Well not really” lol” he’d had testicular cancer. It was just a relief for us to see each other again. I had just got out from the American Embassy in London after my flights fucking up in Virginia and New York and nearly not getting there in time and was in a panic that I would say something wrong and my visa be denied. It was a bit harrowing all around.
Yeah he’s fine. We haven’t spoken about it lately but I assume he still gets checked out. This was 6ish years ago when we were hugging and crying. I went through some stuff last year and even though we weren’t together in person, he couldn’t have been more supportive. Sometimes we don’t speak for a week or so but we just pick up exactly where we left off before. It’s easy. 8 hour time difference, his wife not liking me and him working from home at the moment doesn’t help much though.
How long have you been married?
You don't sound like the controlling type in the slightest. I caught what you said pre edit. He isn't a weak man at all so lay off that, quite the opposite. The three of us have been out for dinner and drinks heaps of times. He isn't an insecure wretch like many men are about their wives exes. He's comfortable in his own skin and not in the slightest worried when on the rare occasion I'm in the UK I get to hang out with a really good friend. If you don't have that sort of connection then fine.
Where is the disrespect here? And with regard to my ex's wife. She is not in the slightest bit a nice woman. She never has been. He's with her for the sake of his children. And don't try and school me on that when you don't know the full situation.
If we were texting or seeing each other all day every day I would understand that. We enjoy each other's company once every couple of years...he had cancer, I had cancer. It's being there for each other. And missing going out and having a laugh like we used to.
Jesus. I don’t even think she knows we’ve stayed mates for the last 16 years.
Oh shush, fuck sake haha. You're just clutching at straws now. I understand that some insecure men can't cope with their women being friends with men, but that's their problem. And most of the time they have proper drag them by the hair caveman issues, which...not particularly healthy. I'm not something that's owned. I'm not someone's property.
