Discussion in 'Mayberry Lounge' started by PCP319, Mar 20, 2017.
I know the signs pretty well. First girl I actually trust.
Along with sex two or three times a day!
You trust something that makes important decisions based soley on emotions?
That's part of the problem. Don't ask, take. If she wants you to stop, she'll stop you. You may have let this situation go on for too long now. You may have to play the dread game and distance yourself a bit. Instead of hanging out with her - go to the gym, grab a bite to eat with some buddies, hit up a movie. She's not giving you want you want, so why give her what she wants. You already said you wouldn't dump her over this so what motivation does she have to do better. The single biggest asset a man has in a relationship is the ability to walk away. Sometimes you have to tease it, sometimes you have to use it.
So far you've told us that she doesn't care about your sexual fulfillment and she doesn't keep her word. Is that really wife material - as is? Require more and she'll either rise to your expectations or she'll kick rocks but you'll be happier either way in the long run.
I've tried to just take. She either loves it, or pushes me off. She told me she fears me leaving her for a girl with a higher sex drive, so the fear is there. Changes nothing.
Women promise to do something later to get out of doing something at the current time then hope you'll forget. You need to have a talk but it probably won't do any good. If she doesn't enjoy the same things you do, it's time to cut bait.
Women do it about every 10 minutes.
you're not doing something right. she's not as into you as you think she is. chicks don't just all of a sudden stop doing that, unless they're not into you anymore. just my personal opinion. obviously i don't know you. every chick i've been with was down for that lol. even had one girlfriend who would give me head while i was driving.
Promised that too. Got me up, but never did it.
honestly, begging for it is probably turning her off. usually bj's are kind of like a spontaneous, spur-of-the-moment kinds of things. unless you're doing porn lol.
I am a girl and I've seen the issue both ways. Girls are more likely to deny sex altogether and act like its nothing. Guys are more likely to act like their needs are paramount but not effectively communicate or up their game to incentivize a compromise on the lady's end.
I wouldn't make someone my partner if I wasn't interested in being with them sexually and exclusively. However, there are issues on both ends.
I feel like my game is good. I could take her out to a nice dinner, give her a great back rub, kiss her passionately, do excellent dirty talk, and eat her out to orgasm, but she'd give me maybe a minute of oral before wanting sex.
Then why promise it? If she made it perfectly clear then he would have no soapbox to cry on.
I get the pressure argument. But you're in a consensual relationship with a man that you aren't married to. Tell him to go to hell if you hate sucking dick that much. You're a grown woman and as much as he has a responsibility to not be a creeper and pressure her...she has a responsibility to put her foot down and be clear and concise. Its what adults do. Women included.
is PCPenis a thing?
I'm not saying that's necessarily your problem. I'm more commenting on the topic as a whole. There are serious issues on both sides. Thats all I was getting at. I can't speak to your skills with your woman.
Your dick must be too big so it hurts her mouth. That's what I tell myself whenever the wife denies me oral...
Yep and I've always been up front about how much sex I want which is basically daily. Unless it's been a long day or something like that.
Would you be cool with her shitting on your face on her B-day if she is really looking forward to it?
Bad comparison. And no, because I'd never promise that. We've both agreed that's a no go zone.
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