HELP! Having serious troubles with marriage!

choke you said:
I don't know where to start so I won't.
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I'm trying really hard, but you just might be right.

SocialJusticeFighter said:
Im a feminist
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Don't.

I mean no disrespect by this, but I think you need to find your balls and do the uncomfortable shit. You sound like a teenager. Go earn your respect and earn your marriage back. I think you already know what to do..... let this be your motivation: it'll only get worse if you don't change now.

Here's a motivational video I hand-picked just for you:
 
SocialJusticeFighter said:
Background: I havent had a job in a couple years and my wife completely supports me. I spend most my time on Sherdog and playing Internet poker altho I do train MMA everyday for a hour. I have criminal convictions and no college experience.

I have a lot of social anxiety meeting new people which is why I spend most my time on here. Everyday my wife comes home from work and it's just more and more arguing.

"Why are you always on the computer"

"What the hell is that stupid forum?!?!"

"Get a job"

"go to community college"

"pick your beer cans up of the floor"

I am beyond tired of this constant nagging but also I feel like nothing more then her personal maid. I am constantly doing the dishes and washing the clothes and I feel like I'm doing demeaning activities. Don't get me wrong Im a feminist and it's not that I'm a man that makes me feel insecure about doing this I just feel bad about being ordered around.

Another thing I'm worried about is she is going out a lot for long hours at night with her "friends" and I'm worried she may be cheating on me. I really don't know what to do.

I don't have the motivation to go work at McDonald's or something but my wife is really on me and I am terrified about her leaving me. Recently she told me I'm not allowed to watch UFC anymore after I got into an altercation with her brother. She thinks it's making me more violent. I'm forced to covertly watch events on my phone in fear she will catch me and kick me out.

I have no idea what to do or how to save my marriage. What can I do guys?


P. S. My wife is one of those Meryl Streep types that genuinely believes UFC is barbaric and inhumane and is totally against it. On top of me having no job and doing nothing all day my UFC watching habits are driving her insane
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GearSolidMetal said:
Usually, I'd say 'throw the bitch out.'

But then I read your post, and you're clearly the bitch of the relationship.



Edit - That wasn't exactly a constructive comment, but let me read back to you what you posted.

You're a stay-at-home bum that's fully comfortable with the fact your wife works her ass off to pay all the bills, while you're doing nothing constructive or even entertaining the idea of getting a job and making excuse after excuse to why you won't even bother trying.

Finally, after years of putting up with your shit, she'd getting fed up and is about to throw you out and divorce your ass. She's probably been asking herself 'Is this who I'm going to allow to knock me up?' for a very long time.

So - you're looking for advice? Start putting in some damn serious effort into finding a job - any fucking job, any Mcdonalds - and you just might find one. If you don't like that job, keep looking for a better one. Ask yourself if working the worst damn job around is worth stopping her from filing for divorce.

And if you want some damn motivation - Set the goal of not logging onto Sherdog or watching the UFC until you find a job.

And, one more bit of advice - CDL drivers are at full employment throughout the entire country, It's a recession-proof job, and most employers don't give a damn about your criminal history as long as it's not recent.

If you told your wife tonight you're going to Trucking School to find a local driving job, she'd be very approving.


Now, I just gave you the best damn advice I could give to a fellow Sherdogger of how not to be divorced and avoid being thrown out on the street. The rest if up to you.
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Heed this advice TS, you're not going to find better.

TBH, I'm surprised she stuck with your ass this long.

Dust the sand out of your knickers and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Man up and get a job.
 
SocialJusticeFighter said:
Background: I havent had a job in a couple years and my wife completely supports me. I spend most my time on Sherdog and playing Internet poker altho I do train MMA everyday for a hour. I have criminal convictions and no college experience.

I have a lot of social anxiety meeting new people which is why I spend most my time on here. Everyday my wife comes home from work and it's just more and more arguing.

"Why are you always on the computer"

"What the hell is that stupid forum?!?!"

"Get a job"

"go to community college"

"pick your beer cans up of the floor"

I am beyond tired of this constant nagging but also I feel like nothing more then her personal maid. I am constantly doing the dishes and washing the clothes and I feel like I'm doing demeaning activities. Don't get me wrong Im a feminist and it's not that I'm a man that makes me feel insecure about doing this I just feel bad about being ordered around.

Another thing I'm worried about is she is going out a lot for long hours at night with her "friends" and I'm worried she may be cheating on me. I really don't know what to do.

I don't have the motivation to go work at McDonald's or something but my wife is really on me and I am terrified about her leaving me. Recently she told me I'm not allowed to watch UFC anymore after I got into an altercation with her brother. She thinks it's making me more violent. I'm forced to covertly watch events on my phone in fear she will catch me and kick me out.

I have no idea what to do or how to save my marriage. What can I do guys?


P. S. My wife is one of those Meryl Streep types that genuinely believes UFC is barbaric and inhumane and is totally against it. On top of me having no job and doing nothing all day my UFC watching habits are driving her insane
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Your wife is as real as Aldo's belt.
 
ClubFoot said:
Heed this advice TS, you're not going to find better.

TBH, I'm surprised she stuck with your ass this long.

Dust the sand out of your knickers and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Man up and get a job.
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Due to the fact he hasn't responded to my post, I'm leaning toward the likely conclusion that he's a bullshit artist.
 
GearSolidMetal said:
Usually, I'd say 'throw the bitch out.'

But then I read your post, and you're clearly the bitch of the relationship.



Edit - That wasn't exactly a constructive comment, but let me read back to you what you posted.

You're a stay-at-home bum that's fully comfortable with the fact your wife works her ass off to pay all the bills, while you're doing nothing constructive or even entertaining the idea of getting a job and making excuse after excuse to why you won't even bother trying.

Finally, after years of putting up with your shit, she'd getting fed up and is about to throw you out and divorce your ass. She's probably been asking herself 'Is this who I'm going to allow to knock me up?' for a very long time.

So - you're looking for advice? Start putting in some damn serious effort into finding a job - any fucking job, any Mcdonalds - and you just might find one. If you don't like that job, keep looking for a better one. Ask yourself if working the worst damn job around is worth stopping her from filing for divorce.

And if you want some damn motivation - Set the goal of not logging onto Sherdog or watching the UFC until you find a job.

And, one more bit of advice - CDL drivers are at full employment throughout the entire country, It's a recession-proof job, and most employers don't give a damn about your criminal history as long as it's not recent.

If you told your wife tonight you're going to Trucking School to find a local driving job, she'd be very approving.


Now, I just gave you the best damn advice I could give to a fellow Sherdogger of how not to be divorced and avoid being thrown out on the street. The rest if up to you.
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Dude I appreciate the advice but I just don't see myself as trucker material. They work crazy hours and I might be forced to miss the big PPVs. Really no idea what to do at this point.

I have been stuck in this cycle for so long it is hard to imagine myself getting out of it
 
SocialJusticeFighter said:
I just don't see myself as trucker material. They work crazy hours and I might be forced to miss the big PPVs.
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1. Local truck driving jobs - you're sleeping in your bed every night with consistent work hours. I heard trash truck drivers make $20-$24 a hour, depending where you live.

2. Weekday jobs, leaving your Saturday nights free for PPVs.

3. Even if you still say no, the rest of my advice is still relevant. Perhaps you should ask yourself what you're going to do after you're getting kicked out.
 
See a doctor. Sounds like you're depressed.

Oh yeah, and your life sounds like the premise of Crashing.

 
Lol at beer cans on the floor. Why on earth would that rustle her jimmies.
 
SocialJusticeFighter said:
Background: I havent had a job in a couple years and my wife completely supports me. I spend most my time on Sherdog and playing Internet poker altho I do train MMA everyday for a hour. I have criminal convictions and no college experience.

I have a lot of social anxiety meeting new people which is why I spend most my time on here. Everyday my wife comes home from work and it's just more and more arguing.

"Why are you always on the computer"

"What the hell is that stupid forum?!?!"

"Get a job"

"go to community college"

"pick your beer cans up of the floor"

I am beyond tired of this constant nagging but also I feel like nothing more then her personal maid. I am constantly doing the dishes and washing the clothes and I feel like I'm doing demeaning activities. Don't get me wrong Im a feminist and it's not that I'm a man that makes me feel insecure about doing this I just feel bad about being ordered around.

Another thing I'm worried about is she is going out a lot for long hours at night with her "friends" and I'm worried she may be cheating on me. I really don't know what to do.

I don't have the motivation to go work at McDonald's or something but my wife is really on me and I am terrified about her leaving me. Recently she told me I'm not allowed to watch UFC anymore after I got into an altercation with her brother. She thinks it's making me more violent. I'm forced to covertly watch events on my phone in fear she will catch me and kick me out.

I have no idea what to do or how to save my marriage. What can I do guys?


P. S. My wife is one of those Meryl Streep types that genuinely believes UFC is barbaric and inhumane and is totally against it. On top of me having no job and doing nothing all day my UFC watching habits are driving her insane
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First and foremost, get rid of the piercings so she can tell you're a man and you have a chance to get a job. If you don't have a job outside the home, you should be doing the housework and making sandwiches without her having to ask. Don't drink alcohol all day while she's at work.
 
No way. Pics of wife.


Only an extremely disfigured woman with a low self esteem would put up with that bullshit.
 
00 Buck said:
No way. Pics of wife.


Only an extremely disfigured woman with a low self esteem would put up with that bullshit.
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you brutally insult me then expect me to post pictures to you low life degenerates?

no thanks man im trying to change my life not have you guys ruin it
 
Ban TS for his own benefit.
 
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