I actually think there might be some truth to this, but I also believe you’re partly wrong since you seem to put the blame on the whole “boss girl” phenomenon.
From my own experience, I’ve noticed that people who grow up without a father often misunderstand what it means to be a man. They tend to believe that being a man is all about being a hyper-masculine alpha male. In reality, they often end up as parodies of what a man is supposed to be. I think this could be because they lack a male role model who shows them that men can experience a wide range of emotions and express themselves in many different ways.
That said, this is entirely based on my own experiences and, as far as I know, doesn’t have any scientific basis.