Relationships When Women Like You/Into You

Tell tale signs. They fidget with their fingers or hair while talking to you. They blush a lot. Their eyes light up. They smile a lot. You make them laugh and keep them engaged. If none of these...they aint into you. Move on.
 
The women who have liked me have been very upfront about it, sometimes coming on a little too strong. Others have had a nice balance, and even though we clashed on some issues and didn't have ideal chemistry, they liked how I carried myself and stuck around because of it.

As for your question of why a woman would throw away a man who would give her anything for some guy she barely knows? Lots of reasons. Many people engage in self-sabotage, especially if they subconsciously don't want what they have now or don't believe they deserve it. Some women are also attracted to the chase rather than the catch, even though that's typically a more masculine quality IMO.
 
Spounman said:
I only started dating my current GF because for 3-4 months our mutual friends kept telling me she liked me. I thought she was hot from day one but she had a boyfriend so I didn't pay much attention. So we were all at a party and she made her and I a plate and sat next to me so I thought ok they're probably right. Then we beat these guys in darts and they wanted a rematch so I told her lets bet, if we win you have to come home with me for a drink tonight. She said and if we lose? I said then you pick if you want to come over or not. She said I'll come over whether we win or lose. It was really quite simple. <Fedor23>
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Guess a man don’t choose his woman, woman chooses her man. If they are crazy about you, nothing will stop them lol
 
Spounman said:
I only started dating my current GF because for 3-4 months our mutual friends kept telling me she liked me. I thought she was hot from day one but she had a boyfriend so I didn't pay much attention. So we were all at a party and she made her and I a plate and sat next to me so I thought ok they're probably right. Then we beat these guys in darts and they wanted a rematch so I told her lets bet, if we win you have to come home with me for a drink tonight. She said and if we lose? I said then you pick if you want to come over or not. She said I'll come over whether we win or lose. It was really quite simple. <Fedor23>
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Pics of hot gf?
 
bust out the grey sweatpants if you want her signs to be a little more obvious
 
Hate to say it, but here I go -- limbic capitalism (which is the mode we are entering into now/have recently entered into) is largely driven by FOMO and creating insecurity in people -- it's why people get increasingly obsessive about fearing aging, not being X enough, Y enough.

This in turn creates an intense feeling for "validation" or "being seen", as people now view a humble attitude or humility as a negative or unfulfilling. People increasingly need to feel the "star" of the show. In an increasingly narcissistic world, narcissists don't really see people as people -- they are interchangeable sources of narcissistic supply, and for many, additional low grade supply is better than no additional supply.

It's the same reason why some folks get obsessed with (anti-) social media --> play acting an online persona to appeal to a blob mass of low contact people / bots often takes precedence over ensuring someone who may be with them in their physical presence is having a good time.
 
Texan6533 said:
I can tell you from my experience that almost none of the women that were interested in me made it obvious until way after they decided to move on to someone else without saying anything.
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Yeah women won't make it obvious in my experience, they like to throw out hints but have you make the move.
 
First meet eyes you smile at each other. Then you catch her looking at you when you are not looking at her. I always move in directly after that and it served me well in my single days.
 
Brother Numsi said:
I try to stay off social media for my own mental health but I keep seeing IG clips of men and women talking about “signs a woman is interested in you” or what not.

Basically they all said if a woman likes ya, she will let it be known either with hints or just flat out tell you. None of that playing hard to get nonsense we see in romantic comedies.

More often then not, they are all repeating the same talking points but tend to be right on the money which isn’t a surprise to most men who have been around dating or married for some time.

I remember my old roommate bragging to me about how he first got with his girl (now ex-wife) and how he spent most of his inheritance to impress her.

Crazy thing was, she was willing to give it up to me and I literally gave her nothing by small favors here and there. Seriously, I didn’t even have a car at the time (he had a sick Bronco he let her drive everywhere) and yet she was ready to risk it all for a man with little to offer except some occasional wiener now and then.

She was a tall pretty brunette who was crazy about me when she had a man who would do anything for her.

Why are some women and men like this? I’m not just talking about cheating but willing to risk a relationship for someone who does little to nothing for you?

(And yes, I’m talking about myself too, kids )
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I've been with far more women that did not give hints vs those who did.
 
TheTickG said:
I've been with far more women that did not give hints vs those who did.
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Personalities vary, but a lot of women do very subtle flirting and it's not very overt. It's possible they did drop hints, in their own way, and you just didn't pick up on it.

This isn't very shocking, because women expect men to be mind readers. :)
 
Brother Numsi said:
Can one of y’all talk to this dude?

Seriously, how can you be this angry over a discussion that you could have easily ignored?
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There's 25 threads a week about either this or some other weird generalization/complaint of how women act

it leads to the belief that this forum is filled with lonely men who spend time wondering and posting about women as opposed to talking to them
 
Fury said:
it leads to the belief that this forum is filled with lonely men who spend time wondering and posting about women as opposed to talking to them
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i mean the person that got me to join here did so by showing me a new woman hating thread weekly, i swear. i thought "lol look at these losers, i'm gonna join to annoy them".

then i got accused of being a man for ten years. i call it even.
 
there’s 3 categories

1 women who are very into you

2 women who are disgusted by you

3 everything in between

But to re iterate OPs point.. if a woman is into you she will do extra shit to be seen by you.. keep the conversation going..

IE

Me “anyways see you around”

Her (as I’m walking away) “so how long are you working today!?”

Now for the women in between.. they might think you’re cute.. be smiley giggly around you or whatever. That’s different then women that will just give you 30 extra seconds on the shot clock



And then of course there’s women that think you’re a bald midget who over compensates and won’t even hold eye contact
 
Choose the women who like you. But not one that has a boyfriend, especially if that guy is your roommate.
 
Kardashians said:
i mean the person that got me to join here did so by showing me a new woman hating thread weekly, i swear. i thought "lol look at these losers, i'm gonna join to annoy them".

then i got accused of being a man for ten years. i call it even.
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You'll always be a Goth teen werewolf to me

I was pretty much an OT and Plat forum poster before I went away for some amount of years. I always thought Mayberry was a bunch of whiny closeted homosexuals circle jerking about movies and so on. Not sure my original take was wrong or what it says about me that I spend time now telling them to talk to girls irl.
 
Fury said:
You'll always be a Goth teen werewolf to me

I was pretty much an OT and Plat forum poster before I went away for some amount of years. I always thought Mayberry was a bunch of whiny closeted homosexuals circle jerking about movies and so on. Not sure my original take was wrong or what it says about me that I spend time now telling them to talk to girls irl.
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damn, that suits me just fine! tho im okay with being an old edgelord bitch as well.

ive never gotten the appeal of the plat forum, but tbh i havent wandered in there very often. or is it like the ot where everybody says, "it was better back in the day"
 
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