Breaking "you're overweight" to your significant other?

you get fat yourself & let her tell you that. act angry & dish it back to her, but in measured fashion. play it right & lose weight together.
 
Not too late to get her a sherdog account for christmas. We'll take it from there bro
 
I'm sure they are fully aware and probably not happy about it . just say you need to shed a couple pounds and going to adjust your diet they will probably join right in
 
Daveb said:
Purposefully get caught watching bbw porn.
When she says 'what are you doing?'
Reply " I really love you so I'm trying to learn to be attracted to bigger women."

She will see this as romantic and lose weight to reward you
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Genius and foolproof
 
break it to her literally, loosen a screw of break a leg partially in her chair so the next time she sits in it it will break. for maximum effect do it before you have guests over so it shames her greater among family and friends. hopefully she is ashamed into losing weight and this way it is her idea, that is the key, it has to be her idea to lose the weight.
 
You could make those fake Godzilla footstep noises every time you see her taking a step.
 
My gf already knew that she was a little overweight/out of shape, so she chose to join the gym herself ahah, I don't have to say anything except being there for her when she needs it.
 
You should be able to bring it up with your spouse, if you have a good relationship and good communication. I mentioned to my wife that we were both getting fat, and she was doing exercise later that day. But prevention is the best cure, so I just show her pics of some fat wives I know and tell her that I cannot blame the husband for cheating. If you're pussy-whipped, don't even bother with any of this, and enjoy your fat wife.
 
Bro my wife is beautiful. She has a few more pounds but how can I blame her when she has beared both my children. She still looks nice and takes good care of herself. Maybe she thinks I'm a fat ass but I lift, run and do bjj. Anyway I'm happy with my spouse.
 
I really want to hear how this plays out

whatevet you do you'll probably end up in a big fight over it, and you know how these fights ramp up, so maybe start at like a level 7 right off the bat, catch her off guard, overwhelm her
 
Telling her shes fats will not help her lose weight. I would not say anything, maybe she catches on because you dont want to have sex. She either will by her self ( very long shot) or eventually you will become unattracted and start eyes wandering elsewhere. Thats usually the way it goes.
 
She ain't fat until you're having trouble with penetration. Until then, let her eat whatever she wants and watch those tits grow.
 
U need to just come out and say it. Say some shit like, i want us to live long lives together or some bullshit, but make it about health and shit.
 
FritzWhite said:
Buy her a training session or a gym membership. Talk about how good you feel when you train and eat healthy foods. If she ever directly confronts you to ask if you think she's too fat, say something like "you're beautiful but I'm concerned about your health and want you to feel your best".

If this doesn't work, you have to decide if you want to stay with a fat chick.
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This is legitimately the way. It has worked for me before and I learned it from a girl I dated who said it to me 8 years ago post-college when I had stopped working out for a while.
 
Get fat with her: sympathy weight. Then post before and after pics on Sherdog so we can post lol reaction gifs
 
Best to start early. Don't beat around the bush. Dismiss there comments about loving them no matter what size they are offensively, like they should be ashamed of saying something so stupid. Don't let it slide.

Get out the belt if you need to.


Jk. Not about the belt part, that part was serious.


Jk.
 
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