American woman complains about dating in japan

[TheTickG]

I mean, she's not really wrong about western scrubs doing better over seas, I think she's just mad because she expected the same treatment. She's average looking and appears to be a bit older, she went to Japan thinking she would be a rare commodity and dudes would be lining up for her. They couldn't care less and she's salty about it.

It's a good question though, why do asian women go for western neckbeards, but asian men don't go for sub-standard western women?

Because in Japan she's not average. In Japan she's ugly, overweight, and has a bad attitude. She is the leg beard of Japan. For the guys in Japan that can do better, they'll get a more attractive woman.

For the guys who can't do better, they'll spend their time on hobbies instead of disgracing themselves. Her best bet is to find a non Japanese foreigner with a penchant for white women or to find a new country.

 

[Reyesnuthugr]

"If you’ve ever visited Asia, you’ve likely seen the pale, rail-thin, greasy-haired white boy walking hand-in hand with a perfectly made-up, mini-skirt wearing Asian chick. This would never happen anywhere else in the world. Because everywhere else, Barbie ends up with Ken, not his underemployed, socially-awkward, samurai-sword-collecting neighbor, Kevin. But in Asia, dating rules defy all logic or evolutionary law. In Asia, the nerd is king."

1. Incorrect, it would happen in any part of the world, including the US. Because Asian chicks want white guys.
2. She's so angry she's resorted to body shaming
3. Not so ironically, she's the greasy unkempt weirdo so far as not meeting the minimum aesthetic requirements to be called a typical nerd
4. "If you’ve ever visited Asia, you’ve likely seen ME, the pale, shamelessly pudgy, greasy-haired, white someone's-Aunt/Mom, walking bitterly through the streets. This would never happen anywhere else in the world. Because everywhere else, Ken ends up with Barbie, not this underemployed, socially-awkward, attention-devouring blog hog, Reannon Muth. But in Asia, dating rules follow logic or evolutionary law."

 

[Orgasmo]

just answer the question, bro.

East Asians don't really like to shave their bushes I find, but many of them are developing the habit of trimming them.

 

[Crash Lance]

Because in Japan she's not average. In Japan she's ugly, overweight, she's as ANCIENT as Methuselah, and has a bad attitude. She is the leg beard of Japan. For the guys in Japan that can do better, they'll get a more attractive woman.

For the guys who can't do better, they'll spend their time on hobbies instead of disgracing themselves. Her best bet is to find a non Japanese foreigner with a penchant for white women or to find a new country.

 

[loyalyolayal]

Can you explain the part about Ilongos?

Mostly positive stereotypes. Like being "malambing".

malambing
affectionate
(caring in words too,
but often touchy-feely)
sweet and warm in caressing,
shows fondness and tenderness

Tagalogs would often say they wish they were Ilonggo to me back in college, especially when I'm with a girl.

The old stereotype is that most of them are rich. Like a southern plantation owner, we call them hacienderos.

 

[Soma]

Mostly positive stereotypes. Like being "malambing".

Tagalogs would often say they wish they were Ilonggo to me back in college, especially when I'm with a girl.

The old stereotype is that most of them are rich. Like a southern plantation owner, we call them hacienderos.

Ah ok. Thanks. I asked because my Stepmom is Ilonggo and i just came back from a trip to Negros Occidental to visit the rest of the family. All the family and friends i met were incredibly warm, welcoming, affectionate, and friendly. Seems like most people living out there were pretty poor but my stepmoms family does well; lawyers, engineers, etc. One of them owns several businesses, lands, and chicken farms haha. Sounds like fits the stereotype well.

Met a lot of wholesome and conservative girls there too. I'll actually be going back to visit again next month.

Any recommendations on things to do, see, while im there?

 

[loyalyolayal]

Ah ok. Thanks. I asked because my Stepmom is Ilonggo and i just came back from a trip to Negros Occidental to visit the rest of the family. All the family and friends i met were incredibly warm, welcoming, affectionate, and friendly. Seems like most people living out there were pretty poor but my stepmoms family does well; lawyers, engineers, etc. One of them owns several businesses, lands, and chicken farms haha. Sounds like fits the stereotype well.

Met a lot of wholesome and conservative girls there too. I'll actually be going back to visit again next month.

Any recommendations on things to do, see, while im there?

Lakawon Island and Sipalay for the beaches. Mambukal for the mountain hot springs. If you're feeling edgy, you could go to Mt. Kanla-on and bribe the local guides to go deep inside the 4 km permanent danger zone. It's an active volcano. PM me if you train.

When you're here, ask them about why they make fun of bisayas.

 

[Lord Commander Palis]

Dude, the average American woman is 169 lbs and 5'4

That's a BMI of 29 which is bordering on obese.

Considerng that is what the average American woman is nowadays makes me think that all you need to be considered at least a 5 in the US is by not being fat

Lol at worrying about what the average woman looks like. Must suck to be uggo.

 

[steve38]

Lakawon Island and Sipalay for the beaches. Mambukal for the mountain hot springs. If you're feeling edgy, you could go to Mt. Kanla-on and bribe the local guides to go deep inside the 4 km permanent danger zone. It's an active volcano. PM me if you train.

When you're here, ask them about why they make fun of bisayas.

Aren't all bisayas either hookers or maids? That's what I heard...in Manila.

 

[loyalyolayal]

Aren't all bisayas either hookers or maids? That's what I heard...in Manila.

It didn't came from me...

 

[steve38]

It didn't came from me...

lol...like all stereotypes, there's a whole lot of truth in it.

As for the entitled white chick in the OP, i met lots like her working typhoon recovery efforts there in Philippines. No expat wanted them, but the local guys chased them with the expected vengeful lust.

 

[loyalyolayal]

lol...like all stereotypes, there's a whole lot of truth in it.

As for the entitled white chick in the OP, i met lots like her working typhoon recovery efforts there in Philippines. No expat wanted them, but the local guys chased them with the expected vengeful lust.

 

[Thai Otoshi]

Yeah in all fairness Japans birth rate is cratering and Japanese women have a hard time finding Japanese husbands. That's part of why it's so easy for foreign men to meet available women in Japan, Japanese women have a hard time getting non creepy Japanese men to talk to them outside of business but Americans are pretty glib.

A female tourist in Japan is going to have a hard time dating anyone save other tourists. And yeah I get she's working there, but if you haven't completed a single 6 month contract yet, you're still basically a tourist with a day job.




Japanese women complain the same thing, that dudes in their generation tend to be shut ins / non communicative so they end up dating guys 15-20 years older than them that are wife shopping or foreigners.

Yeah a lot of people talking shit about the OP seem to be ignorant of this. The author of the article in the OP really is not wrong.

It's not just plummeting birth rates, but plummeting dating and sex overall. Japanese men are so disinterested in sex, that Japanese women have basically taken to just poaching foreign men whenever they can.

https://www.sbs.com.au/news/the-fee...-t-having-sex-and-the-reason-is-proving-fatal

https://nypost.com/2017/07/10/japans-population-is-shrinking-because-no-one-is-having-sex/

 

[Thai Otoshi]

That woman would get it with a vengeance.

 

[The_Renaissance]

Its pretty simple - a lot of white men love Asian women, and they love them back. Not many white women love Asian men. Very few, actually.

I've only ever met one western bird who loves Asian men the same way western men love the women.

She's eastern European and a massive Feminazi. She loves men who are completely submissive and essentially in awe of her, hence she gravitates towards Asian men who are just thankful to be having the attention from a woman they see as being hard to get. Her boyfriend lives in Hong Kong (she's moved home now) and is such a phag its unreal - constantly posting photos of him with their cats on her timeline and loved up messages.

 

[Yuval Levy]

Its pretty simple - a lot of white men love Asian women, and they love them back. Not many white women love Asian men. Very few, actually.

I've only ever met one western bird who loves Asian men the same way western men love the women.

She's eastern European and a massive Feminazi. She loves men who are completely submissive and essentially in awe of her, hence she gravitates towards Asian men who are just thankful to be having the attention from a woman they see as being hard to get. Her boyfriend lives in Hong Kong (she's moved home now) and is such a phag its unreal - constantly posting photos of him with their cats on her timeline and loved up messages.

Dunno, From what I've seen, women from Turkey, Brazil, France, Germany, Australia, the Balkans and Eastern Europe beg to differ.

 

[SmilinDesperado]

Yeah a lot of people talking shit about the OP seem to be ignorant of this. The author of the article in the OP really is not wrong.

It's not just plummeting birth rates, but plummeting dating and sex overall. Japanese men are so disinterested in sex, that Japanese women have basically taken to just poaching foreign men whenever they can.

https://www.sbs.com.au/news/the-fee...-t-having-sex-and-the-reason-is-proving-fatal

https://nypost.com/2017/07/10/japans-population-is-shrinking-because-no-one-is-having-sex/

Yeah, a lot of truth in that article, but it isn't a disinterest in sex, it's that getting into proper relationships are difficult.
You work late hours and then you're expected to go out and have dinner and drinks with your coworkers until late at night afterwards..and then that can lead to karaoke, hostess bars and hookers, or places to get head or a blowjob.

Girls aren't having sex, but dudes are getting off either via porn or these after work places, so it's not like they don't want to bang. Working in a Japanese company isn't a 9-5 job. The bulk of your time and energy, and socializing is going to be spent at work. You can't just clock out and go home when 5pm hits. So I'd say the work culture is one of the biggest culprits.
There's just not enough time to properly date.
And it's the men of the company that are going to be expected to do these late night dinner and drinking binges, not the women, so the latter will have a bit more free time. The men barely have enough time to date Japanese girls, so theyre not going to make time for some frumpy feminist from Seattle.

 

[Yuval Levy]

Yeah, a lot of truth in that article, but it isn't a disinterest in sex, it's that getting into proper relationships are difficult.
You work late hours and then you're expected to go out and have dinner and drinks with your coworkers until late at night afterwards..and then that can lead to karaoke, hostess bars and hookers, or places to get head or a blowjob.

Girls aren't having sex, but dudes are getting off either via porn or these after work places, so it's not like they don't want to bang. Working in a Japanese company isn't a 9-5 job. The bulk of your time and energy, and socializing is going to be spent at work. You can't just clock out and go home when 5pm hits. So I'd say the work culture is one of the biggest culprits.
There's just not enough time to properly date.
And it's the men of the company that are going to be expected to do these late night dinner and drinking binges, not the women, so the latter will have a bit more free time. The men barely have enough time to date Japanese girls, so theyre not going to make time for some frumpy feminist from Seattle.

Exactly, those guys are being treated like overclocked PC's.

 

[Wrath of Foamy]

http://www.vagabondish.com/female-foreign-japan/

She sounds like an arrogant cunt.

Putting down Asian women, Asian men and white men.

She’s a white woman, queen of the fucking food chain, according to her.

Fuck her.

 

[Oeshon]

white chicks have the same problems in SEA too. smaller pool of men they are interested in, and that smaller pool of men has a HUGE available pool of local women for them. this shifts the power dynamic around on a 180 on these girls and some don't cope with it well.