Would you ever raise another man's child?

HulkonViagra said:
Depends...how bratty and/ or ugly is this child?
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Your sexually deviant red headed step child needs help with her sex-ed homework. Do the right thing.
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Thrawn33 said:
If you are the one raising the child, then the sperm donor has as much right to call that child his as he has to call himself a man.

"Blood matters"? fuck that. Loyalty and love matter. When your daughter says "I love you Dad" after you've been there for her in the tough times for over a decade despite not sharing any genetics, you tell me who the cuck beta is now. Guess what, its not the stepdad.
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Sorry dude. Science dictates. Undeniable. Unwavering. Truth.

I guess we are different people. I'm an old school type. Not calling you weak. Just how it is. Absolute truths.
 
I'd want my first kid to be biological, but after that I wouldn't really be opposed to the idea of adoption. Actually, since I want one kid of each gender, adopting kid 2 might be the best choice.
 
There's one circumstance where I might be fine with it. For instance if we had more children of our own, it's not the end of the world if the first marriage kid tags along. It would create a bit of tension in the family/sibling dynamics though. I have family members where the step-dad raised the previous marriage's kids, and one of the teens grew up very angry and resentful at not being raised by her biological father. But it's not like I was there to observe the family dynamics all day, maybe she had valid reasons to be angry.
 
22k said:
but why would you want to deprive the child of a life where he/she could end up being an upstanding Sherdogger like this here Semen Seagold?
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Homie instigating lol

Might work on boys, but us men aren't phased
 
STEVEN SEAGOLD said:
Sorry dude. Science dictates. Undeniable. Unwavering. Truth.

I guess we are different people. I'm an old school type. Not calling you weak. Just how it is. Absolute truths.
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Funny, i consider myself old school in that nearing my 40s I've seen and experienced more failures of blood relationships than I care to recount.

"Blood" is an excuse to not account for ones actions, to assume all disloyalty will be forgiven because "blood" to assume unwavering love and loyalty no matter how heinious the crime.

I'm old school in the fact I believe things should be earned and affirmed through deeds not by accident of birth.
 
Thrawn33 said:
Funny, i consider myself old school in that nearing my 40s I've seen and experienced more failures of blood relationships than I care to recount.

"Blood" is an excuse to not account for ones actions, to assume all disloyalty will be forgiven because "blood" to assume unwavering love and loyalty no matter how heinious the crime.

I'm old school in the fact I believe things should be earned and affirmed through deeds not by accident of birth.
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Old School = By Blood. Kings and queens, pharaohs, etc.

We must dismantle the topic at hand.

As we know, one part nature, one part nurture.

The concept of "Fatherhood" has a biological, undeniable reality imperative. As well as a sociological man made construction.

A "Father" in the most primal definitions is simply the genetic progenitor from which one came from. Scientific. Undeniable. Truth.

The sociological concept of a "Father" is complex and subjectively meta-physical. What value does the objectivity of a "Father" have if it can change from one individual to another depending on how the offspring (male or female) feels.

Now that I've really thought about this, I don't really care whether my belief is "Alpha" or "Beta", as my OP might suggest. Perhaps I threw that out as a bit of bait to get the ball of discussion rolling. I am not phased by the judgement of my belief. My belief.

We all value this differently. The concept of parents and fathers. Some value the sociological aspect more. Some value the procreative, scientific side.

My belief is extreme. The only father is one that is biological. This does not mean you can't support and help. But in my belief, you are not the offspring's father. You can try and spin it with fine print, but at the end of the day only a man and a woman can create life. Singular. One individual. One father.
 
It depends? If I found out husband had a child that was born before our marriage, sure though I would probably be pissed at first. A child that was born during it? Nope, insta divorce too.

Other situations such as raising a relative or similar would be fair game too.
 
Alphafail said:
It depends? If I found out husband had a child that was born before our marriage, sure though I would probably be pissed at first. A child that was born during it? Nope, insta divorce too.

Other situations such as raising a relative or similar would be fair game too.
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Lol I read this and imagined you as Catelyn Stark xD
 
Well imo the whole "I wouldn't raise someone else's kid because that's beta" argument is pure dudebro immaturity. If you love someone and are comfortable helping to raise their child, good for you. It's terrible growing up without a parent.

That being said I personally would not want to, because I'd be a terrible role model and I'm not responsible enough to raise a kid.
 
Situations change. Im with my wife and would prefer it to be that way til we die together but if something was to happen to her ..... Im 35 years old. My chances of meeting a woman my age who doesnt have kids is probably rare and you play the hand you were dealt not the one you wish you were.



Considering that you dont even know what to do if someone gives you a present you dont like this subject is probably beyond you dude.
 
DIABOLUS said:
If a woman has a man's baby, and he's not around to care for it, she dun goofed, whether it was by fucking the wrong guy, getting knocked up by said guy, or by not doing what she needed to do to keep him around. No thanks.
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Big ups. Only cucks and men with low testosterone would raise some other mans baby.

As a dude, you got to swing the hammer, thread the needle, and hit on skanks. Women just show up and get fucked hence the walk of shame for being a whore.

Heels over head and some cuck jumps into raise her baby and cleanup her mess.

A real man with options would not even consider entertaining such an abomination. Your resources are being extracted.

Bottom line; she dun goofed. 1. fucked the wrong dude squandering her best years as a booty call or
2. she drove the cawk sucker crazy to the point he left at the risk of her unleashing the dogs of the state on his resources.
 
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