ehhhh i wouldn't oversimplify it like that
Now I don't speak for everyone, as I do love a good challenge. I have played a bunch of games where I died many many times on boss fights until I figured out how to beat them on my own.
But then you have games like Nioh 2: I tried really hard to get into this game and learn the complex system.. and for a while, i was getting the hang of the different stances, ki pulses, parrying, timing, all of that. Then I got to one boss where I couldn't use any of those techniques.. and if he grabbed me I was basically done. I died many times trying different strategies, but that fight basiclaly boiled down to trying to keep distance, moving in after his attacks, poking him real quick, then stepping back and letting the cycle repeat itself.
It was a dangerous fight.. and manageable for those who have the patience.. but in the end.. IT WASN'T FUN.
Different game, I know, but similar concept. I am trying out bloodborne now and so far I have no direction whatsoever. I hope I do figure it out eventually, if not, I'm not going to fight with the game if I'm not having fun.