I was just at this country line dancing bar the other night with my friend who is 5"6', over weight and not attractive. He's not an incel since he's banged a few women but he might as well be when he goes out to a bar. He kept trying to get me to go get girls for him and I told him no but I'd give him advice on how to strike up a conversation with them. So I construct this pretty decent cold approach question that he could literally ask any girl in there. I'm like just go up to the girl and ask her how everyone knows how to do the exact same moves for all these songs? Is it something they learn on youtube or do they have some sort of practice for it before hand or something? I told him to go ask every girl he thought was cute this question and see how he did.
He said it was dumb and wouldn't do it. So to show him, I went up to this completely unapproachable girl who looked like she was hating life and she explained it to me and then was like "I gotta go" and took off to the dance floor. I told him it worked because we talked for a few minutes but I still got denied in the end. I told him to go say that same thing to 5 different girls and it would work at some point. He still wouldn't do it. About a half hour later that girl walks up to me, grabs me by my hand and takes me out on the dance floor and puts my hands on her and shows me how to 2 step since I was telling her before that I didn't know how to dance.
I walk off the dance floor looking at him like see dude? This shit works. So he goes up to this cute black chick and she kind of cold shoulders him and goes onto the dance floor so he comes back all embarrassed telling me he knew it wasn't a good idea. After the song was over she walks by us and he doesn't see her but she's look at him like "I'm walking by you, are you going to acknowledge me?". Since he's not even looking at her, I wave her over and she starts trying to talk to him and show him how to dance right at our table. This chick is into him and she's got some nice ass curves too but he's saying stupid ass awkward shit that keeps making her look at him like wtf? Eventually she walks away from him and starts talking to a taller, better looking guy and he gets mad and wants to leave, so we go home.
Like most incels, he didn't get denied because he was short or ugly, he got denied because he couldn't say anything even remotely interesting or funny once he got a girl talking to him. If he could have made her laugh, he could have potentially gotten her number or even banged her. Instead he went home pissed and blamed her for denying him even though it was his fault he was saying stupid pussy repellent type shit when she was interested in him.