Divorce thread....

fungi said:
500 vcash on Daspy.
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I'll take the bet for the sport of it! I mean, Da Speeit has the edge imo and I like his posts etc but this way I win either way.
 
Fedorgasm said:
No prob. I always hate all the inside jokes on this site when I'm not in the loop.
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I never sealed the deal legally but we have a kid, a spectacular kid, and it's looking like it's not going to work out. In fact, I'm late to the understanding, pretty sure we've been done since he was born. Trying real hard to fight off bitterness. Long story with a lot of moving parts, what aren't at this level, but suffice to say, I finally see the real bitterness that drives some of the hatred in this world. Seriously would be better off if I was a dont give a shit asshole. Twain wrote a story about a character who killed his conscious and how great life was after that. Fuckin A.
 
trident said:
I never sealed the deal legally but we have a kid, a spectacular kid, and it's looking like it's not going to work out. In fact, I'm late to the understanding, pretty sure we've been done since he was born. Trying real hard to fight off bitterness. Long story with a lot of moving parts, what aren't at this level, but suffice to say, I finally see the real bitterness that drives some of the hatred in this world. Seriously would be better off if I was a dont give a shit asshole. Twain wrote a story about a character who killed his conscious and how great life was after that. Fuckin A.
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Pain is your friend. Pain tells you you're alive and that you gotta get the fuck out of misery. Marriage is a commitment, life is a commitment, and, yeah you guessed: Frank Stallone.



No but DIVORCE IS A COMMITMENT. It's full of feelz, sure, but it's time to exercise some get-back and figure out how best to move forward. Don't destroy anything, least of all yourself, or your self-esteem and worth, or your feelings. Numb's no way to live. Get mad. Get to it. And get the hell home.
 
So how do you become an Amateur Fighter; Do you have to suck at fighting, or just not be that good.
 
Phlog said:
I'll take the bet for the sport of it! I mean, Da Speeit has the edge imo and I like his posts etc but this way I win either way.
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So you're betting on that "I'll fuck everything in sight" feller, with wife and kids of 20+ years?

I think Daspy kicks his ass, I'm not sure Daspy will want his wife though. Unless she's Christie Brinkley...
 
trident said:
I never sealed the deal legally but we have a kid, a spectacular kid, and it's looking like it's not going to work out. In fact, I'm late to the understanding, pretty sure we've been done since he was born. Trying real hard to fight off bitterness. Long story with a lot of moving parts, what aren't at this level, but suffice to say, I finally see the real bitterness that drives some of the hatred in this world. Seriously would be better off if I was a dont give a shit asshole. Twain wrote a story about a character who killed his conscious and how great life was after that. Fuckin A.
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This is exactly it. You don’t need to kill your conscience fully, but you can kill off a lot of it. I will admit I have little of a conscience but I use that to my advantage, and I fucking love the life I created for myself. Never feel bad about wanting the absolute best for yourself, present and future. Life isn’t unicorns and rainbows and never will be. It’s a dog eat dog world, no matter how badly some people try and deny it.
 
Fk your feelings said:
It’s a dog eat dog world, no matter how badly some people try and deny it.
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Deny it? How can anyone deny that?

No one can deny that after Crusius gunned down the Walmart in El Paso, Texas.

Not to mention the fact that Betts gunned down Dayton, Ohio.
 
D Train said:
I’m curious if anyone went through a mediator rather than a lawyer and what that was like? I had an acquaintance do this and it was an amicable divorce. Still hard obviously. They didn’t hate each other or anything like that, and they both really wanted to do right by each other and their daughter. I believe they are still friends.
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Yes I went through a mediator with my divorce. Never stepped into a courtroom.
 
Fawlty said:
Yeah just from our exchange you're being a bit aggro & defensive.
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I wonder how you walk outside without melting if you're that much of a snowflake that you found anything about that post you quoted to be aggressive or defensive?

Fawlty said:
The fact that monogamy actually evolved as a mating strategy (and is now the primary strategy in most cultures) proves its utility, to state the obvious.
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Actually it's not. The Ethnographic Atlas states that of the 1,231 cultures in the Ethnographic Atlas Codebook, 84.6 percent are classified as polygynous, 15.1 percent as monogamous, and 0.3 percent as polyandrous.

And it's a failing institution. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high in the west? And what is the #1 cause of divorces? Infidelity.

Fawlty said:
And you're using the naturalistic fallacy & appeal to nature (look it up) to make the argument that we should behave sexually in a certain way because of our biology.
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I never made any argument like that at all.

Fawlty said:
That also leads to ridiculous conclusions like rape advocacy.
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And I'm the one that's gone off the rails?

Fawlty said:
So I'm doubting that you're really up on a bunch of research, but I'm sure you've read some things that support your bias.
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I have no bias. I never made an argument one way or another about anything. I simply made a statement based upon articles I've read, documentaries I've watched etc. I really couldn't care either way.

Fawlty said:
And if your own mating strategy is to be promiscuous, that's fine, that's not uncommon. But you've gone off the rails.
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I'm married with 2 kids, and never had an extramarital anything.

In short, you're not nearly as witty, or smart, as you'd like to think you are.
 
I ain't even at marrying age yet but shit, I'm blessed for the many times someone took the bullet for me when I thought I'd lost something special.
 
I think people sometimes confuse lust, loneliness, or other as "love".

People get married and it seems that they barely like each other sometimes. They like having sex with each other. They like the way each other looks. But there is no future in that.
 
TeTe said:
What may be even worse in being with someone nine years, getting along with them very well as a roommate and friend but only staying together out of convenience. Should have broke up years before and found people more compatible for a romantic relationship but it's tough to do when you actually get along and respect each other.
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well said. thats my last 3 year relationship. I am now 33, wish I had looked for a better long term fit, though I will always be friends with my ex.
 
Samuraispiderma said:
Nope. They were never married before me. They both had two children with me. Both were definitely in love with me when we got married. The first one actually proposed to me. She wanted to get back with me last year, but even her two kids told me that I was too good for her. Said the only thing she could commit to was running. She ran a 50K marathon at age 45. Both my exes were athletes; the second rode a 200-mile bikeathon or whatever you call it.
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note to self
dont marry endurance athletes
 
Brandon Wilson said:
I have no bias. I never made an argument one way or another about anything. I simply made a statement based upon articles I've read, documentaries I've watched etc. I really couldn't care either way.
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Lol as evidenced by your long breakdown of each part of his post before you went to bed last night...
 
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