What’s something you need to do — but haven’t yet — because it scares you?

I skateboarded almost daily for about 10 years. I was always held back from fear of doing things on handrails. I boardslid a few, but I probably had 10+ tricks that I could have done on handrails. I'd been down 10+ stairs multiple times, but I just could never get my body to commit. It's something I regret to this day at almost 43 lol.
wouldn't reccomend trying it at 40.

breaking a bone at that age sucks lol.
 
How's NZ ? Wife and I are thinking about it now the kids are grown , (especially if she forgives me about telling her about her jeans...)

It's amazing mate, especially the South island.

My sister lives in Queenstown, which is quite pricey but worth every penny. We're lucky that she has a room for us at her place whenever we go there.

Completely different lifestyle out there and amazing views through the massive lakes and mountains. Lots of places to visit and things to do. I did my first bungy jump out there a few years ago, was awesome.

My sister and her partner are keen mountain bikers, they love their extreme sports, they've just purchased themselves an off road motor bike, they're living the best life out there.

I've been to the Auckland on the North Island, it's a great place, but if you can get to the South island, I promise, you won't regret it.
 
wouldn't reccomend trying it at 40.

breaking a bone at that age sucks lol.

Not a chance in the world now. I still get on the board every once in a while, and that same hesitation has crept into shit that I used to do. I'll even hesitate on some flatground tricks lol.
 
Not a chance in the world now. I still get on the board every once in a while, and that same hesitation has crept into shit that I used to do. I'll even hesitate on some flatground tricks lol.
GETTING OLD SUCKS

Got a concussion by just getting hit by a jab during a boxing sparring session last year,
decided I was too old to keep putting gloves with younger dudes.

Started playing Basketball again,
sprained my ankle and hurted my back.

Limped for days ffs...

I'm just 37...
 
I have to go to the doctor, and I know he will check my prostate. I hate it and am dreading it. I know there are those of you in here into that stuff, but I only like things blasting out, not in.
Husband is 55 and he won't go. I go in for routine stuff which is horrendous but I get the cold shoulder when it's that.
 
I have to go to the doctor, and I know he will check my prostate. I hate it and am dreading it. I know there are those of you in here into that stuff, but I only like things blasting out, not in.

Ha, I had a young Asian female do it last year on me, the only time I've ever had it checked.
 
Ha, I had a young Asian female do it last year on me, the only time I've ever had it checked.
Don't they have new methods of doing it without, you know???

Trying to wait it out until then, but the time gap is rapidly closing... Like another gap does when thinking about such things.
 
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Husband is 55 and he won't go. I go in for routine stuff which is horrendous but I get the cold shoulder when it's that.
I know they do the front, but do they check your back too? I can't deny that women get much more invasive checkups. The mammograms look horrid as well....
 
I have to go to the doctor, and I know he will check my prostate. I hate it and am dreading it. I know there are those of you in here into that stuff, but I only like things blasting out, not in.

I'm thinking untreatable cancer would be worse than a lubed finger up the arse for 10 seconds.
 
I know they do the front, but do they check your back too? I can't deny that women get much more invasive checkups. The mammograms look horrid as well....
Mams are a cakewalk. I have a Cologard in the cupboard. I don't like the idea of it, but I don't like sitting on the toilet for a day and then being knocked out so I'll pluck up the courage next week. Smears are the worst, mams aren't invasive. They stop hurting a few secs after.
 
Its something I wanted to do that scared me but I did it recently. For me it's a success story for the op.

I wanted to be less superficial with women this year. I had never been with a women I'm not super attracted to. But wanted to give women I have things in common with, but maybe not attracted to, a chance.

It just happened recently, met a bigger girl, not attracted to her body at all . we have tons in common and she's really cool. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to get it up! But decided to face my fear and went out with her.

Turns out shes really fun to make out with , gives a great bj and I figured out some positions to fuck her in and the sex is fun. So I guess it opened up a bunch of women that I would not have gone for. Now I will.

Faced that same fear and met the challenge with an older women too, older women are now on the table for me.
 
GETTING OLD SUCKS

Got a concussion by just getting hit by a jab during a boxing sparring session last year,
decided I was too old to keep putting gloves with younger dudes.

Started playing Basketball again,
sprained my ankle and hurted my back.

Limped for days ffs...

I'm just 37...
I'm 43 and I hurt my rib sneezing a few weeks ago. I've never experienced pain from a sneeze like that before. Felt fine after a few days but I still feel old and fragile after that.
 
Its something I wanted to do that scared me but I did it recently. For me it's a success story for the op.

I wanted to be less superficial with women this year. I had never been with a women I'm not super attracted to. But wanted to give women I have things in common with, but maybe not attracted to, a chance.

It just happened recently, met a bigger girl, not attracted to her body at all . we have tons in common and she's really cool. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to get it up! But decided to face my fear and went out with her.

Turns out shes really fun to make out with , gives a great bj and I figured out some positions to fuck her in and the sex is fun. So I guess it opened up a bunch of women that I would not have gone for. Now I will.

Faced that same fear and met the challenge with an older women too, older women are now on the table for me.
I can relate to this. The fatties and fuglies love harder. It's nice
 
I can relate to this. The fatties and fuglies love harder. It's nice
I wouldn't say that necessarily, i have definitely had better sex with some of the beautiful women I've been with. But yeah I was very surprised I had as much fun as I did. Seeing her this Sunday in fact and looking forward to it.

My brain was all, oh God look at her back. Damn that stomach is all over.
But dick was like this is great.

Ugly girls are on my radar for sure. No more discrimination for me
 
Its something I wanted to do that scared me but I did it recently. For me it's a success story for the op.

I wanted to be less superficial with women this year. I had never been with a women I'm not super attracted to. But wanted to give women I have things in common with, but maybe not attracted to, a chance.

It just happened recently, met a bigger girl, not attracted to her body at all . we have tons in common and she's really cool. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to get it up! But decided to face my fear and went out with her.

Turns out shes really fun to make out with , gives a great bj and I figured out some positions to fuck her in and the sex is fun. So I guess it opened up a bunch of women that I would not have gone for. Now I will.

Faced that same fear and met the challenge with an older women too, older women are now on the table for me.
Congrats! Older women are so much more appreciative.

As far as chubby girls...

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If you do a long ass flight like these.
pay extra to reserve some good seat.

Just did San Fran to Tapei few months ago,
and Phnom Penh to Vancouver on my way back.
(both 15hrs)

it's a nightmare if your a middle seat.
take first row next to one of the bathroom and thank me later.

Second this. UK to Texas and was stuck in the middle. Wont ever do that again.
 
Mams are a cakewalk. I have a Cologard in the cupboard. I don't like the idea of it, but I don't like sitting on the toilet for a day and then being knocked out so I'll pluck up the courage next week. Smears are the worst, mams aren't invasive. They stop hurting a few secs after.
The prep for the colonoscopy are NOT fun lmao.....
 
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