Social Update on the sandwich deli girl

[Zeke's Chaingun]

awwww... missed like 20 pages and don't feel like catching up at all.

Cliffs?

Same situation.

did TS finally fcuk'd her?

Nope.

did TS ended up in jail?

Nope.

did TS posted a pic of the girl?

Nope.

which poster came out as gay?

Nope.

Soooo many question here...

He MIGHT be finally accepting the reality, which is the only development. This remains to be seen, however.

 

[Tone C]

This one time we were having a conversation and she dropped in the fact that she had a boyfr
Some weeks after that I see her leaving the coffee shop with a terribly fat fuck; she was wearing a boner commanding, form fitting yellow dress, looking like a wet dream, and I thought there ain’t no way ….

Lol , when I was 18 I worked as a map reader for a delivery driver. We ended up going to this huge house on the outskirts of London with Porsches in the driveway etc etc. The young woman who answered the door was a stone cold 10 , blonde and a knock out.

Now the driver was fat , balding despite being mid 20s . I have no idea what he said to her but she phoned up the next day looking to speak to him . He ended up going out with her for a couple of months and I would have called bullshit but despite driving for a living he had no car and I saw her pick him up a couple of times.

No way in hell would you put them together...

 

[lowlife]

At the time, it felt like an expression of interest on her part. But women can be fickle. Or maybe I just misinterpreted it. Yesterday I felt like I was just a customer. So, I accept reality and I will move on. Still going to eat sandwiches there and be nice to her but I'm not going to ask her out again or give her a letter.

No one likes a quitter. DM me your Pic and I will advise you on how to proceed.

 

[Vampire life]

How old is sammich girl, how old are you ts ?

He’s like 43 and she’s like 20

 

[SuperAlly]

How old is sammich girl, how old are you ts ?

Not old enough, too old

 

[Egalite]

Mate, have some dignity. If a girl says no when you ask her out, then move on. She's not saying she's too young, she actually saying you're too old. Also considering the fact that you are probably close to twice as old it becomes even more important. You eat to much deli, overthink (should I look, should I not look, should I say hi, did I say hi cool enough etc.) and you get one look and you're over the moon for a week and post hours on Sherdog about it. This fiction is probably the highlight of your day.

She probably just likes the attention. She's hot and used to every man wanting to fuck her since she's 13. She can sense all the stuff going on in your head and at close to 40 this also tells her you're not emotionally developed (sorry to be this harsh). Woman have a sixth sense.

Moreover you're making her some kind of superhero in your head. She's early 20's? So probably into social media crap and will speak Gen-Z, Gen Alpha lingo that you can't understand. 20-something year olds really aren't interesting intellectually when you're approaching 40. Probably also a disappointing lay at 20. You say you're happy with the situation, but there is no situation at least not for her, you're wasting time and might miss out on more achievable options.

This can only end in heartbreak, disappointment and misery.

 

[Osculater]

It's time to wasteland this pathetic thread.

 

[Osculater]

I dated a 19 year old last year.

That's whatsup!

 

[Slothbroth]

Mate, have some dignity. If a girl says no when you ask her out, then move on. Also considering the fact that you are probably close to twice as old it becomes even more important. You eat to much deli, overthink (should I look, should I not look, should I say hi, did I say hi cool enough etc.) and you get one look and you're over the moon for a week and post hours on Sherdog about it. This fiction is probably the highlight of your day.

She probably just likes the attention. She's hot and used to every man wanting to fuck her since she's 13. She sense all the stuff going on in your head and at close to 40 this also tells her you're not emotionally developed (sorry to be this harsh). Woman have a sixth sense.

Moreover you're making her some kind of superhero in your head. She's early 20's? So probably into social media crap and will speak Gen-Z, Gen Alpha lingo that you can't understand. 20-something year olds really aren't interesting intellectually when you're approaching 40. You say you're happy with the situation, but there is no situation at least not for her, you're wasting time and might miss out on more achievable options.

This can only end in heartbreak, disappointment and misery.

What I would like in my ultimate, ideal woman would be to have another kid. My son is growing up and I miss him. I get him for the summer time and that's it. The rest of the year it's me and my dog.

But I don't want to have a kid with just anyone. That's a big move, right? I've dated a bunch of women willing to have a kid with me and, I don't think I'm special or too good, but I just didn't feel like I would ever want to settle down with them.

This girl is good enough for that. She is extremely intelligent with significant academic achievements. She is young and beautiful. She is the same faith as me. She's not a slut with a high body count like the majority of modern women.

So yes, she's definitely too good for me. I'd feel like I was tricking her in a way if she settled for some old guy with an average job like me. But she could give me healthy kids and I would be 100% devoted to her. I don't fool myself into thinking that this would be enough to satisfy her. Over time, she'd realize that she could have done a lot better but at that point, it'd be too late. If she left me, she'd be just another single mom.

It's kinda messed up but what else can I say?

She is the absolute best I can ever do and I'd be happy to go all in and give her everything I got if she was down. She's probably too smart though. She knows she can do better. So whatever. Single life has its own perks.

 

[Aurelian]

awwww... missed like 20 pages and don't feel like catching up at all.

Cliffs?

did TS finally fcuk'd her?
did TS ended up in jail?
did TS posted a pic of the girl?
which poster came out as gay?

Soooo many question here...

Mang go to preferences and change posts per page to 50. It'll enhance your Sherdog experience.

 

[Bob Gray]

Not sure if this has been a troll job or not, but just for the sake of argument lets assume it isnt.

Im glad @Slothbroth seems to be moving on.

I'll just say this. Eye contact and smiles are nice and all, but dont make any judgements on those. What you should be looking for is:

1. How often is she going out of her way to interact with you? If the only time she interacts with you is when youre purchasing something, it doesnt matter how much she smiles at you. If you're just hanging out at her work, it doesnt matter if she smiles at you. Not when you're thinking about anything even slightly romantic. Once you go to a place a couple times, everybody smiles at you, including the dudes. Smiling a t people is a cultural thin in most western countries. Is she taking a break to come and chat with you? Is she coming over to you, unannounced, and starting a conversation and not just saying something in passing as she goes about her tasks? Those are much better signs.

2. Is she touching you? This is a big one. Not a handshake or a fist bump, but say, sliding a hand on your shoulder to get your attention when she's coming and chatting with you? Touching your arm when she laughs at a joke? Stuff like this will be much more likely to mean she's more interested.

3. Yeah, theres other stuff. Playing with her hair, eye contact isn't meaningless but they arent the important things. The big thing is how much time she's devoting to interacting with you when she doesn't have to. And if theres physical contact on top if it, those are green lights. Eye contact and smiles is just normal, and if you're smitten then you're much more likely to infer more than it is.

 

[Egalite]

What I would like in my ultimate, ideal woman would be to have another kid. My son is growing up and I miss him. I get him for the summer time and that's it. The rest of the year it's me and my dog.

But I don't want to have a kid with just anyone. That's a big move, right? I've dated a bunch of women willing to have a kid with me and, I don't think I'm special or too good, but I just didn't feel like I would ever want to settle down with them.

This girl is good enough for that. She is extremely intelligent with significant academic achievements. She is young and beautiful. She is the same faith as me. She's not a slut with a high body count like the majority of modern women.

So yes, she's definitely too good for me. I'd feel like I was tricking her in a way if she settled for some old guy with an average job like me. But she could give me healthy kids and I would be 100% devoted to her. I don't fool myself into thinking that this would be enough to satisfy her. Over time, she'd realize that she could have done a lot better but at that point, it'd be too late. If she left me, she'd be just another single mom.

It's kinda messed up but what else can I say?

She is the absolute best I can ever do and I'd be happy to go all in and give her everything I got if she was down. She's probably too smart though. She knows she can do better. So whatever. Single life has its own perks.

I never said she's too good for you. Don't sell yourself short. This just isn't the one. You seem like a kind enough guy, you'll find someone I'm sure.
And kudos for opening up to this bunch of savages. That takes more guts then making snarky comments.

Keep on meeting women and stay in shape and good things can happen. All the best to you!

 

[lowlife]

That's whatsup!

I'm not sure that's something to brag about once you pass 40.

 

[Slothbroth]

I'm not sure that's something to brag about once you pass 40.

Not bragging man but I see how it could be perceived that way. I'm just saying that it happened. She was on a dating app and said yes. So, you don't know until you ask.

 

[lowlife]

Not bragging man but I see how it could be perceived that way. I'm just saying that it happened. She was on a dating app and said yes. So, you don't know until you ask.

It seems you're attracted to very young women. Is that a fair statement?

 

[Osculater]

I'm not sure that's something to brag about once you pass 40.

 

[Slothbroth]

It seems you're attracted to very young women. Is that a fair statement?

I'm attracted to all ages but over the years I have become fixated on having another kid with the right one and a younger woman is a better choice for this. I have seen some beautiful women in their 30s but they are never as attractive then as they are from 18-30. Others have mentioned that there are a lot of potential issues with the age gap which is a fair point.

I have kind of a nihilistic view of relationships. There's this feeling that the vast majority of relationships and marriages end in break up. It's usually initiated by women. For example, 80% of divorce is initiated by women and it goes up to 90% if they have a college degree. Women are incentivized to divorce and get far more alimony, child support, and time with the kids over men.

I feel like if I were to have another kid then I want to go in with both eyes open to the fact that most relationships don't last nowadays and divorce is usually initiated by women. So there's a good chance I could go back to the family court again and have to pay.

The point is, I don't think long term compatibility is likely to work out no matter how much I have in common with a woman by her being older. Also, older women tend to have a higher body count which I believe is detrimental to the success rate of her future relationships. Every time they break up, it gets easier to do the next time. Too many bodies can turn a woman into a man eater. Especially if she is used to dating a bunch of handsome studs who considered her good enough for sex but wouldn't commit to her. This leaves her bitter and jaded carrying emotional baggage.

Then some little twerpy beta male guy who is financially secure and responsible comes along and and she has an epiphany that she's getting older and tired of riding the carousel getting pumped and dumped by a roster of handsome studs who were happy to see her at 1am for a booty call but wouldn't give her a committed relationship. She's "ready to settle down now and stop playing games." She winds up feeling dissatisfied with the responsible beta guy who is physically not as strong and well endowed as the guys his wife used to sleep with in her physical prime. So she decides, with the help of a lot of subliminal messaging from society, that she deserves better and should focus on loving herself so she leaves him and gets half his stuff.

I recently watched Along Came Polly starring Ben Stiller and Jennifer Anniston. If they were a real couple, you just know that Stiller and Anniston are going to end up marrying after she pressures him for a diamond once she gets used to the good life of living with him and not having to toil at server gigs anymore. You know he's not going to keep her commitment phonic self satisfied with him. She looked at him like he was ridiculous when he was doing his newly learned salsa moves at the dance club. She would divorce him and get the expensive house in the suburbs that he bought and he'd have to pay alimony. She'd probably be hit or miss on even being able to have a healthy kid at that age after being on birth control for so long and messing up her hormones.

It's not just the financially responsible beta nerds that get crushed in family court. I mean, Tom Brady wasn't good enough to keep Giselle. Are you freaking kidding me? Regular guys don't have a chance if Tom Brady can't keep her from leaving.

I feel like that's the problem with older women. They're also mostly single moms or they have ridiculous expectations and standards in spite of them getting older and not in their physical prime anymore. A woman has lost 90% of her eggs by the age of 30. On average at 34, her fertility begins to decrease at an exponential rate. Sure you hear about that one lady who popped out a healthy kid at 50 but it's statistically rare. The probability of learning disorders also goes up after 35.

Yes, I think 18-25 is when a woman's beauty is peaking but I realize that I probably will draw a significant amount of social ire by being with a woman that young. I don't really care but it could bother her and I'd feel bad if that happened.

 

[Uber_Noober]

I hope this thread lives forever.

Edit: I hope this thread lives until the sandwich girl turns 40 and hits the wall.

 

[Slapjit]

Then some little twerpy beta male guy who is financially secure and responsible comes along and and had an epiphany that she's getting older and tired of riding the carousel getting pumped and dumped by a roster of handsome studs who were happy to see her at 1am for a booty call but wouldn't give her a committed relationship. She's "ready to settle down now and stop playing games." She winds up feeling dissatisfied with the responsible beta guy who is not physically as strong and well endowed as the guys his wife used to sleep with in her physical prime. So she decides, with the help of a lot of subliminal messaging from society, that she deserves better and should focus on loving herself so she leaves him and gets half his stuff.

Sounds like a solid romcom fam u have a gift broski

 

[lowlife]

I'm attracted to all ages but over the years I have become fixated on having another kid with the right one and a younger woman is a better choice for this. I have seen some beautiful women in their 30s but they are never as attractive then as they are from 18-30. Others have mentioned that there are a lot of potential issues with the age gap which is a fair point.

I have kind of a nihilistic view of relationships. There's this feeling that the vast majority of relationships and marriages end in break up. It's usually initiated by women. For example, 80% of divorce is initiated by women and it goes up to 90% if they have a college degree. Women are incentivized to divorce and get far more alimony, child support, and time with the kids over men.

I feel like if I were to have another kid then I want to go in with both eyes open to the fact that most relationships don't last nowadays and divorce is usually initiated by women. So there's a good chance I could go back to the family court again and have to pay.

The point is, I don't think long term compatibility is likely to work out no matter how much I have in common with a woman by her being older. Also, older women tend to have a higher body count which I believe is detrimental to the success rate of her future relationships. Every time they break up, it gets easier to do the next time. Too many bodies can turn a woman into a man eater. Especially if she is used to dating a bunch of handsome studs who considered her good enough for sex but wouldn't commit to her. This leaves her bitter and jaded carrying emotional baggage.

Then some little twerpy beta male guy who is financially secure and responsible and comes along and she's getting older and tired of riding the carousel getting pumped and dumped by a roster of handsome studs who were happy to see her at 1am for a booty call but wouldn't give her a committed relationship. She winds up feeling dissatisfied with the responsible beta guy who is not physically as strong and well endowed as the guys his wife used to sleep with in her physical prime. So she decides, with the help of a lot of subliminal messaging from society, that she deserves better and should focus on loving herself so she leaves him and gets half his stuff.

I mean, Tom Brady wasn't good enough to keep Giselle. Are you freaking kidding me? Regular guys don't have a chance if Tom Brady can't keep her from leaving.

I feel like that's the problem with older women. They're also mostly single moms or they have ridiculous expectations and standards in spite of them getting older and not in their physical prime anymore. A woman has lost 90% of her eggs by the age of 30. On average at 34, her fertility begins to decrease at an exponential rate. Sure you hear about that one lady who popped out a healthy kid at 50 but it's statistically rare. The probability of learning disorders also goes up after 35.

Yes, I think 18-25 is when a woman's beauty is peaking but I realize that I probably will draw a significant amount of social ire by being with a woman that young. I don't really care but it could bother her and I'd feel bad if that happened.

My guy it was a simple yes or no question, and the answer is yes. I feel like most of what has been said to you has fallen on deaf ears, but if you think "social ire" is going to be your biggest issue dating someone that much younger than you, much less trapping a young woman with a child by a much older man, then you sir are simply wrong. But I digress, this has been entertaining and I wish you well nonetheless. Also I wish you would stop being scared to show yourself, then we could really get somewhere.