What are some of the reasons your serious romantic relationships ended?

Jimmy Jazz

Jimmy Jazz

Red Belt
@red
Joined
Oct 15, 2015
Messages
9,151
Reaction score
10
I'm just asking because I've only had one really serious relationship and I don't really have a great understanding of why people do things. Can some of you guys share your experiences?
 
I just broke up with my girl friend yesterday. It was also our 1 year anny. So I am a bit upset.

Mostly because anyone who doesn't bend over backwards for her is evil, and she hates them. Not to mention she called the police because I started putting her things outside. She honestly has VERY BIG insecurity issues, I still love her, but she caused a scene at my work party and texted my mom nasty shit so I was done.
 
The truth is, they end because one person or both want it to end..even if you list shit people do, cheat, lie, whatever, we sabotage shit for any number of subconscious reasons..
Success comes when two people get together, and they are both done living a life of chaos and drama...
 
headkicktoleg said:
I just broke up with my girl friend yesterday. It was also our 1 year anny. So I am a bit upset.

Mostly because anyone who doesn't bend over backwards for her is evil, and she hates them. Not to mention she called the police because I started putting her things outside. She honestly has VERY BIG insecurity issues, I still love her, but she caused a scene at my work party and texted my mom nasty shit so I was done.
Click to expand...
what was she insecure about? can you talk more about people not bending over backwards for her? did that include you?
 
genecop said:
The truth is, they end because one person or both want it to end..even if you list shit people do, cheat, lie, whatever, we sabotage shit for any number of subconscious reasons..
Success comes when two people get together, and they are both done living a life of chaos and drama...
Click to expand...
what kind of subconscious reasons?
 
Basically, I’m crazy.
Or I start distancing myself and become . . . Idk. Meh. But it’s always me I think.
 
My last relationship was the most serious I've ever had, and I think for her as well. It ended because our insecurities fed into each other's and created a cycle for distrust and resentment.
 
Mostly because I'm crazy and they're crazy. I also take what they say at face value, not good at their passive aggressive style of communication.

They also tend to have daddy issues and expect me to do everything for them. Plus I'm sure I'm not easy to get along with.
 
Pugilistic said:
My last relationship was the most serious I've ever had, and I think for her as well. It ended because our insecurities fed into each other's and created a cycle for distrust and resentment.
Click to expand...
ic. I can relate to that, although in my case it was justified on my end. Was it in your case?
 
Jimmy Jazz said:
how so? Do you know why you acted that way?
Click to expand...
Actually, i wasn't that bad.
I was joking a bit there.
But i was too young and immature to be in the first real relationship i was in. I was 19 and she was 26. I was a kid just starting uni, and she was going back to school to learn English (from japan)
We ended up breaking up though because her dad died. She got really depressed and moved back to Japan to help support her family. We did long distance for a while, i was planning to go to school and live with my grandparents in japan for a while anyways, but still didn't work out
<mma1>
 
Kardashians said:
Basically, I’m crazy.
Or I start distancing myself and become . . . Idk. Meh. But it’s always me I think.
Click to expand...

Mike said:
Mostly because I'm crazy and they're crazy. I also take what they say at face value, not good at their passive aggressive style of communication.

They also tend to have daddy issues and expect me to do everything for them. Plus I'm sure I'm not easy to get along with.
Click to expand...
I hear people say this alot haha. What do you guys mean when you say you are crazy?
 
Jimmy Jazz said:
what was she insecure about? can you talk more about people not bending over backwards for her? did that include yo
She is a size 0 and always thought she was fat, she asked me about ever girl I dated and I was honest and told her about a girl who gave me head. That girl was months before I ever met her and she to the very last day kept bringing her up and was mad about her. I travel for work and insisted I show a picture of every receipt I have from every meal while away. She kept saying I was cheating on her. I never did anything close to cheating on her including texting anyone.
Click to expand...
 
The main reason things went south when younger was simply a matter of sex drive...single men in there prime are not designed for monogomy, it goes against our nature.
It was only after that peak that I was able to honestly be in a one women relationship and be happy..i always had an honest view of myself and never got hitched until I was 45..
 
With my marriage it was because I never should have gotten together with her. She was a little nutty back then but it got exponentially worse as time went by. Finally divorce was the only option.

With my more recent relationships generally it's because I lost that love feeling. In one case it was because I did not want her and her kids interfering with my relationship with my kids. She was a really good fit for me other than the kids part.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
1,254,591
Messages
56,658,037
Members
175,336
Latest member
Swamps

Share this page

Back
Top