Relationships Telling on wife to her husband

Fug said:
In 2010, shortly after my divorce, I briefly dated a girl. We went on a date together and then the next weekend she came over to my place and we smashed. I was fresh off my divorce so I wasn't really ready for something serious.

We remained Facebook friends and I saw that a year or two later that she met another dude and that they were engaged. I was happy for her.

At one point, she posted on FB about watching a southpark episode with me, which she'd never seen before then, and how she thought it was pretty funny and I introduced her to the show.
I remember thinking that it was kind of messed up to be taking about it when she's now engaged.

Fast forward to less than a month ago and she sends me a friend request (I had started a new account after deleting the old one). She's been married for 12 years and has 4 kids with this guy.

I tried PMing the husband but he doesn't check messenger (can't blame him, Facebook is a stupid platform with their multiple apps for posting and messaging). So I did some sleuthing but couldn't figure out how to contact this guy.

So I went a little deeper reading his page. He posts all the time and you can tell that he really loves his family and works hard to provide for them. From all appearances, a really good guy who loves his wife and kids a lot.

I can't comment on his posts because his wife will see it and then she'll be onto the fact that I am going to tell on her. Well, I just figured out how to reach him and I'm going to be calling him directly tomorrow around lunch time.

I've been thinking about how to word this. In my opinion, his wife has already betrayed him by reaching out to me. The only way I know her is that I am someone who went on one date with her and then she came over to my place the next weekend and we had sex a few times. There's zero reason she should be contacting me.

But she still has some plausible deniability at thia point, so my humble suggestion to her husband will be that I test her and share all of the communication with him so he can decide what to do based on her response to me.

So, that's my plan, but I'll do whatever he wants me to do, including fuck off if he chooses, but I think it would be unwise of him to overlook this. I don't want to insult him by saying that he simps for his wife, but man, he sure loves her and is always writing tribute posts to her about how she's the greatest wife and mother in the world. Meanwhile, he has no clue that she's reaching out to an old bang.

At least my conscious will be clear if I tell him the story and he chooses to ignore reality. I hope for his and his kid's sake that he is smart though and makes sure she is loyal to him.

Tldr: chick I banged 15 years who is now married with children sent me a friend request and I'm going to tell on her to her husband
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Good idea. Good luck. Sorry for the guy though.
 
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Personally I would just ignore it. It was a one off . And I wouldn't inform the husband. That could backfire on you badly.

If it was someone who you went to school with for several years with and slept with , yea , maybe they want to catch up. A one off , I'd leave alone .
 
I definitely don't think there's any red flag or anything wrong with what she's doing. People get bored on social media and friend request random people from their past just for more social media entertainment and people to talk to. It would be different if she was madly in love with you and you broke it off with her, and she rediscovered you and is catching feelings again.

Wait until she starts texting at 1am and is getting flirty, then maybe say something. Right now your argument is, "we banged in the past and she sent me a friend request so that means she wants to cheat on her husband."
 
Fug said:
In 2010, shortly after my divorce, I briefly dated a girl. We went on a date together and then the next weekend she came over to my place and we smashed. I was fresh off my divorce so I wasn't really ready for something serious.

We remained Facebook friends and I saw that a year or two later that she met another dude and that they were engaged. I was happy for her.

At one point, she posted on FB about watching a southpark episode with me, which she'd never seen before then, and how she thought it was pretty funny and I introduced her to the show.
I remember thinking that it was kind of messed up to be taking about it when she's now engaged.

Fast forward to less than a month ago and she sends me a friend request (I had started a new account after deleting the old one). She's been married for 12 years and has 4 kids with this guy.

I tried PMing the husband but he doesn't check messenger (can't blame him, Facebook is a stupid platform with their multiple apps for posting and messaging). So I did some sleuthing but couldn't figure out how to contact this guy.

So I went a little deeper reading his page. He posts all the time and you can tell that he really loves his family and works hard to provide for them. From all appearances, a really good guy who loves his wife and kids a lot.

I can't comment on his posts because his wife will see it and then she'll be onto the fact that I am going to tell on her. Well, I just figured out how to reach him and I'm going to be calling him directly tomorrow around lunch time.

I've been thinking about how to word this. In my opinion, his wife has already betrayed him by reaching out to me. The only way I know her is that I am someone who went on one date with her and then she came over to my place the next weekend and we had sex a few times. There's zero reason she should be contacting me.

But she still has some plausible deniability at thia point, so my humble suggestion to her husband will be that I test her and share all of the communication with him so he can decide what to do based on her response to me.

So, that's my plan, but I'll do whatever he wants me to do, including fuck off if he chooses, but I think it would be unwise of him to overlook this. I don't want to insult him by saying that he simps for his wife, but man, he sure loves her and is always writing tribute posts to her about how she's the greatest wife and mother in the world. Meanwhile, he has no clue that she's reaching out to an old bang.

At least my conscious will be clear if I tell him the story and he chooses to ignore reality. I hope for his and his kid's sake that he is smart though and makes sure she is loyal to him.

Tldr: chick I banged 15 years who is now married with children sent me a friend request and I'm going to tell on her to her husband
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What a ridiculous drama queen you are. You don‘t owe the husband any information. Just reject her contact request and don‘t reply to her, problem solved.

How inelegant lol.
 
Yes of course there's nothing wrong with a married woman friend requesting some man she used to fuck, I'm sure her husband knows all about it😂😂😂

You have to be delusional to think it's completely innocent, she's obviously bored and remembered a fun time........
 
She sounds bored
Is possible she just add random people of the past on socials, or she indeed want go whore, you can't know wich

Or somewhere in the middle, like no intention of physically cheat but for self esteem shit just open that apparently harmless virtual link and see if some ex would still want the older her to see if she "still got it" (wich usually end up with woman actually getting the D lol, but still)

But ignoring middle way, on that 50/50 i would not risk blow up the life of a random happy guy, because as soon you tell him at very least you may stick in his mind the suspect is latter case, when maybe is just former

Your random desire of be karma police agent may lead to more damage of whatever is being done, both for the guy or worse for the children

Personally only use i would make of all of this is to check if there's the actual chance IF i want to get some more fun time with her, i usually dodge married girls (specially if mothers) as is one of the few moral taboo i have
I would not want on me the weight of having ruined the family over a suspect i had, and btw if she's really in that mood chances are she'll get dick elsewhere and potentially get caught (or likely not), but not your job be sure divine thunder strike her while she's blowing the pizza guy

Also lol at some replies, with all respect with sherdog's large cucks community, if is'nt automatic red flag in the sense she may just being weird/bored and sure no reason for TS to go full crazy jumping in and wreck a family, is still sketchy af mother of 4 with happy husband add to her contacts random dude that had only sexual past with her

Bored wives tend to start pointless gimmicks that are no harm games till thing escape their hands and end up between their legs lol <lol>
 
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William Huggins said:
Yes of course there's nothing wrong with a married woman friend requesting some man she used to fuck, I'm sure her husband knows all about it😂😂😂

You have to be delusional to think it's completely innocent, she's obviously bored and remembered a fun time........
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Of course it‘s not innocent. Just saying that it would be ridiculous for TS to make a drama about it and go to the husband. A gentleman ignores these things.
 
Hmmmm.

If my wife randomly was friend requesting some guy she used to bang I might want to know about it.

Everyone here is downplaying the whole "used to bang" part.
 
Fug said:
In 2010, shortly after my divorce, I briefly dated a girl. We went on a date together and then the next weekend she came over to my place and we smashed. I was fresh off my divorce so I wasn't really ready for something serious.

We remained Facebook friends and I saw that a year or two later that she met another dude and that they were engaged. I was happy for her.

At one point, she posted on FB about watching a southpark episode with me, which she'd never seen before then, and how she thought it was pretty funny and I introduced her to the show.
I remember thinking that it was kind of messed up to be taking about it when she's now engaged.

Fast forward to less than a month ago and she sends me a friend request (I had started a new account after deleting the old one). She's been married for 12 years and has 4 kids with this guy.

I tried PMing the husband but he doesn't check messenger (can't blame him, Facebook is a stupid platform with their multiple apps for posting and messaging). So I did some sleuthing but couldn't figure out how to contact this guy.

So I went a little deeper reading his page. He posts all the time and you can tell that he really loves his family and works hard to provide for them. From all appearances, a really good guy who loves his wife and kids a lot.

I can't comment on his posts because his wife will see it and then she'll be onto the fact that I am going to tell on her. Well, I just figured out how to reach him and I'm going to be calling him directly tomorrow around lunch time.

I've been thinking about how to word this. In my opinion, his wife has already betrayed him by reaching out to me. The only way I know her is that I am someone who went on one date with her and then she came over to my place the next weekend and we had sex a few times. There's zero reason she should be contacting me.

But she still has some plausible deniability at thia point, so my humble suggestion to her husband will be that I test her and share all of the communication with him so he can decide what to do based on her response to me.

So, that's my plan, but I'll do whatever he wants me to do, including fuck off if he chooses, but I think it would be unwise of him to overlook this. I don't want to insult him by saying that he simps for his wife, but man, he sure loves her and is always writing tribute posts to her about how she's the greatest wife and mother in the world. Meanwhile, he has no clue that she's reaching out to an old bang.

At least my conscious will be clear if I tell him the story and he chooses to ignore reality. I hope for his and his kid's sake that he is smart though and makes sure she is loyal to him.

Tldr: chick I banged 15 years who is now married with children sent me a friend request and I'm going to tell on her to her husband
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If you don't want to accept her request, block her and be done with it, why do you get your balls twisted over it? Are you Sharia law police or the inquisition?
Also, I don't want to even start on how many willing cucks there are today.
 
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Stoic1 said:
Hmmmm.

If my wife randomly was friend requesting some guy she used to bang I might want to know about it.

Everyone here is downplaying the whole "used to bang" part.
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Not participating in adultery is one thing, ratting a person out over a friend request is another. I'd understand telling the husband if she met the TS and tried to suck him off, but a friend request is rather tame.
 
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ssBaldy said:
Not participating in adultery is one thing, ratting a person out over a friend request is another. I'd understand telling the husband if she met the TS and tried to suck him off, but a friend request is rather tame.
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A friend request to SOMEONE SHE USED TO BANG.

I notice everyone just overlooking that fact.
 
Stoic1 said:
A friend request to SOMEONE SHE USED TO BANG.

I notice everyone just overlooking that fact.
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I understand that, but didn't you notice that TS was going to go to her job to complain about some lady asking him stupid questions about the puppy in another thread?
He seems like a restless cunt who needs to tell on everybody for any possible reason.
Block her + optionally tell her to fuck off is normal behaviour, telling the husband she sent you a friend request is bitch made behaviour. I'd understand telling the husband if she sent TS unsolicited nudes or something like that but it does not seem to be the case.
 
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