I agree with everything you said but I have one question about the black community.
Do you think that slavery played a role in the behavior of the black community?
I think there is alot of systematic effects from slavery. You have fathers who were taken from there families during the slave trade for generations. This disconnect is still scene today with black father and families.
Blacks were also not allowed to get an education for hundreds of years . This put then way behind whites educationally and economically. This is way we see a big difference in average white income compare to blacks. How is a black child supposed to know about education and it's importance when they were told for generations that they were less than dogs? This emotional abuse was passes on through generations.
Then we have blacks that hate blacks. Some of this hate comes from whites teaching house blacks to hate the blacks who worked the fields and hard Labor. They would tell the lighter blacks that they were better than their darker brothers... so the divided them.
Law enforcement for generations were slave retrieves. Blacks of today are still don't trust the law because of generational abuse.
Yes I think slavery absolutely played a role, and share cropping after that.
Blacks were reduced to juveniles and not trusted, cared for, or taught to be citizens, and as a result developed a desperate culture out of older African ideas, necessity of being subjected to terrible conditions in order to "stick together," and in the absence of an overseer who cared.
Slavery/share cropping treated people as children, children made to work and be simple minded, and then when that ended, who would teach them then? In fact, who could at that point?
You take a people and say: we're taking you're rights, we are keeping you ignorant, and now that we can not oppress you by law, well, catch up on 200 years of history and suck it up.
If I were black, I would think sometimes? Really?! "White people" never gave two grapes about me and held me down.
But the truth is much, much more complicated: white culture fought a war to end slavery, white culture by in large has been trying to right the wrongs, and white culture in a modern context is for the most part benign, wants to judge people by their character, and full of people who mostly want to be good but have the same pride and bias as anyone else and refuses to put down their blinders to see the truth.
The truth is not that far apart no matter what a Jessie Jackson blaming the white man, or a Banon yelling "get a job!" want us to believe. Both are dead wrong, and both are ugly in their falsehoods.
The black community has felt slighted, angry, and as we tend to see in history "leaders" who use anger and slight to their advantage tend to rise to the top.
Easier to perpetuate those problems, real as they may be, by blaming others and being proud of what might not be wise to be proud of.
But at the same time, black America is right, something should be done, that requires looking outside and inside to get the answers.
How can we honest about any of this?
I am not sure with all certainty, but I can tell you this friend: we should not shout down black men who reasonably want to talk about how to fix oppression in a constructive way, and we should not want to shut down white men who feel they and their ancestors have come a long way to right the wrongs.
Both are right, and with some care, understanding, and dare I say it, brotherly love, we can take real steps again in civil rights instead of having a circular firing squad of platitude shouting.