Territorialism? I mean, socially.......

[Home_Slice]

Maybe some of you have been managing this the majority of your life?

It's kind of new to me though.

I'm not sure how it's just sprung itself upon me in my late 30's, but here I am!

Basically at the moment I live in an area that populated but fuckheads. Dipshits going no where in life, and overcompensate by being highly territorial and acting like they have rights over state owned property (like the streets around where they live).

For some reason, they all absolutely hate me, like they feel challenged by me on an innate level.

There's this one absolute faker who, every time he sees me now, his face goes bright red and when he walks past me, he pretends he can't see me, cause it's like he wants to get in my face and show me "who's boss", but I would absolutely maul him (I'm twice his size and he came down to my boxing gym years ago a couple times thinking he'd learn how to fight, but basically left after he tasted leather once or twice, he's a nancy, but a fake tough-guy in the street).

And there's a never ending amount of that type.

My entire town is largely made up of idiots like that, they're like the dominant species around here.

Maybe I've just recently "come into my own" in terms of personality or something, but all these dipshits are becoming like hyper defensive when I have to pass them in the streets now etc.

 

[Home_Slice]

Today as an example, I was passing this fool on the high street, he was walking with two girls behind him.

When he saw me he kind of beelined in my direction, then changed angles at the last minute to avoid walking into me.

It was obvious he was checking to see if I'd step to the side to avoid him, therefore he'd feel like the "big man".

Of course I saw him coming about 10 paces away and handled it effortlessly, then he said something bitchy and minced off.

The two chickens following him tried to mumble something bitchy also, but at the same time kind of looked embarrassed seeing their "tough guy" friend just got exposed as being a total fraud.

And this type of fuckery now, it's CONSTANT, I can't step outside the door without it happening.

Honestly I'm not sure if it's good or bad cause I've hated the foolishness and fakeness of the culture I've been surrounded by for so long.

 

[Contempt]

If it seems like everyone around you is a cunt... hate to break it to you dude, but it's you who's the cunt.

99% of people you pass in the street don't give even the slightest fuck about you and don't even give you a second thought as they walk past. It's very likely that it's all in your head.

 

[Home_Slice]

If it seems like everyone around you is a cunt... hate to break it to you dude, but it's you who's the cunt.

Not in this situation.

Ever hear the expression, "it is not a sign of good health, to be well adapted in a sick society"?

The primary culture here is deplorable.

 

[Contempt]

Not in this situation.

Ever hear the expression, "it is not a sign of good health, to be well adapted in a sick society"?

The primary culture here is deplorable.

It's also not a sign of good health to be so obsessed with what you believe is going on inside the heads of random strangers that you pass in the street, that you make threads on a karate forum complaining about it.

 

[Home_Slice]

It's also not a sign of good health to be so obsessed with what you believe is going on inside the heads of random strangers that you pass in the street, that you make threads on a karate forum complaining about it.

Honestly I'm not complaining.

It's just........ bizarre.

I've always had a kind of "outside the box" perspective and way of looking at things, which must have reflected itself in my behaviour or vibe over time, cause I've had a taste of this at various points in my life.

But at the moment, it's in a whole new realm.

I feel like it's "me against the system".

Basically, imagine a dude with insane "swag" in an environment where the "locals" don't like being made to feel inferior........ even though their own game is pathetic and primitive.

It's like that.

 

[whocares]

You can run into these dipshits in any small town in the country. Catching eyeballs and shit cuz I got too many teeth in the right places. Fuck em. Got some of this breed by my way but not too many. Higher property values keep the meth merchants out of reach.

 

[Contempt]

Honestly I'm not complaining.

It's just........ bizarre.

I've always had a kind of "outside the box" perspective and way of looking at things, which must have reflected itself in my behaviour or vibe over time, cause I've had a taste of this at various points in my life.

But at the moment, it's in a whole new realm.

I feel like it's "me against the system".

Basically, imagine a dude with insane "swag" in an environment where the "locals" don't like being made to feel inferior........ even though their own game is pathetic and primitive.

It's like that.

Not sure if you're just trolling or legitimately have some pretty serious issues to work on but hey... cool, you do you sherbro.

 

[MidgardSerpent]

Reminds me a bit of a poster with a similar thread complaining how everyone around him was dumb and superficial. The obvious solution would be to get out of your comfort zone and remove yourself from that environment. But I think most people find it more convenient to continue to marinate in the same toxic situation and complain it's the rest of the world that is the problem.

 

[Home_Slice]

Reminds me a bit of a poster with a similar thread complaining how everyone around him was dumb and superficial. The obvious solution would be to get out of your comfort zone and remove yourself from that environment. But I think most people find it more convenient to continue to marinate in the same toxic situation and complain it's the rest of the world that is the problem.

Actually, I what I was hoping to do was turn the tables on these morons.

Women, above all else, go for safety and security.

That's why they pander to this mob, CAUSE they're the mob, they're the main culture.

BUT, women also go for hot dudes.

Basically what I'm saying is, I would like to incite a cultural revolution in hillbilly vill.

 

[Home_Slice]

Move out of the boonies, dude.
Is normal in small towns.
Move to a major city.
No one gives a shit.

I used to live in Amsterdam.

It was paradise for me, literally.

I HAD to move back to cousin-fucker town, out of necessity.

"Getting a better job" doesn't apply here either.

 

[Doughie99]

Not in this situation.

Ever hear the expression, "it is not a sign of good health, to be well adapted in a sick society"?

The primary culture here is deplorable.

Do you mind me asking where you're located please?
Sounds like I might well be a fairly small provincial town in Central or northern England where all these people you encounter have lived there their whole lives and so feel like they own the place. Luton or Milton Keynes or Essex Smallville. Southend maybe or Clacton.
Other guesses....Hull or Scarborough or some oik Manchester or Leeds or Sheffield suburb.

Maybe I've got the wrong country entirely lol....

Let me know.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

they have rights over state owned property (like the streets around where they live).

The city owns that stuff. Or the county.

 

[-Magua-]

I used to live in Amsterdam.

It was paradise for me, literally.

I HAD to move back to cousin-fucker town, out of necessity.

"Getting a better job" doesn't apply here either.

 

[fingercuffs]

Today as an example, I was passing this fool on the high street, he was walking with two girls behind him.

When he saw me he kind of beelined in my direction, then changed angles at the last minute to avoid walking into me.

It was obvious he was checking to see if I'd step to the side to avoid him, therefore he'd feel like the "big man".

Of course I saw him coming about 10 paces away and handled it effortlessly, then he said something bitchy and minced off.

The two chickens following him tried to mumble something bitchy also, but at the same time kind of looked embarrassed seeing their "tough guy" friend just got exposed as being a total fraud.

And this type of fuckery now, it's CONSTANT, I can't step outside the door without it happening.

Honestly I'm not sure if it's good or bad cause I've hated the foolishness and fakeness of the culture I've been surrounded by for so long.

It appears the common denominator is you. Why can't you just move?

 

[fingercuffs]

I used to live in Amsterdam.

It was paradise for me, literally.

I HAD to move back to cousin-fucker town, out of necessity.

"Getting a better job" doesn't apply here either.

Are you the guy who got so upset that I had a nice house in Zeeburg and then Ijburg but didn't work that you got banned?

 

[AFanNotAFighter]

I seem to recall you stating in another thread that your entire family hated you too. Maybe you have a persecution complex, are irrationally paranoid, or maybe you're not likable.

Relationships Thread 'So, my entire family hate me, except my mother....... who barely tolerates me. Ees normaal?'

Feb 4, 2025

Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me...

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[Home_Slice]

I seem to recall you stating in another thread that your entire family hated you too. Maybe you have a persecution complex, are irrationally paranoid, or maybe you're not likable.

Relationships Thread 'So, my entire family hate me, except my mother....... who barely tolerates me. Ees normaal?'

Feb 4, 2025

Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me...

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That was me but, it's funny.

One door closes another opens.

My family are a different religion to me, for intents and purposes. They're conservative and there is dislike, but that's resolved itself fairly okay recently.

I've eased off the idea of having to spend more time with my folks cause they're older and are probably going to die or get dementia soon.
It sucks, I wish it was better, but I've made peace with just having a meal together with them from time to time, letting them get on with their lives as they do, and I'll get on with mine.

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But having "turned a corner" as to my own personality if you will, RECENTLY, this "top dog complex" has emerged socially, heavily for me.

I wouldn't call it a problem, at least there's nothing to suggest it is just yet, it's just interesting.

I felt it a topic worthy of discussing, information sharing on, getting perspective on.

 

[Home_Slice]

It appears the common denominator is you. Why can't you just move?

I can't move cause of the accommodation crises.

I'm super lucky to even have a place at the moment, and I spent most of my life not around my family and parents.
They only have a few years left and I'm not going to just skip town now.

Besides which, moving isn't necessary, it's not like some drug gang are headhunting me.

There's just a noticeable "culture conflict", behaviour of locals versus how I behave (which has been in steady evolution for some time).

Like I said, I've "turned a corner" recently, and the locals have got their feather rustled cause of it, it seems.

I guess I must be carrying myself with an improved sense of social authority, and the conventional "top dogs" don't like it (cause they're hillbillys, their degenerative culture is something I've hated my entire life. But "might makes right", and cause they're so popular in number with nothing or no one to challenge them, they have the "might").

Especially the "billy bad ass" mob that act tough to impress girls.

They seem to really hate me.

 

[lsa]

oh yeah its you again
Yes, its you, you are the cunt ans asshole.