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In 2010, shortly after my divorce, I briefly dated a girl. We went on a date together and then the next weekend she came over to my place and we smashed. I was fresh off my divorce so I wasn't really ready for something serious.
We remained Facebook friends and I saw that a year or two later that she met another dude and that they were engaged. I was happy for her.
At one point, she posted on FB about watching a southpark episode with me, which she'd never seen before then, and how she thought it was pretty funny and I introduced her to the show.
I remember thinking that it was kind of messed up to be taking about it when she's now engaged.
Fast forward to less than a month ago and she sends me a friend request (I had started a new account after deleting the old one). She's been married for 12 years and has 4 kids with this guy.
I tried PMing the husband but he doesn't check messenger (can't blame him, Facebook is a stupid platform with their multiple apps for posting and messaging). So I did some sleuthing but couldn't figure out how to contact this guy.
So I went a little deeper reading his page. He posts all the time and you can tell that he really loves his family and works hard to provide for them. From all appearances, a really good guy who loves his wife and kids a lot.
I can't comment on his posts because his wife will see it and then she'll be onto the fact that I am going to tell on her. Well, I just figured out how to reach him and I'm going to be calling him directly tomorrow around lunch time.
I've been thinking about how to word this. In my opinion, his wife has already betrayed him by reaching out to me. The only way I know her is that I am someone who went on one date with her and then she came over to my place the next weekend and we had sex a few times. There's zero reason she should be contacting me.
But she still has some plausible deniability at thia point, so my humble suggestion to her husband will be that I test her and share all of the communication with him so he can decide what to do based on her response to me.
So, that's my plan, but I'll do whatever he wants me to do, including fuck off if he chooses, but I think it would be unwise of him to overlook this. I don't want to insult him by saying that he simps for his wife, but man, he sure loves her and is always writing tribute posts to her about how she's the greatest wife and mother in the world. Meanwhile, he has no clue that she's reaching out to an old bang.
At least my conscious will be clear if I tell him the story and he chooses to ignore reality. I hope for his and his kid's sake that he is smart though and makes sure she is loyal to him.
Tldr: chick I banged 15 years who is now married with children sent me a friend request and I'm going to tell on her to her husband
We remained Facebook friends and I saw that a year or two later that she met another dude and that they were engaged. I was happy for her.
At one point, she posted on FB about watching a southpark episode with me, which she'd never seen before then, and how she thought it was pretty funny and I introduced her to the show.
I remember thinking that it was kind of messed up to be taking about it when she's now engaged.
Fast forward to less than a month ago and she sends me a friend request (I had started a new account after deleting the old one). She's been married for 12 years and has 4 kids with this guy.
I tried PMing the husband but he doesn't check messenger (can't blame him, Facebook is a stupid platform with their multiple apps for posting and messaging). So I did some sleuthing but couldn't figure out how to contact this guy.
So I went a little deeper reading his page. He posts all the time and you can tell that he really loves his family and works hard to provide for them. From all appearances, a really good guy who loves his wife and kids a lot.
I can't comment on his posts because his wife will see it and then she'll be onto the fact that I am going to tell on her. Well, I just figured out how to reach him and I'm going to be calling him directly tomorrow around lunch time.
I've been thinking about how to word this. In my opinion, his wife has already betrayed him by reaching out to me. The only way I know her is that I am someone who went on one date with her and then she came over to my place the next weekend and we had sex a few times. There's zero reason she should be contacting me.
But she still has some plausible deniability at thia point, so my humble suggestion to her husband will be that I test her and share all of the communication with him so he can decide what to do based on her response to me.
So, that's my plan, but I'll do whatever he wants me to do, including fuck off if he chooses, but I think it would be unwise of him to overlook this. I don't want to insult him by saying that he simps for his wife, but man, he sure loves her and is always writing tribute posts to her about how she's the greatest wife and mother in the world. Meanwhile, he has no clue that she's reaching out to an old bang.
At least my conscious will be clear if I tell him the story and he chooses to ignore reality. I hope for his and his kid's sake that he is smart though and makes sure she is loyal to him.
Tldr: chick I banged 15 years who is now married with children sent me a friend request and I'm going to tell on her to her husband
