Relationships When Women Like You/Into You

[Brother Numsi]

I try to stay off social media for my own mental health but I keep seeing IG clips of men and women talking about “signs a woman is interested in you” or what not.

Basically they all said if a woman likes ya, she will let it be known either with hints or just flat out tell you. None of that playing hard to get nonsense we see in romantic comedies.

More often then not, they are all repeating the same talking points but tend to be right on the money which isn’t a surprise to most men who have been around dating or married for some time.

I remember my old roommate bragging to me about how he first got with his girl (now ex-wife) and how he spent most of his inheritance to impress her.

Crazy thing was, she was willing to give it up to me and I literally gave her nothing by small favors here and there. Seriously, I didn’t even have a car at the time (he had a sick Bronco he let her drive everywhere) and yet she was ready to risk it all for a man with little to offer except some occasional wiener now and then.

She was a tall pretty brunette who was crazy about me when she had a man who would do anything for her.

Why are some women and men like this? I’m not just talking about cheating but willing to risk a relationship for someone who does little to nothing for you?

(And yes, I’m talking about myself too, kids )

 

[Texan6533]

I can tell you from my experience that almost none of the women that were interested in me made it obvious until way after they decided to move on to someone else without saying anything.

 

[Fedorgasm]

Because the grass is always greener...

 

[Ardaric]

If it ever ever happens I'll let you know.... by making a thread here about how a cashier or waitress slightly smiled at me and is clearly madly in love with me.

 

[Spounman]

I only started dating my current GF because for 3-4 months our mutual friends kept telling me she liked me. I thought she was hot from day one but she had a boyfriend so I didn't pay much attention. So we were all at a party and she made her and I a plate and sat next to me so I thought ok they're probably right. Then we beat these guys in darts and they wanted a rematch so I told her lets bet, if we win you have to come home with me for a drink tonight. She said and if we lose? I said then you pick if you want to come over or not. She said I'll come over whether we win or lose. It was really quite simple.

 

[Flower2dPeople]

When they scream outside your apartment at 2am demanding to be let in or they won't stop screaming.

 

[Intermission]

They like you when they dont flirt.

 

[Intermission]

Basically they all said if a woman likes ya, she will let it be known either with hints or just flat out tell you.

Yes. She wont dare anything else. Mixed signals means low interest

 

[Fury]

I try to stay off social media for my own mental health but I keep seeing IG clips of men and women talking about “signs a woman is interested in you” or what not.

You could ignore the people trying to be clever for likes on Instagram by appealing to unsuccessful men's insecurities.

People express themselves in varying ways and general experience/intuition will guide you through it. Also, if she is really interested and you aren't getting it, she'll probably make sure you get it.

Why are some women and men like this? I’m not just talking about cheating but willing to risk a relationship for someone who does little to nothing for you?

Probably some combination of bored/horny or generally unsatisfied

 

[Brother Numsi]

I can tell you from my experience that almost none of the women that were interested in me made it obvious until way after they decided to move on to someone else without saying anything.

Man, that is just both stupid and unfair.

But then again, I’ve blown some obvious signals from women several times so I guess I shouldn’t throw stones lol

 

[treelo]

fucking hell, is this the depths of the internet now

Does a girl like me?
What are the signs?


This is why women are complaining constantly about men, we have a generation of absolute fucking bellends, who dont want to upset anyone or take charge

Fannies everywhere

 

[syct23]

fucking hell, is this the depths of the internet now

Does a girl like me?
What are the signs?


This is why women are complaining constantly about men, we have a generation of absolute fucking bellends, who dont want to upset anyone or take charge

Fannies everywhere

From what I remember,

If a boy hits you in preschool it’s because he likes you, he just doesn’t know how to express it at such a young age.

 

[Brother Numsi]

fucking hell, is this the depths of the internet now

Does a girl like me?
What are the signs?


This is why women are complaining constantly about men, we have a generation of absolute fucking bellends, who dont want to upset anyone or take charge

Fannies everywhere

It’s just a minor discussion. It’s not that deep to be getting angry about it

 

[syct23]

It’s just a minor discussion. It’s not that deep to be getting angry about it

Are you trying to keep your thread alive or not?

 

[philcrow]

Some people are impulsive. Some people like taking risks. Some respect the relationship they're in while others don't.

Did you give him a heads up about what happened before he married her? If not, that's fucked up, unless you didn't like the guy, and it was just a living arrangement.

 

[syct23]

I think the Mayberry is growing out of the Mayberry..

Can we make a separate Silver Fox Forum?

 

[Gene Tunney]

It is not as complex as it may seem.

"Pangamy is a noun that means unrestricted mating, especially in animals."

Sexual impulse is a proximity-based background application that is always running on your operating system. Just a part of the program.

 

[treelo]

It’s just a minor discussion. It’s not that deep to be getting angry about it

it isnt though is it

its some pussy posting about social media telling him how a girl likes him, and how he knows

the world is full of absolute gobshites and fannies now, need advice from tiktok and the internet to know if someone likes them...WTF

you have shit parents, they didnt do their jobs

/end

 

[Aurelian]

Yeah, women will make it obvious when they like you or they will flat out tell you. The flat out telling part generally comes when you aren't showing interest in them already. And you also need to not be oblivious to when a girl is making it obvious to you.

If they go out of their way to talk to you, get your attention, sit by you, touch you, anything like that it could be a sign of interest. If they are overly nice to you, not just a general nice, but like an out of the way nice they probably like you (though this might not be 100% sexual attraction). An obvious one though is when you catch them taking glimpses at you when they think you aren't paying attention or aware that they're eye fucking you. First you might want to ask yourself do I have fucking mayonnaise on my face or something, and if not, they're probably checking you out.

If they're trying to feed you, or make sure you eat, it's flirting. It's not direct, but it displays they are thinking about you and care about you. If they're asking you personal questions, unprompted, this can also be a sign of interest. "Where do you live? Are you married? Do you have kids? Where do you work?" that type of shit.

There's also physical seduction, or attention seeking type things they might do. Bending over in front of you, wearing skimpy clothes around you, basically trying to show themselves off to you. This is a lot harder to pick up on, and I generally wouldn't take this as a sign without other signs.

Why all of this happens and why people cheat can be for a lot of different reasons.

 

[Brother Numsi]

it isnt though is it

its some pussy posting about social media telling him how a girl likes him, and how he knows

the world is full of absolute gobshites and fannies now, need advice from tiktok and the internet to know if someone likes them...WTF

you have shit parents, they didnt do their jobs

/end

Can one of y’all talk to this dude?

Seriously, how can you be this angry over a discussion that you could have easily ignored?