Thread for lonely f******

I think I sort of just fell of the map with my co-worker pseudo friends. I am kind of working on shit 12 -15 hours a day so a reprieve is going for a walk or seeing a movie. I work from home so I am around my family a lot but if you ain't around me, you probably are wondering if I moved to another state or died. This song encapsulates so much what it is like to work on something that takes up so much time on your own.


You kind of hardnosed the post covid-life ?

Loneliness is always shitty, whatever the goal or money made, we are social animals. In theory. Stay strong and when you have met your objectives or can't take it anymore, fuck all this, take a bit of time and figure someting else. We are supposed to make society, not being grinded to dust by it.
 
You kind of hardnosed the post covid-life ?

Loneliness is always shitty, whatever the goal or money made, we are social animals. In theory. Stay strong and when you have met your objectives or can't take it anymore, fuck all this, take a bit of time and figure someting else. We are supposed to make society, not being grinded to dust by it.

I don't know. I guess. People I think forget that a lot of interaction in their life is with co-workers at work, so a staged interaction. I don't miss the shitty co-workers. I do sometimes miss interacting with serious industry experts but I get that online and at conferences. I don't miss my shitty managers or dumb deadlines or dumb work. All my stress is just about my work and not things I can't control. I don't feel ground down by the hours because my break is switching to projects I like to do.

Is it healthy?

I don't know. Maybe, I retire to a hut on a beach someplace in Southeast Asia and live a calm boring life at some point. I am tired of the world's nonsense. Maybe, I find buddism or meditation at some point.
 
We have one life - a priori.

Make your money, gtfo.

One of my most happy buddy is one transitionning (not like that) from living in the west to living in SE asia. The guy isn't even loaded, he spent most his life a librarian.
 
Thank you sherbros, I had more responses that I tought possible and got some insights from it.

Let this thread be open to everybody.

It was about me this time but its for everybody that need to talks.
Cheers to you sherbro, i,m currently drinking a fine 1664 blanche, great beer from france.

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I'm currently working on a chardonnay bottle \m/
Looks tasty ! i'm not a wine guy but ive heard they're quite pretty good.

I will follow on some coors lights after this, lol i'm a light drinking, i have 12 of them but its enough to make me go to bed at 7 p.m today.

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Looks tasty ! i'm not a wine guy but ive heard they're quite pretty good.

I will follow on some coors lights after this, lol i'm a light drinking, i have 12 of them but its enough to make me go to bed at 7 p.m today.

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A belgian would have an attack juste at the sight of this pic lol

Fuck 'em, enjoy your lagers
 
We are Born alone...we die alone.
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Fun little story : I was out with a buddy, both celibates, on a saturday night on the sole big pub around. I'm the one supposed to have game.

We enter, fuck : a big table of local firemen getting all the attention. We take a drink at the bar and I spot in a corner a free 2 seats table just next to two girls drinking. We settle there, drink, talk and listen for a bit.

At the "good" time I offer them a drink, wich they accept gladly. We settle with them, all order a new drink and ... they just speack between them and do phone stuff. I push for a little more communication and they tell us that they are already taken and went back to talk between themselves lol

So we went for a cig with my buddy and decided to fuck off right there. But I forgot my vest. So I come back, get the vest, tell them it's cold out there and we went off in the night ...

Stupid bitches thought they got a free drink offered by suckers, they ended up with both tabs plus the "offered" drink while we went 4 pints scott free and moral untouched lol

... didn't went back to the pub for a few months tho. Worth it. Fuck 'em. Not hard to say no I'm with somebody.
 
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Fun little story : I was out with a buddy, both celibates, on a saturday night on the sole big pub around. I'm the one supposed to have game.

We enter, fuck : a big table of local firemen getting all the attention. We take a drink at the bar and I spot in a corner a free 2 seats table just next to two girls drinking. We settle there, drink, talk and listen for a bit.

At the "good" time I offer them a drink, wich they accept gladly. We settle with them, all order a new drink and ... they just speack between them and do phone stuff. I push for a little more communication and they tell us that they are already taken and went back to talk between themselves lol

So we went for a cig with my buddy and decided to fuck off right there. But I forgot my vest. So I come back, get the vest, tell them it's cold out there and we went off in the night ...

Stupid bitches thought they got a free drink offered by suckers, they ended up with both tabs plus the "offered" drink while we went 4 pints scott free and moral untouched lol

... didn't went back to the pub for a few months tho. Worth it. Fuck 'em. Not hard to say no I'm with somebody.
Same here in Quebec....socializing with women went down the toilet since the pandemic days. I remember in 2010-2019 i was having a good time ! Now ? Not at all.
 
Fun little story : I was out with a buddy, both celibates, on a saturday night on the sole big pub around. I'm the one supposed to have game.

We enter, fuck : a big table of local firemen getting all the attention. We take a drink at the bar and I spot in a corner a free 2 seats table just next to two girls drinking. We settle there, drink, talk and listen for a bit.

At the "good" time I offer them a drink, wich they accept gladly. We settle with them, all order a new drink and ... they just speack between them and do phone stuff. I push for a little more communication and they tell us that they are already taken and went back to talk between themselves lol

So we went for a cig with my buddy and decided to fuck off right there. But I forgot my vest. So I come back, get the vest, tell them it's cold out there and we went off in the night ...

Stupid bitches thought they got a free drink offered by suckers, they ended up with both tabs plus the "offered" drink while we went 4 pints scott free and moral untouched lol

... didn't went back to the pub for a few months tho. Worth it. Fuck 'em. Not hard to say no I'm with somebody.


you will have to ask the moon my friend.
 
Lol, props to you, I'm not trained enough for these stuff. Last time I wrestled was with my low table and everybody lost, but I least I didn't cut myself.

That said last time a fat fuck took out my beanie for fun and I advertised him a body shot was coming and to brace himself (he's proud of his judo background .... plus is fat) and that I'd went 50%. I went 70% and the hummmpf was pleasable to hear.

But yeah no more fisticuffs, I'm old, untrained, not in shape and hurt myself already plenty (falling and shit)
its not admirable (and not currently possible) that was 12 years ago and prolly 50lbs ago. nowadays id prolly get beaten up and left out at the curb like a sack of trash.
 
i hate how the internet has turned "touch grass" into a bitchy comment, because for real, touching some grass do be helpful to the soul :eek: go to the local nature park, kick off your shoes, walk around, then sit next to the pond. bliss.

yup, all of us should tough grass more. being perpetually online rots the brain.
 
i hate how the internet has turned "touch grass" into a bitchy comment, because for real, touching some grass do be helpful to the soul :eek: go to the local nature park, kick off your shoes, walk around, then sit next to the pond. bliss.
It's true, we all need to get outside more
 
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