WAR ROOM LOUNGE V14: Moor of the Saim

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The sexual market value of a slave outside Kunsan, Korea was a juice, a nice lunch and a knockoff handbag.
 
Fawlty said:
The uh, marketing aesthetic of virginity does seem similar to early adopters paying way too much for an inferior product because they want to be in there first. For whatever that's worth lol.

I remember when I started having sex, after a few months I got very possessive and monogamy/low number of partners became really important to me, and looking back I was kind of petty about it. I think that's a relatively normal phase to go through, but it didn't ever occur to me to really dig on that idea and make into some kind of personal philosophy or let it dictate the value of women. I did know a couple of guys who weren't able to let that go, and it caused some nasty problems for them. It's creepy, makes you worry for the safety of their partners. There wasn't much sadder than seeing a happy young woman turn into a depressed shell of herself.
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Yea, it's funny and bizarre how women can directly affect our psychology like that.

On the topic of incels, I had this close friend....for the life of him he couldn't land a woman....he wasnt ugly, but had zero confidence, never took a chance, and I'm some ways, was socially retarded...

He was incredibly shy, and closed off until he got to know you.

Unfortunately, this doesn't work in the dating world, or pave the way to success in asking a woman out.

Long story short, he became incredibly bitter toward all women...

Referring to them as bitches and sluts and had these ridiculous beliefs that "women only care about money and themselves. . they are selfish..."
 
LogicalInsanity said:
Long story short, he became incredibly bitter toward all women...

Referring to them as bitches and sluts and had these ridiculous beliefs that "women only care about money and themselves. . they are selfish..."
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So he saw the light? :eek::D
 
LogicalInsanity said:
Yea, it's funny and bizarre how women can directly affect our psychology like that.

On the topic of incels, I had this close friend....for the life of him he couldn't land a woman....he wasnt ugly, but had zero confidence, never took a chance, and I'm some ways, was socially retarded...

He was incredibly shy, and closed off until he got to know you.

Unfortunately, this doesn't work in the dating world, or pave the way to success in asking a woman out.

Long story short, he became incredibly bitter toward all women...

Referring to them as bitches and sluts and had these ridiculous beliefs that "women only care about money and themselves. . they are selfish..."
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What do you think happens with people like that? Like, where does it go wrong?

Most shy kids were shy one day, and then it was like something clicked overnight for them (and it happened anywhere from middle school to college). What do you think it is that holds some of them back?
 
Fawlty said:
What do you think happens with people like that? Like, where does it go wrong?

Most shy kids were shy one day, and then it was like something clicked overnight for them (and it happened anywhere from middle school to college). What do you think it is that holds some of them back?
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Great questions...

Because I was once that guy...

All through high school I was petrified to approach women...

It wasn't until my freshman year of college that I started to gain self confidence....

More on this later
 
Limbo Pete said:
Cliffs:
He thinks porn is useful for "research purposes" but ultimately a waste of precious seed






You read that right
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Well, as you know:

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Fawlty said:
What do you think happens with people like that? Like, where does it go wrong?

Most shy kids were shy one day, and then it was like something clicked overnight for them (and it happened anywhere from middle school to college). What do you think it is that holds some of them back?
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Not going to college is probably one thing, as that seems to be where a lot of people like that start opening up and getting more confidence. If you stay in your hometown, I'd imagine that it would be hard to start expanding. If anything, your circle could shrink as your friends leave. You eventually maybe get a work circle, but if you're kind of shy, that might not help.
 
Cubo de Sangre said:
So he saw the light? :eek::D
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Got "red-pilled" is the term, I believe.

I'd imagine that joining an online community of bitter incels is the worst possible thing you can do because then that kind of thing becomes part of your identity that is actually valued. You'd *lose* friends and a sense of belonging by maturing and forming healthy and/or exciting relationships.
 
Jack V Savage said:
I've been married a decade, so more of a volcel. :) But some of us, yeah.
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Married people never having sex is another one of those things that just never stops being funny to me.

But at the same time I find it very frightening. Since being a young man, with every girlfriend I have had (and I've never had a live-in girlfriend, mind you), sex on at least a daily basis has been kind of a given. Even dating women in their late 20s and early 30s, they want to do it multiple times a night.

Being married and sleeping in a bed with someone who only wants to have sex with me maybe once a week or a couple times a month? That's scary and I think my confidence would be shit.
 
Trotsky said:
Married people never having sex is another one of those things that just never stops being funny to me.

But at the same time I find it very frightening. Since being a young man, with every girlfriend I have had (and I've never had a live-in girlfriend, mind you), sex on at least a daily basis has been kind of a given. Even dating women in their late 20s and early 30s, they want to do it multiple times a night.

Being married and sleeping in a bed with someone who only wants to have sex with me maybe once a week or a couple times a month? That's scary and I think my confidence would be shit.
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Kind of a joke, but the pace seems to go down pretty steadily, with some local upturns. And it's mutual. I think over time, the relationship gets stronger in a lot of ways, but the passion weakens. I mean, I'm sure it's different for everyone, but I can't imagine it *not* fading somewhat over time.
 
Jack V Savage said:
Kind of a joke, but the pace seems to go down pretty steadily, with some local upturns. And it's mutual. I think over time, the relationship gets stronger in a lot of ways, but the passion weakens. I mean, I'm sure it's different for everyone, but I can't imagine it *not* fading somewhat over time.
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Maybe sprinkle some spice into the sex life?

Have you asked her to peg you?
 
Trotsky said:
Maybe sprinkle some spice into the sex life?

Have you asked her to peg you?
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Haha. I don't know what that means, but it doesn't sound good. I'm not complaining. Used to be that I'd come home from the gym tired, and that would be just what I need to get going again. Now I'm tired, and I get a cocktail and a massage and fall asleep, and that's great.
 
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