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Social Update on the sandwich deli girl

Slothbroth said:
Hey bozo, you don't need to @ him multiple times on the same page.


She's 20. I don't know about that but she definitely has good morals.
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I liked it...but I took it back. Because you are not funny anymore. I bet you think you are, but you worked your shtick and now you seem like a schmuck
 
This reminds me a few years back i would visit this sandwich shop next to my work and i would often get a sammich because it was right next door and they were good but one lady who worked there would gift me croissants she always did when the owner was in the back. I did eat them but i think she had a thing for me but it was kinda reverse i was in my early 20s and she was 42 or older she was also heavy. @Slothbroth ask her to steal for you if she obliges you can ask her out and get away with the loot.
 
Slothbroth said:
She came in wearing shorts for the first time ever yesterday and she looked unbelievable, like the epitome of human beauty. I was avoiding eye contact because I didn't want to seem too desperate but she said hi to me by name and she gave me the best smile I have ever gotten from her which has me questioning things a lot like she is definitely sending me a signal.
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She isn't sending you a special signal fool.
She just looked at you and gave a big smile because she knows you are into her and she gets a kick out of the complements and the reaction on your desperate face.

Slothbroth said:
Things were on the fence for awhile with her sometimes being more aloof but recently she has been nicer and more open to me and accepting compliments from me. I think I might have won her over a little by joking around a couple times about taping some wine bags they started selling to your body with an iv. The other day I was talking to her young coworker about his training and the gym and I told him that he would have to get a bigger shirt if he keeps training. She smiled at that too.
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You have no chance with her. Even on the off-chance that your balding self had a 5% chance at the beginning (doubtful but for the sake of imagination), its long since gone since you become a desperate loser who just goes there to oogle at her, while she takes the complements and then goes away after work and gets banged nightly by her bf or fuckbuddy.


Slothbroth said:
I have these great interactions with her now and I feel almost dizzy with happiness when I think about this beautiful young lady smiling at me and letting me compliment her.
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Sad that in your 40s you have so little experience with women that you react like a 17yr old.
Sad that you still put women on a pedastal like that. Women are not the key to eternal happiness.
Slothbroth said:
So, back to reality...
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<HisEye>
Slothbroth said:
yesterday was a total mind fuck because of the way she looked at me and held eye contact for so long and so directly with that sweet beautiful smile. I've been pumped up with adrenaline ever since then. I have never felt like this about any women in my life. My body is still surging with adrenaline and she's all I think about all day.
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Try this experiment. Really, it will do you good. Dont go to that place for a couple of weeks, like a month at least.
It will help break your fixation but more important when you come back see if she cares at all or even asks where you were or anything about you, beyond "didnt see you for a while". Do it and it wil help you see.

Slothbroth said:
I am completely done with all habits that I think could potentially hurt my chances as I still did smoke pot after work occasionally and this has all recently happened in spite of that but I remain convinced that stopping could help my chances so I am done with that. I also went to jiu jitsu tonight after work and I will probably go to the gym after I finish hanging up my laundry. Just because me being in shape can only help.
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This is all good, and may help you find a girl who is actually into you as well and who is not banging somebody else nightly.

Slothbroth said:
But I don't want to mess anything up because I feel like I have a chance with the woman of my dreams and I am scared to mess it up and I don't think fear is not going to help with this.
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There is nothing to mess up, other than whatever self respect you have left if you continue to entertain this nonsense fantasizing.
 
TheMaster said:
She isn't sending you a special signal fool.
She just looked at you and gave a big smile because she knows you are into her and she gets a kick out of the complements and the reaction on your desperate face.



You have no chance with her. Even on the off-chance that your balding self had a 5% chance at the beginning (doubtful but for the sake of imagination), its long since gone since you become a desperate loser who just goes there to oogle at her, while she takes the complements and then goes away after work and gets banged nightly by her bf or fuckbuddy.




Sad that in your 40s you have so little experience with women that you react like a 17yr old.
Sad that you still put women on a pedastal like that. Women are not the key to eternal happiness.



<HisEye>

Try this experiment. Really, it will do you good. Dont go to that place for a couple of weeks, like a month at least.
It will help break your fixation but more important when you come back see if she cares at all or even asks where you were or anything about you, beyond "didnt see you for a while". Do it and it wil help you see.


This is all good, and may help you find a girl who is actually into you as well and who is not banging somebody else nightly.


There is nothing to mess up, other than whatever self respect you have left if you continue to entertain this nonsense fantasizing.
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I'm not balding or desperate. You're the fool, jerk
 
volodya said:
She is whatever hand TS isn't holding the sandwich in. I'm actually a bit upset @pugilistico responded to this dork
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I'd be pretty annoyed if he's just trolling for shits and giggles, but in case this is for real, I wanted to try to give good advice to a desperate man. I've been there (although when I was much younger). My ultimate advice is to not put women on a pedestal and focus on living your own life but I am worried that it's not being taken seriously. I would rather have TS forget about this girl or at the very least stop romanticizing her.

Slothbroth said:
She's 20. I don't know about that but she definitely has good morals.
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She's 20 and you don't know her. You have no idea if she has good morals or not man. This is why I suggest meditation. Focus on actual observable reality. Just because she's nice and smiles at you and goes to church doesn't mean she an outstanding person who shares your values. It literally just means she's nice, smiles at people, and goes to church. Plenty of people I know fit that description and not all of them are good people.

Look into stoicism if eastern philosophy seems too out there for you. It's quite similar.

If a guy passes by you and mean mugs and walks away, what does it mean? A lot of people would think he's asshole, trying to fight, whatever and have an emotional reaction. But what actually happened? A guy passes by you, mean mugged, and walked away. Did he have it out for you? Was he actually looking at something else? Maybe his face is just like that and he's really a nice guy? None of that matters. You don't really know anything other than observable facts. Stop making up fantasies or assumptions with so little information.
 
Bobby00 said:
This reminds me a few years back i would visit this sandwich shop next to my work and i would often get a sammich because it was right next door and they were good but one lady who worked there would gift me croissants she always did when the owner was in the back. I did eat them but i think she had a thing for me but it was kinda reverse i was in my early 20s and she was 42 or older she was also heavy. @Slothbroth ask her to steal for you if she obliges you can ask her out and get away with the loot.
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He needs to ask for that special extra long and thick salami.....
 
I couldn't make it past the first page due to the cringe... I see this is still going 20 pages later.

Did I miss anything interesting?
 
Doughie99 said:
Dude just bite the bullet and ask her out for drinks and dinner.
She is probably WAITING for you to do that and is wondering why you haven't yet .

You cannot fear rejection or "wrecking it".

Failure to act on your instincts . .. is a crime and you'd regret it for life .

Just have some courage and ask her what night she has off work and take her out .be confident and expect her to say "yes, sure". Girls like a confident man.
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She’s too young to drink legally
 
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