johil d'o said:
How about thanking him for alerting you to the fact that your ex-girlfriend was interested in another guy so that you can move on with your life, rather than continue to live a "cuckolded" (look it up, if you need to) existence.
He isn't the problem. Your so-called girlfriend is.
Bingo!
We have a winner post.
You know if your girl is kissing him back or allowing it then its over between you and her so be happy! Why are you wanting to fight someone? Really think about it. Don't let emotions get involved. If she is seeing him, talking to him and kissing him then its her way of telling you its over between you and her. If not tell her to call the police and charge him with aggravated sexual assault.
Bro, if you got to fight to keep a girl then she is not worth your time. There are so many girls out there for guys. My muay thai master says that a man must chase the girl, because they have a lot of power (sex, talk nice, pretty, makes us feel good). The girl chooses the one she like share her power with. Even married men can not control the girl's power. Ask a real married man who has the power in the relationship and if he says he does, then tell him "Well, lets go to a strip club tonight then." If he says can not my wife would kill me then you know already.
Even married people can not control the woman's power. They are dead inside when the wife fools around or wants a divorce. You go check all the men whose wife / lover fools around and or divorce them. They are dead inside unless they either got over the divorce/breakup/etc or because they found someone new or wanted the divorce in the first place.
I have been through the ringer myself and got into some fights at bars and clubs. My coworker took me to see muay thai and my muay thai master helped me by training my mind and my limbs. I can tell you when you are married it feels like everything is safe but we can not control the woman like in the caveman days.
I mean just a couple centuries ago it was okay to beat your wife, force her to have sex and all of that kind of stuff. Now its a crime. No is no. Just last week in Hawaii one husband was arrested for forcing his wife to have sex and another arrested for beating up his estranged wife's new boyfriend. Stupid.
I can tell you that no girl is worth going to jail over. Look at all these guys killing their current wives and ex-girlfriends for whatever reason. Or those guys going to jail for beating up or killing the boyfriends or lovers, its not worth it. Its really stupid to do.
Someone on sherdog had the best sig. It said something to the effect of "No matter how beautiful the woman, someone is tired of having sex with her". or something like that.
You know the real keepers are the woman you don't have to fight over, that will drop everything to help you in a second, that will give you anything you want and someone who you know are not letting someone kiss them because they love you or want you more than anyone else. Those are the keepers. Think about that before you go to jail.