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Relationships So, my entire family hate me, except my mother....... who barely tolerates me. Ees normaal?

Home_Slice said:
They resent me.

My sisters were wanna-be Diva's in their youth who couldn't pull it off (though they have great and well paid jobs and families).
Their husbands were virgins before they met them, now they're skinny dorks with devastating inferiority complexes.

My father was a poof in another life (though again, respectable, never abusive, always worked etc).

My mother is a bit of a nutter but on some level, my being the only son, she has a soft spot for me somewhere (again, worked all her life though, good lifestyle etc).

Me?

Dude above said it right. I'm stacked, jacked, chicks love me (sometimes love to hate me), I go against their conventional "family value" grain. I'm all about my hair and my muscles and being stacked and the object of many women's sexual desire.

They just hate me. I'm that guy they hate.

I lived with an old Asian woman one time, horrible ugly fatty. She HATED me, burning hatred.
But one time in the living room she was basically masturbating whilst staring at me.

It's creepy as fuck, but it's that kind of vibe.
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I totally understand why everyone hates you now.
 
Home_Slice said:
Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.
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I'm sorry to have to break it to you, but it isn't any better for you on Sherdog.

As an aside, this is the type of horrible thread that is coming from mostly new posters that I talked about in the "everyone's gone" thread.

Was it always this shite or was I looking through rose colored glasses about old Sherdog?
 
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Home_Slice said:
Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.
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So you gave Zero context on why instead just this boohoo fest ?
 
Home_Slice said:
They resent me.

My sisters were wanna-be Diva's in their youth who couldn't pull it off (though they have great and well paid jobs and families).
Their husbands were virgins before they met them, now they're skinny dorks with devastating inferiority complexes.

My father was a poof in another life (though again, respectable, never abusive, always worked etc).

My mother is a bit of a nutter but on some level, my being the only son, she has a soft spot for me somewhere (again, worked all her life though, good lifestyle etc).

Me?

Dude above said it right. I'm stacked, jacked, chicks love me (sometimes love to hate me), I go against their conventional "family value" grain. I'm all about my hair and my muscles and being stacked and the object of many women's sexual desire.

They just hate me. I'm that guy they hate.

I lived with an old Asian woman one time, horrible ugly fatty. She HATED me, burning hatred.
But one time in the living room she was basically masturbating whilst staring at me.

It's creepy as fuck, but it's that kind of vibe.
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lol ok yeah you just sounds like a self centered douche bag who thinks hes god greatest gift to mankind because your Stacked and jacked. How old are you 15?

They have a great reason to hate you. Sounds like youre a pure bread asshole who needs to be taken down a peg.
 
Home_Slice said:
They resent me.

My sisters were wanna-be Diva's in their youth who couldn't pull it off (though they have great and well paid jobs and families).
Their husbands were virgins before they met them, now they're skinny dorks with devastating inferiority complexes.

My father was a poof in another life (though again, respectable, never abusive, always worked etc).

My mother is a bit of a nutter but on some level, my being the only son, she has a soft spot for me somewhere (again, worked all her life though, good lifestyle etc).

Me?

Dude above said it right. I'm stacked, jacked, chicks love me (sometimes love to hate me), I go against their conventional "family value" grain. I'm all about my hair and my muscles and being stacked and the object of many women's sexual desire.

They just hate me. I'm that guy they hate.

I lived with an old Asian woman one time, horrible ugly fatty. She HATED me, burning hatred.
But one time in the living room she was basically masturbating whilst staring at me.

It's creepy as fuck, but it's that kind of vibe.
Click to expand...

dude profiles like this haven’t been funny or interesting since like 2013. Give it a rest friend.
 
Home_Slice said:
Anyone else in a similar position?

Having just come through Christmas, and attended another family event shortly thereafter, the reality is now blindingly obvious.

Basically every member of my family seem to resent the hell out of me, and use every possible opportunity to be silently obnoxious as possible.

I have two sisters whose husbands positively hate me, always have, and by extension, my siblings hate me.

My father never liked me but I didn't care but now he seems to be expressing his dislike more openly.

By extension, my mother spends only the minimum amount of time around me, as my father seems to interpret any more than that as him being ignored.
Plus both parents have one foot in the grave.

Is what it is.

But Jebus, I always thought it was only "other people" that would find themselves in this type of situation.
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So...how much have you stolen off them to fuel your drug habit?
 
Nah it's not normal. Of course it happens and some level of finding each other annoying is common, but what you describe isn't normal. Which is bad news because it means your situation sucks, but it's good news since at least the world isn't all that crap - like, it would suck if it was normal and you were the only person in the world who felt like it shouldn't be.

I won't agree with those who say the problem is necessarily you. It could be you, it could be them or it could be all of you. Some families are dysfunctional units throughout. For example, if the parents are very dysfunctional, there's a good chance all the kids are too, in their own ways. My mum has a bunch of siblings and they've all had adulthood feuds with each other at some point. It's hard to say one of them is the problem.
Sometimes someone is the scapegoat or black sheep, for some reason that isn't their fault, at least in the sense of having poor behaviour or moral flaw. For example, they may be shy or smart in a family where this is disliked. Sometimes a child is abused by a family and if they speak out it's soiling the family name, so they become a black sheep - it's clearly not their fault, at least in a moral sense or in the sense that their was an obvious better alternative for them to try. However, even in these cases they might go on to have their own toxic behaviour towards their family, because the relationship already has baggage to it.
That you said your father always disliked you tells me it's probably not entirely you, because no child should grow up feeling like their parent dislikes them.

This is really just my general thoughts and not specifically about you, cuz I don't know your situation.
 
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