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snigg
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i just started bjj a few weeks ago. i used to be an athlete, played just about every sport but really stopped being active when i went to college. i still get gassed while rolling, but ive taught myself to relax and that has helped tremendously. i still sit out while rolling occasionally. sometimes to catch a breather, most times to watch others. like you, i am lost on passing guard and other basics, but just ask your partners to help you out and they will. i was intimidated when i started mostly because i thought i would just get my ass kicked and everyone would be assholes, but it is completely opposite. well i do get my ass kicked, but everyone is very helpful and understands that everyone has to start somewhere. keep at it bro..