Dating and being dishonest about intentions

There is a cold, dark and scary place for men like you!
 
I used to kind of do this. I was just ambiguous about my intent. I didn't lie, I just didn't tell the truth.

I think it's best to just be honest and try to satisfy your own needs until you meet someone that's right for you.

It's part of becoming a mature man.

I don't think you're a bad man, just immature.
 
Depends are you lying your ass off just for a bit of sex?
Or you just do the socially acceptable ''bending the facts''.
 
I've spent most of my time, minus two relationships, just having fun and being open to seriousness. I was never outright dishonest. I don't think anyway. I used to drink a lot. I don't see anything wrong with that. If you know you're lying then that's different.

TS you already know if what you're doing is "bad".

Also, condolences on your recent loss.
 
Girls want guys to do this. They want the soulless sex more than guys, but their "protect my honor" instincts are still in there.. Even if much more loosely than before.

Just don't go more than a couple weeks and it's no big deal.
 
What a strong OP.
 
Basically, meeting and having sex with people is part of finding a long term relationship. The right girl won't let you get away with that shit.
 
“My girlfriend passed away a few weeks ago and I've started dating in the last week.”

Stopped reading here. The grief is deep in this one.
 
drstrangelov said:
Basically, meeting and having sex with people is part of finding a long term relationship. The right girl won't let you get away with that shit.
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I disagree.

Meeting people and having sex can make your life very complicated. So that when you meet someone you actually like, you are not ready to be with them.
 
2 weeks!!!

Fuck me..

I been divorced now for 2 years and im still not ready for any kind of relationship and that includes any kind of sexual stuff.. Are you a psychopath by chance?
 
All girls are looking for a long-term relationship no matter what they tell you. Guys look for sex first and if a relationship happens afterwards, great.

I just say what I am thinking which is I'm interested in fucking and there are no guarantees with the relationship part. If it happens, great. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen.

There are a lot of women who like the directness and honesty which makes getting your dick wet easier since you won't have to jump through the usual hoops of courting/dating.

If a woman isn't on the same page as you, then you don't waste your time taking her out and BSing her only to not get any ass
 
PommyBen said:
2 weeks!!!

Fuck me..

I been divorced now for 2 years and im still not ready for any kind of relationship and that includes any kind of sexual stuff.. Are you a psychopath by chance?
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2 years? I think you're the psychopath here
 
If a major factor of a girl sleeping with you is the belief that you will be forming some sort of meaningful relationship, and you led her to believe that that was the case, then it is a pretty shit move.

Be ambiguous about your intentions, go to places where youre more likely to meet people that are also wanting to just hook up, but straight up lying is a dick move.
I will tell a girl that i am open to having a relationship with the right person, but I'm just seeing where things go for the moment. I don't straight up tell a girl i like her, and that i'm interested in her, fuck her, and then bounce. Pretty shit thing to do to someone's feelings just so you can nut
 
Horse Style said:
2 years? I think you're the psychopath here
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Not really, without going into detail... Im not a dude controlled by his dick.. I have done my job for the human race by giving my seed, whether or not that turns out for the best is yet to be seen.

Never had a strong drive to fuck a thousand women.. Its just not my thing id rather do other shit.

Lol at young dudes pretending that fucking loads of women is some sort of masculinity test .. Its very 16 year old style
 
aldeniro78 said:
What a strange OP
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I dunno, TS sounds like he wants to be reassured he's not a scumbag. Or at least not a bigger scumbag than everyone else on here.

Nothing strange about that.

It's somewhat quaint that he thinks women aren't also online lying about only being interested in LTRs, though. If a female equivalent for "let me bang, bro" exists, I haven't heard it yet.
 
PommyBen said:
2 weeks!!!

Fuck me..

I been divorced now for 2 years and im still not ready for any kind of relationship and that includes any kind of sexual stuff.. Are you a psychopath by chance?
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Get back on the whores buddy.

Oooops, I mean, get back on the horse.
 
Goonerview said:
I disagree.

Meeting people and having sex can make your life very complicated. So that when you meet someone you actually like, you are not ready to be with them.
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That wasn't the case with me, once I was sure, I dropped all the weekday sex partners and focused on making it work with the woman I was genuinely interested in.
 
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