We don't agree on much, and you were far too kind in your description of this condescending prick, but you bring up some excellent points here. Pretty much everywhere, the most vindictive and unforgiving critics of stay at home mothers are other women. It is somehow viewed as a betrayal of women's progress.
One of the main catalysts for the women's movement in the first place was men horribly undervaluing the female contribution to the home. And the reason it took so long to take root was the lack of alternatives and options for women. As soon as those alternatives and options manifested, women embraced them in droves.
The irony is now, decades later, men have come a long way in properly valuing the stay at home parents contribution. Many to the point that they would rather have their wife at home, or themselves at home, than the extra money. And now it's so often women that don't value the contribution. But we should not judge them too harshly. After all, they learned that from us.
It's hilarious this Yenor asshat mentioned women being more medicated. Because married mothers were far more medicated from the 1950's to the 1970's than they are today. In fact it peaked in the 1970's. You should go back and look at the shit they were taking back then, and how much of it.
I am hopeful that one of the good things to come out of COVID will be a dramatic increase in stay at home parents. A lot of people are now seeing that by the time you pay the childcare and after school care, second business wardrobe, and the rest of it, and see how much better off the kids are.......having that parent at home is not such a bad idea. And that's NOT a conservative principle.