When did cuckolding become mainstream?

Recently. I suspect a lot of guys here dont understand because they arent in the dating market of young people. The average age of this forum is over 40 a lot of guys here are older and have no idea how social media or dating works today. Women have easy access via apps to tens of thousands of better looking and wealthier men then you in their region. There is no need to settle for average or below average men.


So many guys due to LOW Testosterone levels or progressive views have also realized this and contend that if they get a woman they cant expect to keep her all to themselves forever. The best scenario is she comes home to you but gets her FIX with robust tall, handsome, well endowned men. I have met guys like this from my Uni so its a thing that has been around and going more mainstream for a few years now.

Edit: I have met SO MANY girls who also straight up say they want an open relationship or PUSH for it.

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/young-adults-especially-men-having-sex-less-frequently

https://www.google.com/amp/s/mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSKBN23J2LI
Those two links that you posted dont have anything to do with cuckolding
 
Those two links that you posted dont have anything to do with cuckolding
I think what he's getting at is that men are putting up with it because there options are so few. Sex is becoming very capitalistic for men, where a few have a whole lot and a whole lot have a few.
 
Lets just say in a lot of ways russian/ex soviet union women managed to pull off what feminsm wants without feminism

Also culturally in there money is the only worth a guy has really.

No one cares about looks or game ,only thing that matters is money

I have a friend here who here can have almost any girl he wants (game and looks)n russia he could not get anything because no money.

Though in siberia you can get a model escort for 60 dollars...

(Hence i think this game thing is a first world thing, i was taught that only thing that matters is your bank account and that you can protect it lol)
I see prices have gone up in Siberia..
 
It seem like it’s Morphing into a new definition.
As I remeber to “cuckhold” was a revenge tactic women (and sometimes men ) used.

Example
Dude cheats on wife/gf etc.
Wife finds out
Gets husband all hot and bothered and nude on bed, hand cuff etc to bed so he can’t move. Thinking it’s about to be kinky naughty time.

Then some other dude comes in and bangs your wife and she makes you watch as revenge for cheating on her.

then about 15ish?? Years ago it became a thing where all parties knew about it.

Wife’s etc been with small dick can’t last husbands for a long while and want to get off. Gets husband to agree to let a “stud” come fuck her and he watches and waits. She gets off, stud nuts.
Then little dick hubby gets secomds(sometimes sloppy) and puts his little dick in for a couple pumps and gets his load off.

Had a recently divorced buddy that got into this and was “studding” said it was really weird the first time but then became a thing he went for more and more. He got off pulling out his UNIT to get off the wives. Started having a few he visited with regularly. Tried to get me to go a couple times. Was to weird for me at the time. I couldn’t have studded like that back then I don’t think..

anyway now it’s all over the place with what it is and the old “cuck holding from a few years back is called “hot wifing” I’m pretty sure??
 
I just wish my woman was a cuckqueen.
I don't think it's becoming more popular, I just think it's being talked about more. I also notice that while online people like to portray those limp wristed soyboys, a lot of the real world experiences I have heard about are from button down straight lace types.

This is all from a dude I knew that studded through online ads like craigslist etc.
 
I just wish my woman was a cuckqueen.
I don't think it's becoming more popular, I just think it's being talked about more. I also notice that while online people like to portray those limp wristed soyboys, a lot of the real world experiences I have heard about are from button down straight lace types.

This is all from a dude I knew that studded through online ads like craigslist etc.
You want your woman to be a cuck queen and you want to watch dudes fuck her??
 
A cuckqueen is a chick that gets off on her man plowing other chicks
Oh, well there is that.

I had an ex that loved threesomes. She was bi and would bring girls home at times. She’d get off watching but I couldn’t penetrate the other girl or nut for them. They could jerk me off , blow me, kiss all over me etc I just couldn’t stick it in them or finish for them.
 
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The word it self or calling someone a cuck is so widely used these days it makes you wonder.

Actual cuckolding I can’t imagine was something the masses were aware of, but everyone knows what it is these days. It’s now a very common insult.

Cuckold porn seems to be on the rise too, it’s everywhere. I’m trying to watch a standard bj video while my gf is in the shower and I can see wife destroyed by dudes as hubby watches.

Have mainstream cuckold artists such as Neil cuckman helped promote this hobby to the masses? I feel like nobody knew what a cuck was 4 -5 years ago.
Pretty sure there was another thread on this. Women are shifting into the dominant sex because young men have been brainwashed to accept it. You fuck whores. You don't marry them.
 
I'm sure it is a bit more common than it used to be, the same way not being a whore is less of an issue for guys than it used to be. How far is it really from willing to be in a serious relationship with a chick who's fucked 60 guys, to letting her cheat on you? If you're the kind of guy willing to date a chick with a ton of hookups and fuck buddies, you're already most of the way there and the only real difference is a few months or weeks of timing. There's a really strong chance she was banging a few other guys for at least several weeks into your relationship already. Male feminists have low self esteem and will put up with almost anything because they'd never get laid if they had any standards.

The other thing that probably makes it seem more common than it did is internet/tinder where you'll come across people you wouldn't have otherwise. I did tinder for a minute in between girlfriends, and there are kind of a lot of chicks who say they're in an open relationship/marriage. These aren't people you'd really come across if not for tinder, the same way you come across a bunch of other chicks you'd never know or care to know about otherwise. If you're scrolling through 60 chicks/week, you're going to find a lot more of everything than you normally would.
 
cucking has always been a thing, but i wouldnt call it mainstream, nor is it even close to it. social media and pron has allowed more people to be aware of the lifestyle, and the social media communities have given more people access to dip their toes into the lifestyle.
 
I think what he's getting at is that men are putting up with it because there options are so few. Sex is becoming very capitalistic for men, where a few have a whole lot and a whole lot have a few.
You don't get that from reading the articles
 
I heard a story long time ago that the wealthy British from the Empire days used to force black slaves to have sex with their wives and took pleasure from it.

So, from the look of it, it used to be a fetish for rich people and not poor the same way when fat, dirty teeth and white bread was a symbol for rich and skinny, clean teeth and wholemeal bread was a symbol for the poor and now, it’s vice versa.
 
First:
he Oxford English Dictionary places its first attested use in the mid-thirteenth century Middle English poem “The Owl and the Nightingale”.

Everything she does he objects to,
everything that she says irritates him,
and often, when she’s not doing anything wrong,
she gets a punch in the mouth.
There’s no man who can’t lead
his wife astray with this kind of behaviour;
she can be ill-treated so often
that she resolves to satisfy her own needs.
God knows, she can’t help it
if she makes him a cuckold.

Then:

This word cuckold and the idea of the shamed, cuckolded man, shows up in some of our most celebrated literature. From Chaucer’s

This carpenter had recently wedded a wife,
Whom he loved more than his life;
She was eighteen years of age.
Jealous he was, and held her narrowly in confinement,
For she was wild and young, and he was old
And believed himself likely to be a cuckold.



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And:
Then Ult-right conservative basement dwellers started using it as an insult
"The word cuckold was perfect for the alt-right. Its meaning is tantalizingly filthy, its sound abrasive, and its relative obscurity fits well in a world where language is coded and cryptic (both to establish the in-group from the out and as a method of obfuscation). They took the word, shortened it to cuck (easier to tweet), and deployed it as their insult du jour. Anti-feminists steeped in the toxic masculinities of Reddit’s /r/RedPill, 4chan’s /pol/, or GamerGate used it to shame the men they despised."


Finally, the Inevitable:

"Soon, any conservative who opposed Donald Trump, whether opponents like Jeb Bush and Marco Rubio, or mainstream conservative pundits and commentators, was tarred with the term. And it is easy to see how Trump could be seen in the cuck paradigm—he was not just beating his opponents, but humiliating them, sliming their wives and families. It did not matter that none of it was true. What matters is that he forced them to watch as he violated their families."

When you have no valid way to verbally strike someone down - just throw an insult their way.
 
I read the article it didn't have anything to do with the points he was trying to make
He was saying guys have no hope, so they make concessions about fidelity just to have even a modicum of female affection. It lines up.
 
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