Hit it and quit it always, dating starts and ends at the bedroom. I have never been married and I have never paid any alimony.
This thread shows clearly that there is a problem with American girls (or with you guys). Maybe you all should look for a non American... I don't know any divorced couple within my circle of friends and everyone seems ok with their spouse.
I guess it just depends how you define “working out” lol like just because people aren’t divorced doesn’t mean they are working out, behind closed doors, being around someone of the opposite sex every single day non stop for your whole life is fucking willdddd, men and women don’t agree and will always naturally butt heads. Peace is seldom. Maybe I just got issues but I NEED to be able to be alone and not talk to fucking anybody sometimes, try pulling that shit when u got a wife or long term girlfriend you know? It just doesn’t work haha
Yeh, just seems to work different for the people around me, I suppose. All of the males I know can go off and do whatever without their girls losing their shit over it and vice versa. Mate, seriously, you're hanging around the wrong girls or guys if you wanting some alone time for yourself leads to trouble. That sort of thing isn't something I think you should ever even need to stress about getting. I just don't see any of this relationship failure around me at all. Most of the people I hung out with when we were kids married their high school sweethearts and none of them have split and they all seem happy to me.
No man, I'm saying women age quickly, I know plenty of guys who left their wife for a much younger women. I'm not married, or engaged, or any of that stuff
I have been married to the same woman for 25 years. One and only marriage. The best things you can do are all before getting married: Make sure the other person is sane, seems obvious but I have come to the conclusion it isn't Make sure the other person isn't a fixer-upper. Most (keyword most) people don't change and you can't change them, even if your last name is Freud. Make sure you agree on whether or not to have children (this is hard because people's desires do change) Make sure the two of you are sexually compatible. If she/he doles out Sex like its money in the great depression and you want it everyday you are going to have a bad time. Give your significant other space, don't be in their shit 24/7. Make sure you are your potential mates first priority. Are you really best friends, or are things just convenient? Do they choose others over you when given the choice? Be wary of people with extreme personalities. For example if you are marrying an independent loner type, be prepared to well, be alone with your thoughts. If you are marrying an extreme introvert, then be prepared for quiet. Once again this seems obvious, but so many people seem to believe people will change their stripes after marriage. Doesn't happen in my experience Lastly, stay away from people who are addicted to drugs, alcohol, gambling, or power. Your life will suck and your spouse will be the cause. If you aren't religious and your girl is (or vice versa) then you are going to have a bad time. All in all understand this. Life is fucking short, marrying the wrong person is brutal. Time warps people. Bad generally goes to worse, good tends to great. Understand this as well, good people do dumb things from time to time. You will have to forgive and forget.
the most disturbing part is TS acting like Wendy Williams ... all up in everyone's buisness airing out their personal life and ya"ll just soaking it up clapping and speaking on the mic
Very well written sir! As an older poster with two marriage experiences (one awful and one great) I confirm everything you’ve written and strongly suggest younger readers commit your words to memory, because a bad marriage can truly be a nightmare and a VERY expensive one too.
im just gonna throw this out there--cody hasnt fought since when(win) and he didn't take much damage. all he has done is talk shit and come up with some bullshit story about an injury. this dude has two divisions to pick from. he could try calling triple c out of retirement . he cant wait on winner of fig/moreno for it could very well be a trilogy
