That's easy for people when they believe that they're spending the rest of their life with the hottie who likes giving BJ's and is fun to be around or the fit, athletic guy who holds doors and is romantic.
Tell me how that works out for people when the wife's a porker and not interested in dick and would rather post on Facebook then go out or the husband is bald with a beer gut, his chivalry is dead, and he farts at the dinner table.
Throw kids into the mix and the awesomeness of the dating phase can die in a hurry. If nothing changes and the relationship is like the dating phase that's awesome. Most people don't get to have that.
Used to have a super hot, but crazy g/f. Longest relationship to date actually.
She used to give out Bj’s like it was her job. and she was legit Bi, had a girlfriend before we got together. Etc. dated both sexes in ltr’s not just drunk girl at bar kissing other girls bi.
Anyway she would sometimes randomly bring hotties home for me.
We had an apartment for a few years , bought a house we’re taking marriage kids etc.
One day I noticed I hadn’t had a bj in a legit 3 months. They had become less frequent over the years but up until that point was still at least two a week.
anyway i jokingly ask for a bj and mentioned it had been a while and she looks me straight in the face, not kidding serious as a heart attack and says.
“These are the lips I’m gonna kiss our kids with one day, they are never going on your dick again”
I put up with it for another. 6 months.
No Bj’s , no random hotties being brought home.
No watching porn together and having marathon sex all day when it rained
And I had enough. That was it.
