Social Update on the sandwich deli girl

Dude I'm trying to be respectful but if this thread is serious, it's just pissing me off now lol.

SOME GIRL 20 YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU JUST TRYING TO BE NICE AND DO HER JOB DOESN'T MEAN SHE'S INTO YOU.

You say you have experience with women but you're acting like a high school kid who's obsessed with someone, and creating all these stories and scenarios in your head that she's into you and things are meant to be. Have you thought about looking at this from her perspective? She hasn't once done anything to indicate that she's interested, there's no look in her eye that's more special than another, these are things you're creating in your head.

Her saying she's too young should have been enough, unless you're a creep or someone trying to take advantage of a gullible, inexperienced person.

If she was into you, she would make a point to spend time with you and talk to you more than just saying hi. She would take her break and spend it with you, she would ask stuff about your life and who you are, she would say more than hi and goodbye. No one should still have the mindset of, "well she said no but I'm gonna grind her defenses down until she says yes", that's verging on stalking.

Also I really hope people are joking when they said you found her Facebook. Absolutely do not add her on there.
 
italiamusica said:
Dude I'm trying to be respectful but if this thread is serious, it's just pissing me off now lol.

SOME GIRL 20 YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU JUST TRYING TO BE NICE AND DO HER JOB DOESN'T MEAN SHE'S INTO YOU.

You say you have experience with women but you're acting like a high school kid who's obsessed with someone, and creating all these stories and scenarios in your head that she's into you and things are meant to be. Have you thought about looking at this from her perspective? She hasn't once done anything to indicate that she's interested, there's no look in her eye that's more special than another, these are things you're creating in your head.

Her saying she's too young should have been enough, unless you're a creep or someone trying to take advantage of a gullible, inexperienced person.

If she was into you, she would make a point to spend time with you and talk to you more than just saying hi. She would take her break and spend it with you, she would ask stuff about your life and who you are, she would say more than hi and goodbye. No one should still have the mindset of, "well she said no but I'm gonna grind her defenses down until she says yes", that's verging on stalking.

Also I really hope people are joking when they said you found her Facebook. Absolutely do not add her on there.
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people are uptight for sure. I've had women look me up and friend request, I never thought it strange and I do love womens. I never know how they find me some of the time, i'm just glad they have. Or rather, I used to be, I'm barely online at all anymore. Those aren't real. relationships anyways. Either way, women are totally different than men, I've sent friend requests to women who were strictly friends/way older and they don't respond, women are a lot more quirky about things like that.
 
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shunyata said:
Added clarity to your list.

It's a lot easier to maintain a stable marriage when you're not cheating on your wife or beating her.

And if your wife keeps cheating on you while saying she wishes you were dead instead of Tupac, the love of her life, get a fuckin divorce man.

The only woman who's gonna stay with you forever while you keep cheating on her is a gold digger who signed a prenup and knows she can't initiate divorce.
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If I could be with this young lady then I would never betray her.
 
italiamusica said:
Dude I'm trying to be respectful but if this thread is serious, it's just pissing me off now lol.

SOME GIRL 20 YEARS YOUNGER THAN YOU JUST TRYING TO BE NICE AND DO HER JOB DOESN'T MEAN SHE'S INTO YOU.

You say you have experience with women but you're acting like a high school kid who's obsessed with someone, and creating all these stories and scenarios in your head that she's into you and things are meant to be. Have you thought about looking at this from her perspective? She hasn't once done anything to indicate that she's interested, there's no look in her eye that's more special than another, these are things you're creating in your head.

Her saying she's too young should have been enough, unless you're a creep or someone trying to take advantage of a gullible, inexperienced person.

If she was into you, she would make a point to spend time with you and talk to you more than just saying hi. She would take her break and spend it with you, she would ask stuff about your life and who you are, she would say more than hi and goodbye. No one should still have the mindset of, "well she said no but I'm gonna grind her defenses down until she says yes", that's verging on stalking.

Also I really hope people are joking when they said you found her Facebook. Absolutely do not add her on there.
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All I have done is ask her out once and told her that her hair looks nice down and she was gracious and kind both times. I feel like she is extra nice to me compared to others but I can't say for sure that she actually likes me so I haven't done anything else. You're overreacting to the situation but I do agree that if she likes me then she will do more than just eye contact and smile.
 
Slothbroth said:
All I have done is ask her out once and told her that her hair looks nice down and she was gracious and kind both times. I feel like she is extra nice to me compared to others but I can't say for sure that she actually likes me so I haven't done anything else. You're overreacting to the situation but I do agree that if she likes me then she will do more than just eye contact and smile.
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....you've made 2 separate threads about her on an internet forum asking for advice, when in fact you weren't interested in advice, rather confirmation your fantasies were valid.

We're hearing how you view the situation, almost guarantee it is not 100% accurate. We've all been delusionally infatuated with a girl before, but most of us grow out of it by adulthood.


The 95% of posters who tell you are being creepy you dismiss, and the 5% who give you little hope, you laud.


(Assuming you are serious) you are a clearly a fucking weirdo.
 
LEWIS540 said:
....you've made 2 separate threads about her on an internet forum asking for advice, when in fact you weren't interested in advice, rather confirmation your fantasies were valid.

We're hearing how you view the situation, almost guarantee it is not 100% accurate. We've all been delusionally infatuated with a girl before, but most of us grow out of it by adulthood.


The 95% of posters who tell you are being creepy you dismiss, and the 5% who give you little hope, you laud.


(Assuming you are serious) you are a clearly a fucking weirdo.
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No one here can almost guarantee anything. It's all speculation. I still appreciate the constructive advice, even if they don't believe I have a chance.

I may be biased but I've always been respectful of her boundaries but edgelords are still going to pretend I am dangerous.

I am a weirdo but you probably are too!
 
Slothbroth said:
No one here can almost guarantee anything. It's all speculation. I still appreciate the constructive advice, even if they don't believe I have a chance.

I may be biased but I've always been respectful of her boundaries but edgelords are still going to pretend I am dangerous.

I am a weirdo but you probably are too!
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So now you are admitting to being weird?

A breakthrough!
 
Slothbroth said:
He's given the most sensible advice in the thread. This is a real situation. I'm privileged to frequent a deli that employs the most beautiful woman in the world.
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Is she a woman or a girl...... Do you think she's still a virgin......
 
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