Andrew Tate is a dirtbag.
The Manosphere stuff is an overblown bogeyman, by and large.
Men are stronger than women, and throughout history different societies have struggled with how men are to treat women, given their greater physical strength. Women have significantly more advantages in modern Western societies, so the dynamic has changed and modern Western societies are still struggling with the question of how men should treat women.
The big difference now is we have mass media to both raise awareness but also potentially to warp the conversation.