on a minority. Most incels are peaceful guys that are struggling.
 
Captain said:
I don't think it's fair to label the entire group based on a minority. Most incels are peaceful guys that are struggling.
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No I think it is fair, I don't think Incels represent your typical guy who can't attract woman for whatever reason, they represent like minded men who have a strong sense of entitlement and misogynistic tendency's.

I think you see the pattern from certain people here constantly trawling the net for negative stories about women and the limited viewing of such forums I'v had the same kind of posting has been rife as well.
 
lol everyone here is 6'5 and shredded making 6 figures.
 
DeJulez said:
So incels is just nerdy guys who dont get girls right?
Why is there a name for it now?
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Because the internet connects them now and gives them a sense of community and in a case like this 1 incel plus 1 Incel = 35 Incels. There is a multiplier effect to this.
 
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