The way you deal with women will have a pretty drastic impact on your life, learn from the mistakes of others. You don't wanna be one of these guys paying child support and drinking himself to sleep every night.
Aging yourself 5-10 years because you decided to put up with the drama and stress of some unruly woman. Life is hard enough as a man, don't make it harder.
You really have to self reflect and asks yourself why you would even want to get married or have kids in the 21st century, and it can't be because of movies you've watched or dreams the television sold you. More than half of the marriages in America fail, and most don't even last 8 years. After your first divorce your looking at 60-80% divorce rates from there after. Even the marriages that do survive, atleast half of those are maintained due to family expectations and financial survival. The truth is that this monogamy shit rarely works out, at around a 10-20% rate does the couple actually end up happy. This isn't even factoring how the economic devastation awaiting America is gonna cripple marriages going forward.
And most children today come from broken homes and they'll have virtually no chance at a successful marriage themselves, the only successful marriages most people have seen is on T.V.
I myself come from a pretty healthy 2 parent home, my parents have been married almost 30 years. In modern America I'm basically an outcast to people in my social circle who come from pretty fucked up homes. It's a vicious cycle of broken people who've yet to confront their personal demons, trying to build a family on no foundation.
Just do what's right for you, stop worrying about what other people think. Historically less than 50% of males even reproduced, this idea that every man has a responsibility to raise a family is just silly. Most men were struggling enough trying to find a stable way to survive ( just like today).
