Relationships So, my entire family hate me, except my mother....... who barely tolerates me. Ees normaal?

Does this read like some white people problems "Ugggh everyone hates me momy" ? I mean what has happened ? MAybe you´re just vibing negative and complaining. Or what are the problems, what have you done ?
 
Home_Slice said:
Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.
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You must be the unwanted child
 
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Home_Slice said:
Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.
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What could be the root of the problem? Did you do something a long time ago?
 
I dunno, the Triggered Pepe might be your first path at enlightenment. I would start there and work around.
 
OP sounds like an unreliable witness. We'd need to send an independent sherbro investigator to observe the family dynamics, and report back on what "the problem" is. Usually if people don't like you there's some sort of reason for it that makes sense. I can believe his family doesn't like him, but I don't know that he really understands the reason behind it. There are families that are judgmental and if you don't do certain things like become a [insert high status position], get rich, etc, then you're a pariah. Usually people know that though.
 
I literally talk to nobody from my family. It's more my choice. They used to try and reach out to me but I always ignored it.
 
I was about to make a joke about how everyone here hates him too. That would be mean.
 
Renard said:
OP sounds like an unreliable witness. We'd need to send an independent sherbro investigator to observe the family dynamics, and report back on what "the problem" is. Usually if people don't like you there's some sort of reason for it that makes sense. I can believe his family doesn't like him, but I don't know that he really understands the reason behind it. There are families that are judgmental and if you don't do certain things like become a [insert high status position], get rich, etc, then you're a pariah. Usually people know that though.
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Where's that dude who went to check on the crazy guy in Thailand? He's like our official reporter on the scene.
 
GhostZ06 said:
lol ok yeah you just sounds like a self centered douche bag who thinks hes god greatest gift to mankind because your Stacked and jacked. How old are you 15?

They have a great reason to hate you. Sounds like youre a pure bread asshole who needs to be taken down a peg.
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Reminds me of this:

I once said to someone, "Sorry, I don't mean to be an ass...."

And she said, "Oh, so you come by it naturally... got it."
 
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