Dating and being dishonest about intentions

[That209]

What I do in my personal life. Do you think it's really funny to make light of her death?

Nah I’m making light of your lack of giving a fuck. How about that?

 

[ArtemV]

Well, if you can do it without having a guilty conscious, then why not. I am sure your girlfriend would have wanted you to be happy.. but a few weeks ago? I would wait until at least 2 months before getting in bed with another woman.

 

[Curmudgeon]

That's right, you don't know if what I say is bullshit or not. Have you ever lied?

Hey, however you want to justify it, you do you.

A person who doesn't give a fuck doesn't visit someone in the hospital or send money to their family. You made a stupid, disrespectful comment about a dead person and are too much of a bitch to admit you were wrong.

Is this another lie?

 

[Nimrod]

You'll never know.

This dude is just a troll man .. I think we should just leave him be with his little made up stories, and if by chance (god i hope not) they are true this dude has obvious mental health problems and we shouldnt be encouraging him.

 

[Nimrod]

I'm not a troll but if saying that makes you feel better about walking away from the conversation after making tasteless comments then weasel on out any way you want.

Again pure projection of your own abhorrent behaviour onto others, using lies as an umbrella.

I find you distasteful, unpleasant and extremely disingenuous.

Good bye.

 

[cooks1]

My girlfriend passed away a few weeks ago and I've started dating in the last week. Judge me if you want, but I still want to have sex.

I find women online. Pretty much every single girl out there says in their profile that they're looking for a ltr only, no hook ups/one night stands. I'm not ready for a serious relationship and I just want to hook up so I lie and say I'm looking for a serious relationship. If I don't do this then I disqualify myself from lots of women I want to get with.

I'm not completely opposed to a long term relationship with the right woman, but I have physical needs to address in the meantime until I meet her.

After we've had sex, I try to let them down gently over the next couple days by staying in contact and saying I care about them but I'm not sure if I'm ready for this and can we slow down or still be friends. Does anyone else do this? Am I a bad person?

Well, I don't know if you are a bad person, but what you are doing is certainly wrong. Not a 'you are going to burn in hell' wrong. More of a 'karma is going to bite you in the ass' kind of wrong. How do you feel when you are lied to, misled, or manipulated?

Aside from being wrong, it's stupid and shortsighted. With the effort you will spend starting from scratch with a new one every week or so, you could take a more straight forward approach and find 2 or 3 women with aligned interests.

 

[That209]

A person who doesn't give a fuck doesn't visit someone in the hospital or send money to their family. You made a stupid, disrespectful comment about a dead person and are too much of a bitch to admit you were wrong.

Sorry you’re so upset. We can still be friends, though.