yeah I calculated it after taxes you might get 5k a month. They take half when you make a extra high amount. You got a hosue in Germany ? So you settled here ? What town ? A house outside the city or in the city ?
How much you paying for private school and what is the purpose of it ? I only seen it where I worked security for rich private school kids who paid something like was it 5-10 k a month, like Diplomats childreen and milionaire kids. And we got paid minimum wage there for security, it was not my real sight just ocassionaly there. But they guys were happy cause they got free food sometimes. And it was super easy work. Rich people are also very nice, easy to work with.
What Steuerklasse are you and your wife ? Someone is 2 someone 5 I forgot how that goes. Since you earn a lot you are the 22% tax payer but due to high salary it goes up to 40-50% ? And your wife earns less but she got the worst tax category cause she just earns you guys extra so her base tax is like 35% ?
I was never married I always pay around 33%, Steuerklasse 3. Now I´m getting my tax return for the last 4 years, predicted at 5800 euros, the Steuerberater gets 600 for making it. Pretty neat. Free money. I earned it though. I paid like 800 e taxes each month.