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Dan, you're right. I should stop fucking around and find a coach. I definitely would benefit from being around other lifters. I don't feel like I have much potential, But I do want to maximize to see and not have any regrets later on. Why I haven't? I'm honestly scared. Moving away, taking shit from people who would assume I'm once again shirking responsibility instead of actually chasing a worthwhile goal. Ect.. Ect..
My JauntySense just tingled.
I honestly believe that Oly lifting has something to teach you about life. And that's that, sometimes, you have to commit completely without fear of failure. If you hesitate or half-ass nothing happens. A damp squib, or an embarrassing failure. At the very best, mediocrity. What I admire about proper Oly lifters is that they don't hold back. With a max attempt they throw themselves into that moment with no possibility of backing out, not sure what will be the outcome, only knowing that they will give it their all to get the right outcome.
Life can be like that. Sometimes, there are amazing things out there, but you have to take a big risk to grab them. If you just stay where you are, or you make a half-assed attempt, you won't get them. That means, in practice, sometimes you have to step out into the unknown. Give up a good job, or a comfortable situation. Walk out on a relationship that is good but not great. Risk everyone's confusion or disapproval.
Fear is okay- unless part of your brain is disconnected, it is a natural response to being in a very risky situation. But with risk comes reward. I think people who succeed at high level actively seek out those fear-inducing situations. And it stops becoming something that makes them cower and hold back, and instead becomes something that makes them feel jazzed and excited. Maybe that is part of good lifter's psychology (although possibly a lot of them are also "warrior" types who aren't very good at feeling fear in the first place).
TL;DR- pull the fuck out of the bar of life, and then jump under that bastard; no hesitation, full commitment.