Who's in therapy?

I literally went once and realised it isn't for me but I think it helps some people having the undivided attention of someone who will just listen. I would dearly love to be the person who could just turf all their issues onto someone and say see you next week feeling better.
More so the platform to speak, I think. The listening or appearance of listening is more just an asset of enablement to feel like that platform is reaching something, but it’s not just listening, it’s actually most empowered to work against you.

Saying shit aloud gives you the ability to hear self and hopefully learn from it. You just gotta be careful who you say things to. Your friends don’t get to ink your medical records.
 
More so the platform to speak, I think. The listening or appearance of listening is more just an asset of enablement to feel like that platform is reaching something, but it’s not just listening, it’s actually most empowered to work against you.

Saying shit aloud gives you the ability to hear self and hopefully learn from it. You just gotta be careful who you say things to. Your friends don’t get to ink your medical records.
How will my therapy notes be used against me? Aren't they protected by patient/doctor confidentiality or some shit?
 
More so the platform to speak, I think. The listening or appearance of listening is more just an asset of enablement to feel like that platform is reaching something, but it’s not just listening, it’s actually most empowered to work against you.

Saying shit aloud gives you the ability to hear self and hopefully learn from it. You just gotta be careful who you say things to. Your friends don’t get to ink your medical records.
I do adore Shrinking and Dr Melfi. Maybe I'm just a bit too Brit stiff upper lip.
 
How will my therapy notes be used against me? Aren't they protected by patient/doctor confidentiality or some shit?
If you are given some diagnosis such as very common ones: borderline, schizophrenia, bi-polar, etc. that sort of diagnosis can determine involuntary hospitalization if a practitioner sees fit to allocate you to such a place.
Say, you’ve thought of hurting, killing your self or anyone else. These are not uncommon thoughts. It doesn’t mean they will happen. Most existential philosophy and its canonical work wouldn’t even exist without it, but if you say you’ve had such thoughts you could find yourself relieved of your executive powers to govern yourself.
Those are extreme examples. In other situations a practitioner can simply say whatever the fuck they want, you don’t have a say in it and it’s their word against yours. I recommend extreme caution in dealing with such people because they are not without their own agendas, interests and willingness to do what they feel they might need to for their own job security and loyalties between colleagues.
 
How will my therapy notes be used against me? Aren't they protected by patient/doctor confidentiality or some shit?
Further… elements of schizophrenia, borderline and bipolar if you read thru their pamphlets for education of the public, you should find, aside from the most extreme aspects are not uncommon events necessarily in the scope of human life events and behavior. I can relate with a lot of things they say make someone this or that. I do not experience them regularly. I don’t hear voices. I don’t hallucinate, but I can relate aspect of momentary perspective there. They’re not entirely real conditions like say leukemia or diabetes. They’re ideas not blood. They can be related to anyone all the same.
 
How will my therapy notes be used against me? Aren't they protected by patient/doctor confidentiality or some shit?
Further further lol.. I recently had an experience where my HIPAA rights were violated and the practitioners who enabled this and were responsible all lied to protect each other. I immediately removed myself when I saw what they were capable of thru their allegiances before they could band together to make any kind of assessment of me and make it fact thru their alliance. I only attend d their service for one week to discover this. They were comprehensively and collectively racist, sexist, agist, ideologically supremacist, default prejudicial manipulators of information and statistics and they were clearly dangerous. Altho I can prove the HIPAA infraction, due to there being no quantifiable damage as of yet, it’s a difficult battle to pursue legally. But they were extremely at ease lying to my face about it in union and drafting me letters about it. I urge caution in any and all dealings with therapists.
 
Also, I have dated almost exclusively people in the mental health field over the past 10 years of my life and have noted them all to have similar reflexes in summarily assessing groups of people and weaponizing diagnostics, with the frivolity of social media commentary, as condemnation and insult regardless of any sentiment for any possibility of spectrums.
My most recent ex as a self described black Haitian-American female only wished to see a black female therapist due to her sentiments of summary racial and gender assessments. She is a highly educated psychologist who clearly harbors racist and sexist sentiments based on her requirements. She also privately had great candor in confessing her general hatred for Jews and white women.
 
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Also, I have dated almost exclusively people in the mental health field over the past 10 years of my life and have noted them all to have similar reflexes in summarily assessing groups of people and weaponizing diagnostics, with the frivolity of social media commentary, as condemnation and insult regardless of any sentiment for any possibility of spectrums.
My most recent ex as a self described black Haitian-American female only wished to see a black female therapist due to her sentiments of summary racial and gender assessments. She is a highly educated psychologist who clearly harbors racist and sexist sentiments based on her requirements. She also privately had great candor in confessing her general hatred for Jews and white women.
Between your ex and the way you use your vocabulary, we understand…
 
Between your ex and the way you use your vocabulary, we understand…
Not sure what ya mean. Please elaborate.

I didn’t come to make this about me and I’m not saying all therapy is this. I’m just saying to be careful because it can be and in my experience has often been. But I was I not dealing with innovative or creative thinkers. These were simply practitioners who show up and drone as they believe they should.

I think Sigmund Freud’s writing on psychoanalysis is very good, especially within its time. He was creative. He was not absolutist. He was an insightful and intelligent creative who made some world changing writing.

Today Sigmund Freud would likely be treated objectively, absent his credentials, as a potentially borderline personality substance abuse disorder with advents of Hypersexuality and delusion of grandeurs, amongst anything else. Probably autism. Autism has been made to seem so common now, due to its ability to manipulate public education spending and create special exemptions, that it would seem such a normality you can hardly call it a disorder, much anything at all.

The other thing is diagnostics in mental health are not temporal. They are gravely black and white and permanent judgements. Which is nuts to think that a human being can not change their mind or behaviors, as we regularly see the contrary. Just think about yourself over your lifetime, the friends you’ve had, who you are now, who they are now, has no one changed?
 
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Running on 30 years now living day to day managing bipolar and I can certainly attest that majority of the medical community, especially in the psych fields, still don't understand a god damn thing about it. You have to play these people so that they don't play you. It's just the reality of the game they've established. I need two medications from these people, that's it. That's all I've ever asked for and all I ever will, I do all the heavy lifting myself.

I have been lucky enough to have been treated by two brilliant psychiatrists in my life, one of which passed away and the other I saw at the beginning when my life was hanging in the balance, and am seeing again now. All the rest, I've had to hold their hand and walk them through every aspect of the illness - they are clueless, emboldened by their ego's and extremely dangerous. Many of these people work in psych not because they had some passion for it but because they couldn't hack it in more challenging fields and psych is where they landed. You can be an absolute shit psychiatrist or therapist and cruise right through your career, there aren't really any concrete standards they have to abide by. Of course there are those who are truly brilliant and made for this field, thank god for them.

As for therapy, I've never needed it. When you have any type of affliction or disease, course of action is to accept it, learn what you need to know to control and manage it, and move forward with your life. Childhood and adolecent trauma to me is much more damaging and necessary to address with a professional than what I live with. If I ever needed anyone to talk to about something, I had that between parents, some friends, my wife or just a random forum on the internet, and frankly if you're self aware enough (one blessing that comes with the perspective provided by experiencing the insanity-sanity continuum), you can basically assess any of your problems or past traumas and work through it on your own.

The real trauma that comes with mental illness is the public and social stigma way more than the disease itself, which is an incredible indictment on humanity that they could actually be more toxic than a disease that is hellbent on killing you. The medical establishment erroneously believes that self-isolating is a trait of bipolar but it's actually a defense mechanism for dealing with a world that will not allow us to exist openly as we are. Bipolar is a word I'm not even allowed to utter irl without significant social consequences. I'm actually shocked how all these years later, this topic still instantly renders many otherwise intelligent adults into babbling infants. This shit really isn't that hard to undertand.
 
Running on 30 years now living day to day managing bipolar and I can certainly attest that majority of the medical community, especially in the psych fields, still don't understand a god damn thing about it. You have to play these people so that they don't play you. It's just the reality of the game they've established. I need two medications from these people, that's it. That's all I've ever asked for and all I ever will, I do all the heavy lifting myself.

I have been lucky enough to have been treated by two brilliant psychiatrists in my life, one of which passed away and the other I saw at the beginning when my life was hanging in the balance, and am seeing again now. All the rest, I've had to hold their hand and walk them through every aspect of the illness - they are clueless, emboldened by their ego's and extremely dangerous. Many of these people work in psych not because they had some passion for it but because they couldn't hack it in more challenging fields and psych is where they landed. You can be an absolute shit psychiatrist or therapist and cruise right through your career, there aren't really any concrete standards they have to abide by. Of course there are those who are truly brilliant and made for this field, thank god for them.

As for therapy, I've never needed it. When you have any type of affliction or disease, course of action is to accept it, learn what you need to know to control and manage it, and move forward with your life. Childhood and adolecent trauma to me is much more damaging and necessary to address with a professional than what I live with. If I ever needed anyone to talk to about something, I had that between parents, some friends, my wife or just a random forum on the internet, and frankly if you're self aware enough (one blessing that comes with the perspective provided by experiencing the insanity-sanity continuum), you can basically assess any of your problems or past traumas and work through it on your own.

The real trauma that comes with mental illness is the public and social stigma way more than the disease itself, which is an incredible indictment on humanity that they could actually be more toxic than a disease that is hellbent on killing you. The medical establishment erroneously believes that self-isolating is a trait of bipolar but it's actually a defense mechanism for dealing with a world that will not allow us to exist openly as we are. Bipolar is a word I'm not even allowed to utter irl without significant social consequences. I'm actually shocked how all these years later, this topic still instantly renders many otherwise intelligent adults into babbling infants. This shit really isn't that hard to undertand.
Big booms echoing. I hear this and there are some points that I’m trying to make greatly championed here. The stigmas. Yep, fuckin wow. The medical field gets to call you a name you did not choose the rest of your life.

Personally I’ve never been diagnosed anything outside of lover quarrels, break up texts and social media comments, but I got myself right out the fucking way before anyone with a sharpie on my records could take a swat.

I take no medications and have no apparent need or desire to. And I’m not saying that good or bad to set myself apart. Just context.
 
Running on 30 years now living day to day managing bipolar and I can certainly attest that majority of the medical community, especially in the psych fields, still don't understand a god damn thing about it. You have to play these people so that they don't play you. It's just the reality of the game they've established. I need two medications from these people, that's it. That's all I've ever asked for and all I ever will, I do all the heavy lifting myself.

I have been lucky enough to have been treated by two brilliant psychiatrists in my life, one of which passed away and the other I saw at the beginning when my life was hanging in the balance, and am seeing again now. All the rest, I've had to hold their hand and walk them through every aspect of the illness - they are clueless, emboldened by their ego's and extremely dangerous. Many of these people work in psych not because they had some passion for it but because they couldn't hack it in more challenging fields and psych is where they landed. You can be an absolute shit psychiatrist or therapist and cruise right through your career, there aren't really any concrete standards they have to abide by. Of course there are those who are truly brilliant and made for this field, thank god for them.

As for therapy, I've never needed it. When you have any type of affliction or disease, course of action is to accept it, learn what you need to know to control and manage it, and move forward with your life. Childhood and adolecent trauma to me is much more damaging and necessary to address with a professional than what I live with. If I ever needed anyone to talk to about something, I had that between parents, some friends, my wife or just a random forum on the internet, and frankly if you're self aware enough (one blessing that comes with the perspective provided by experiencing the insanity-sanity continuum), you can basically assess any of your problems or past traumas and work through it on your own.

The real trauma that comes with mental illness is the public and social stigma way more than the disease itself, which is an incredible indictment on humanity that they could actually be more toxic than a disease that is hellbent on killing you. The medical establishment erroneously believes that self-isolating is a trait of bipolar but it's actually a defense mechanism for dealing with a world that will not allow us to exist openly as we are. Bipolar is a word I'm not even allowed to utter irl without significant social consequences. I'm actually shocked how all these years later, this topic still instantly renders many otherwise intelligent adults into babbling infants. This shit really isn't that hard to undertand.
And to you, I urge ya, don’t let anybody tell you who you are. Only you decide that so long as the story is still going. Everybody is “bipolar” sometimes. There’s no actual scientific data that can absolutely prove that: no blood test, no specimen sample, just a fucking opinion based of data collection. If ya like the drugs and they’re working, cool. But as much as everyone is bipolar, no one is bipolar to me.

People are too satisfied by easy answers and demographic placement indicators.

“I’m a latin/white/black/asian, Aries/capricorn/pisces, ENFM personality, religious affiliation, left/right, cis-trans-total :eek::eek::eek: woman hating/lesbian man hating/toxic bisexuality competitive, retard who can smell colors…”
( I am not a fucking conservative btw)

Don’t fucking be a multiple choice conglomerate if you can help it.

Fuck that copy-paste. What makes you who you are is not the statistic that allocates you to a section of a pie chart, but what sets you apart from everyone else, who you’ve never even met, that the idiots of this world, who have never even met you, are trying to say are your peer group.

I personally believe that any efforts to minimize oneself are a form of masochism. Efforts to minimize others, a form of sadism.
 
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I'm in the process of choosing a therapist and for some reason I'm not liking the male options. I think I might have trouble opening up to a dude. And God forbid I actually cry in front of him. Eeeeww.

So I thought I'd pick a female, but then I remembered hearing that it's common for a patient to fall in love with their therapist.

That sounds like a problem I don't need, especially as a married man.

So now I'm trying to find an old ugly female therapist. But it's hard because I have low standards. Which is probably something I should talk about in therapy.

And I know I'm supposed to be completely honest in these sessions, but what if she asks why I chose her? I can't say "it's because you're ugly"

I think I'm doomed
Who needs a therapist when you have your sherbro's?

Lay down and tell Dr Contempt what's bothering you...
 
I fully support it but I can’t afford it or else I would go.
 
Because you are not capable to talk to your loved ones, instead it is easier to talk to a stranger (therapist).
Just tell all your problems to your dog... they're fantastic listeners, especially if the chat comes with pats.
 
TS isn't going to get randomly diagnosed as bipolar lol. I don't know why people are trying to convince him of that.
 
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