Can a Prostitute Truly Ever Love?

I'm going to go ahead and gay up a post here: sex and love are not the same thing, so of course a whore can fall in love.

Besides, and remember kids; all women are whores anyway.
 
lapollarecords said:
because they seem to think they are talking about self-conscious fleshlights, not about human beings. a lot of girls have to resort to prostitution because they need money and have no other way of earning it. others are directly forced to do it by organized crime.



never meeting a prostitute? I can't say it's a good or a bad thing. giving a black and white opinion while having no clue is a bad thing.
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It's really the want to earn more. A lot of the girls who I think you are talking about can easily make money doing something else but it doesn't give them enough money as easily as becoming a stripper/prostitute. Let me know what jobs give you $500 a night "on a bad night" that require no education or apprenticeship and that doesn't involve sex trade?

Organized crime is a different situation altogether.
 
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implying women in general of capable of regular human functions on any level.
 
SoberAwakening said:
My ex-girlfriend was an escort. They can definitely love, but there is some emotional baggage like you wouldn't believe. Like she loves me more now than she ever did in our relationship. She's got her master's degree and is quite successful, but love is difficult for her, both giving and receiving it.
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+1 for being the first (maybe only) person to get a solid, honest answer. People get pretty visceral in these threads, so it's nice to see something truthful.
 
AmbivalenceKing said:
Who says that it has to be the norm? Most "decent" people are nothing more than sophisticated prostitutes anyway.

Most mature women (who are searching for a peer in order to start a family) shouldn't bang a guy who lives in his parents' basement with no job because being unable to provide for yourself is a huge turnoff, not because he has no money. If she would bang the exact same guy with same life habits who happens to have rich parents that left him an inheritance, then she is a worshiper of money and I find that to be contemptible because everything that has a price has little value.
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So we agree that love is very rarely if ever re and almost always a function of status along the way.

If two people meet, have chemistry and a bond then the living situation (parents basement or penthouse apartment) should not matter. But we all know that love (particularly for women) does not work that way. There is a significant element of status, again particularly for women. What can he provide. And while women don't always need a sugar daddy it is very rare to find women who will ever date economically down or a man making substantially less mon then she does.
 
Jesus X said:
people in porn are basically prostitutes who are filmed and they get married and fall in love all the time.
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They also tend to be horrible partners. Can a hoe love.....yes. Can a hoe be trusted or is it wise to settle down with one? Hell no
 
MikeMcMann said:
So we agree that love is very rarely if ever re and almost always a function of status along the way.

If two people meet, have chemistry and a bond then the living situation (parents basement or penthouse apartment) should not matter. But we all know that love (particularly for women) does not work that way. There is a significant element of status, again particularly for women. What can he provide. And while women don't always need a sugar daddy it is very rare to find women who will ever date economically down or a man making substantially less mon then she does.
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That's the rule but it doesn't have to be that way. Not necessarily. The way I see it, love is or should be something entirely else, at least when people reach a certain level of maturity. I can go on and on but that would come off as derailing the thread.
 
What about porn stars???

I mean that's got to be weird when your girl come home from "work" and wants to kiss you right?
 
It's funny that prostitutes get so much flak when there are regular girls sleeping around much more, and often for free, for less money, or for small stuff like dinners or booze.

The things I have seen or heard girls do makes your average hooker look like an angel. Yet everyone goes off on prostitutes, who in many cases were brought into that life by a) losing everything and only having that option to make money, especially when they also happened to have a kid they needed to feed and b) being sexually abused as a child and knowing no path in life but that.

Yet everyone acts like they're she-devils out to break the hearts and wallets of every man. They are people, too. Some of them have good intentions, some of them have bad intentions. An individual has to be assessed on a case-by-case basis. To be fair, I wouldn't just start dating a prostitute if I was single, and I'm not sure how I would react if a girl I was dating opened up on that aspect of her life, but I certainly won't judge other men for dating a former or current hooker trying to leave the life behind.
 
ironwolf said:
What about porn stars???

I mean that's got to be weird when your girl come home from "work" and wants to kiss you right?
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At least you know what's going on. With a "regular" girlfriend who decides to cheat, you will have no idea "what" you're kissing, not to mention what diseases you will get.
 
I dont have any beef with prostitutes man, to be honest I think they provide a service for a very real need in society... I lost my virginity at 17, and Im currently married (still I paid for prostitutes twice in my life) however Ive seen guys so socially incapacitated that if it wasnt for prostitutes they would have remained virgins until their 40s or 50s, and if there wasnt prostitutes I dont want to think what they would have been capable of doing.
 
Case by case basis, all depends. I have met a prostitute that told me she couldn't remember the last time she had sex and didn't get paid for it tho
 
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