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Social Update on the sandwich deli girl

FFS dude , find somewhere else to get lunch , maybe mix it up or make your own sandwiches and pop in maybe once a week or so. If she is interested I'm sure she'll let you know, she knows how you feel , if not , well ,you've done both of you a favour...
 
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Okay, this is what he said.

Bad news, he said whilst it's not a hate sandwich, there's definitely a level of frustration in its construction...... There's no love or care involved and the lack of overfill with condiments means this frustration isn't of the sexual nature.

He's 50/50 on the next sandwich being a hate sandwich..... Full on male coworkers baby gravy filling and special monthly ketchup....... Maybe wrapped in a restraining order.....
 
Slothbroth said:
Sometimes you just have to follow your heart bro. It doesn't always make sense other than you know you are willing to do whatever it takes to make it work if she'll have you. She's just perfect.
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I don't know if "follow your heart" applies to a girl whom you don't even know.

I want to be understanding because I was sort of like this in my 20s but romanticizing a girl you don't even know is actually creepy. If she knew about the threads you're making, she'd be creeped out. If a woman I barely know was thinking about me the same way, I'd be creeped out.

Do you meditate? Done psychedelics? Do any sort of spiritual practices? Or do you work on your mind in any way? Therapy? Medication? I think there are bigger things at play here. This girl is actually not that important. She's merely a projection. Understanding this made my love life and relationships with women so much better.

Another "secret" I realized is that when women are interested in you, they will give you very clear and obvious signs.
 
pugilistico said:
I don't know if "follow your heart" applies to a girl whom you don't even know.

I want to be understanding because I was sort of like this in my 20s but romanticizing a girl you don't even know is actually creepy. If she knew about the threads you're making, she'd be creeped out. If a woman I barely know was thinking about me the same way, I'd be creeped out.

Do you meditate? Done psychedelics? Do any sort of spiritual practices? Or do you work on your mind in any way? Therapy? Medication? I think there are bigger things at play here. This girl is actually not that important. She's merely a projection. Understanding this made my love life and relationships with women so much better.

Another "secret" I realized is that when women are interested in you, they will give you very clear and obvious signs.
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You're saying he should make her a magic mushroom sandwich?
 
Slothbroth said:
On Sunday she said "hi Slothbroth" and then did this stare without breaking eye contact for a solid 2 seconds while she walked by me. 2 seconds is a very long time when a woman is staring you directly in the eye and smiling like this.

It might have even been 3 seconds
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Ugh bro in case you're not trolling I'll be real for a second. That moment when a hot girl smiles at you and you feel slightly dizzy and time stands still for a second and you wanna buy a ring and shit?

It's just a polite smile for them. The problem is living a Gollum like existence where such things get stuck in your head like a little parasite.

And I don't say that from a place of judgement, I say it as a similar dude that works long shifts in the factory and then sits alone in my apartment with my cats. I am not better than you or claiming to be. I'm just aware that when the cute teenager at Wendy's or wherever smiles at me it doesn't MEAN anything.

You... wanna be aware of that too. Even if you're lonely. I went to type lonely, and my spell check literally tried to auto to liable.


Perfect segue for my following point. Better to be lonely than to be liable.
 
William Huggins said:
You're saying he should make her a magic mushroom sandwich?
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He should make himself one and hopefully realize that he's merely projecting his desire for validation onto this girl.

Tone C said:
Like restraining orders and court injunctions in this case...
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Haha that would be a clear sign that she's not interested.
 
Slothbroth said:
I don't know too many facts about her other than that she was considering going to a concert in a major city in early August but didn't go. She also enjoys a ham sandwich and brownie. I don't know enough about her but I like how she carries herself. Sometimes it is difficult to define. It's like a subliminal message about yourself that you send out to the world simply by being and living your life according to your beliefs. Who we are on the inside can manifest itself on the outside. It's not always the case, but beautiful on the inside can manifest into external beauty and vice versa. Yes, evil hot people exist but they don't stay like that and you can sense it from them when there is a darkness to their spirit. This young lady carries herself in a beautiful way. I can tell that she is a good woman and a good person.

I do want to ask her more specific questions but I also don't want to seem too nosy. Next time I see her, I was thinking about bringing up the fact that I'm taking my dogs to the groomer tomorrow. I'll find out if she likes animals but I'm sure she does. I can tell she is a good kind person like that. Anyone who doesn't like animals is almost definitely a piece of garbage person unless they have some phobia from ptsd or something.
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This is fascinating lol
 
It's time to throw your cards on the table. Go to the sandwich shop and really pour your heart out tell her you've been in love with her for months and the sight of her gives you elation. Let her know you've been documenting your encounters on an online karate forum. Maybe write her some poetry and give her flowers.
 
Slothbroth said:
I don't know too many facts about her other than that she was considering going to a concert in a major city in early August but didn't go. She also enjoys a ham sandwich and brownie. I don't know enough about her but I like how she carries herself. Sometimes it is difficult to define. It's like a subliminal message about yourself that you send out to the world simply by being and living your life according to your beliefs. Who we are on the inside can manifest itself on the outside. It's not always the case, but beautiful on the inside can manifest into external beauty and vice versa. Yes, evil hot people exist but they don't stay like that and you can sense it from them when there is a darkness to their spirit. This young lady carries herself in a beautiful way. I can tell that she is a good woman and a good person.

I do want to ask her more specific questions but I also don't want to seem too nosy. Next time I see her, I was thinking about bringing up the fact that I'm taking my dogs to the groomer tomorrow. I'll find out if she likes animals but I'm sure she does. I can tell she is a good kind person like that. Anyone who doesn't like animals is almost definitely a piece of garbage person unless they have some phobia from ptsd or something.
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It's not difficult to define at all. It's called lust with a sprinkling of 'mid life crisis'. Book yourself a holiday to Thailand or South America and fulfil your lusty desires.
 
Mike said:
Hi, Borderline Man checking in. From my expert pov, we have surpassed "a bit" and have very much reached "full blown and undiagnosed for many years" at this point.
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Full blown and undiagnosed got me good homie, snorted out some orange juice and had to change my shirt.
 
Slothbroth said:
On Sunday she said "hi Slothbroth" and then did this stare without breaking eye contact for a solid 2 seconds while she walked by me. 2 seconds is a very long time when a woman is staring you directly in the eye and smiling like this.

It might have even been 3 seconds
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After reading this I've decided you're trolling. Quite exquisitely I might add. Good show.
 
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